| Do u ever get over your first love??
Posted: 7/4/2009 3:36:17 PM | Everyone always says you will never get over your first love and you will never forget them.. and most people say you will always end up getting back together with ur first love..well my first love was wen i was 15 and at 17 i fell pregnant to him an we seperated durin the pregnancy.. that was 3 years ago and he has caused so much trouble with his child and hasnt wnated to see her since she was 2 months old. i have a mixture of emotions towards him and i really dont know if i love him or hate him. i hate him 4 wat his put me an our child through but then again i think i still love him. he has tolf friends of mine that he will always love me.. if that true whu did he turn his back on us.
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| Do u ever get over your first love??
Posted: 7/4/2009 8:21:18 PM |
Do u really ever get over your first love??
This guy is not good for you, because he is not helping you when he should. Get on with your life because he does not love you. If he loved you he would take care of you and your baby. I know it’s obvious, but at times the obvious needs to be spelled out!
I first fell in love at age 17, a day hasn’t passed in my life since that I haven’t thought of her and I'm 49 now! So in my case I guess I’ll never get over my first love. | |
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| Do u ever get over your first love??
Posted: 7/4/2009 9:36:29 PM | I can tell you that after 27 years....I am over it, but I can never forget.
Today I know I loved others more than him. But he will always be in my
memory as my first love. I was lucky he was a good man. | |
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| Do u ever get over your first love??
Posted: 7/4/2009 9:58:14 PM | | Got over it two years ago. Anything before that I was probably too young/naieve to understand the real meaning of love. | |
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| Do u ever get over your first love??
Posted: 7/4/2009 10:44:09 PM | It depends how into them you were. I sometimes think I am over him but then other times something may happen and I get sad and wonder what if?
So it all depends! I tend to be over emotional anyway. | |
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| Do u ever get over your first love??
Posted: 7/4/2009 11:00:34 PM | This is definately a trick question if you say no the people considering your profile does a forum search and your busted no date because you are not over your ex. If you say yes the question rises within yourself did you ever really love the person.
On the other hand. I am in my thirties with three long term relationships that have ended. I feel that I love each of them still all for different reasns. I keep in touch with most of them and can see how their life has turned out all for the good I am happy for them and sometimes envious.
Also I think where there is first love and deep hurt at the same time it is difficult to overcome unless one has the will of an ox. Especially with children involved. Props to the OX.
cheers | |
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| Do u ever get over your first love??
Posted: 7/5/2009 9:18:24 AM | I like this question because I had such a difficult time getting over mine. I think the answer is definitely different for everyone. I think it also is dependent on the circumstances surrounding the timing of it and other things.
First love, true love, does not happen to everyone. Also, is the true love mutual? Have one of the people in the party done something unforgivable in the other person's eyes?
When love is held by one and not the other, I believe it can make it all that much more painful. Unless the one in love can come to terms with the other person's choice, to not love them anymore.
I believe one has to make the choice to move on and get over it. The sooner the better. Learn to recognize the different stages of grief you may be going through.
Denial is like the first step. Research the topic. Learn to let go and accept your loss. The loss is real. That is not to say you are destined to never be together again, even though it may really be unlikely. | |
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| Do u ever get over your first love??
Posted: 7/5/2009 9:41:12 AM | | I deff do not want back with him 4 wat hes put my child thru.. tellin me he wants to see her then changin his mind at the last minite.. its jus at times wen i see him i think wat it wud hav been like if i didnt end it with him.. its so confusin | |
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| Do u ever get over your first love??
Posted: 7/5/2009 3:59:38 PM | It took me a very very long time to get over my first love and it was a real hard thing to do.
Then I felt I found a second love but she let me down when I needed her the most after the 5 months and 24/7 we spent together and I thought we were supposed to be there for each other as we had talked about so many times and nights through tears and everything else.
No you never ever truly get over a love that you felt deep in your heart of hearts was true.
I wish you the best of luck with prayers added that you find some form of peace is getting over your pain. | |
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| Do u ever get over your first love??
