| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 7/4/2009 9:50:18 PM | I am wondering....As I read many posts in the various Forums, all I see is people bad mouthing, putting down, or talking badly about their ex's.
I am wondering if anyone has good things to say about their ex. Especially those that made the decision to end it. However,those dumped may chime in.
It's easy for those dumped to say good things about the one that dumped them if they still ant a chance with them. But how about those of you that were the dumper.
Do you have good things to say about the one you dumped?
I'm not asking you to give reason or details as to why you dumped them. Just want to know if you can still say good things about them. After all, you cared for them at one time, so there must be some qualities you still like or even miss about the ex.
Please....for the purpose of this thread, DO NOT respond with your bad feelings, hatred, and put-downs . There are way to many threads for you to go tell of your hate or what-ever. So PLEASE... if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing at all. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 7/4/2009 9:54:33 PM | I took a customer service course a few years ago. A customer is 10 times as likely to badmouth a company for one bad experience than to give them kudos for 50 good ones.
The most common thing written about problem relationships on PoF is "The sex was great, but....." | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 7/4/2009 9:54:47 PM | | I do not associate with any of my exes. Once I ended those relationships I ensured all ties were severed permanentely and from my perspective no regrets. Nope nothing positive to say about them at all. They're over, history, finished. They're in the past and that's where they'll remain. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 7/4/2009 9:59:44 PM | I moved in with my now ex-girlfriend after 6 good months, only for her to turn around and leave me 6 months later after discovering that she still loved some guy in California. So I had to break the lease and spend hundreds of dollars to get out of that situation and move back to my old apartment. Then a couple weeks later I lost my job, which put me even more in debt after I couldn't find anything after a few weeks.
I'm happy to report that she's married with a daughter now. So good for her. Meanwhile, I'm still trying to pay off the debt I owe and can't seem to find a decent woman. Thanks a lot, God.. I really deserved that 
No. I have nothing good to say about her | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 7/4/2009 9:59:57 PM | Yes of course, you can always find negative and positive things about a person...
It is just if you get hurt you tend to get bitter.
But hopefully after a while most people stop being bitter and perhaps can think in a different perspection of the person.... | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 7/4/2009 10:00:45 PM | | I think I can save some good things about my ex~ She was kind of funny, friendly & very caring at times. She belied in me & gave me a chance when I wouldn't even do that for myself. She taught me to how to feel & express my emotions. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 7/4/2009 10:01:38 PM | | My ex gave me three beautifull children.....and she has good teeth....thats all I got. There are alot of reasons why people hold animosity toward thier ex's and in the real world it not all sunshine and rainbows, there are liars and cheaters, abusers and users why would we want to say good things about them......I dont go out of my way to put them in any kind of negative light but the truth is the truth... | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 7/4/2009 10:02:23 PM | | As for my exhusband of 18 years, only good thing i could say is he still has a job so the state can garnish his wages for child support. As for my exboyfriend of 4 years, was his decision to part ways due to medical reasons on his part. I can't say enough good things about that man, and i still do after parting 3 years ago. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 7/4/2009 10:05:03 PM | Yeah. She left me as soon as she told me she was into open relationships.
Had she continued staying with me.. I might have strangled her secondary play toy if I ever found out about him. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