Posted: 7/5/2009 5:28:12 PM | SWEETY................i never knew there was such a thing as first love.......however there
is .....hey lets go have sex and if things work out we'll stay together.......because we're
drunk,happy,horny,perhaps we're meant for each other...........etc...etc...etc.............
.....................When you truly,truly fall in love ........that will be your first and only love.......but if you want to call this sperm bank your "first love" ok? mmmm ....see
if you can get some family support around you hun...... | |
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| Do u ever get over your first love??
Posted: 7/5/2009 5:48:14 PM | Oh God yes.
Thank God you get over one, two, three, four and so on.
God man If we didnt we would be more of a head case than we
already are.
First love - yeah it hurts because he is usually the first one you do
everything with and because we are so freaking emotional on so many
freaking levels we just pine on it for a real long time -then the next guy
comes along - yeah he is the second guy you ball. You think, wow he is
not as really good as the first guy. Oh My First Love.
Then the third guy comes along - yeah he got it going on as good as the first
guy and not as dead as the second guy but you need the second guy to be able
to see that he sucks and the third guy just is a culmination of the first guy without
all the emotion. Now your ready to forget all and marry the fourth guy.
I will be honest. I found my first loves school ring the other day so I am thinking
about getting in touch with him to see where I can send it in case he wants to
give it to his daughter because I know of his daughter. I have heard he is divorced
so I will make sure I just send it to him. I was with him for 15 years and I dont
think its in his best interest to see me. I think I have aged wayyyyyyy better
than him. ; ) | |
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| Do u ever get over your first love??
Posted: 7/6/2009 1:27:10 AM | Maby I am just strainge,but I honistly am not sure WHAT a first love is. I was raped at 19 while still a virgin. The next man I met, I only had sex with him one time and got pregnant,and he took off as soon as he found out I was pregnant.
While 3 months pregnant I married a man I had met a year earlier and really cared a lot about him, we got married, had my son,and him and I had a son together, 3 years after our marrage, he shipped me and the sons off to my parents and shacked up with another woman.
So I would have to say m;y FIRST true love was my 2nd husband. I loved him so very much. I do not know WHY he even asked me to marry him or married me, because he kept trying to change me into someone I was not. 11 months after our marrage he divorced me. ----- So 1st Love, I do not know: The man I loved the very most was the man I met in 1992, we got married in 1994, were together for 16 years, I loved him so so so very much, then in March this year 2009, he just popped up one day said I want a dviorce and just like that after 16 years together he was gone. Now I am alone, Just my 29 year old son and I and my dogs and cats.
So I am begining to think LOVE SUCKS. all it has gotten me is hurt. | |
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| Do u ever get over your first love??
Posted: 7/6/2009 2:25:23 AM | You do get over your first love but you dont really forget them.
You never will because he's the father of your child.
I think you should find someone who will love and respect both you and your daughter. | |
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| Do u ever get over your first love??
Posted: 7/6/2009 9:05:14 AM | yes you do...and almost always you will look back and smile.
my son is 16 and in a relationship with his first love, ...watching makes me want that again,.... bad | |
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| Do u ever get over your first love??
Posted: 7/6/2009 9:20:34 AM | just keep on hating the guy. you will find someone to treat both you and the wee one right any boy can bring a child into the world but it takes a man to be there for the people they love. my birth father was never in my life but my dad has been there since i was 2 and raised me the same as his own
 hell even my friend fell in love with a girl and has changed from being a drunken numpty to someone that is going to make sure he's going to do the best for her and her kid | |
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| Do u ever get over your first love??
Posted: 7/6/2009 7:55:36 PM | First love in the second grade with a little chinese girl that wanted nothing to do with me. I used to chase her and try to kiss her. I was chasing her one day and ran face first smack into a flagpole....She moved at the end of the year. I got over her by the time I hit the third grade.
Yes, you do get over it and you will never forget them. Put the past where it belongs , behind you and move forward. The saying goes, "If you put one foot in tommorrow and one foot in yesterday, you will be sh!tting on today". Good luck, you and your child.
Checked you profile...I think I'm in love again ; ) . Does that make me pervy?  | |
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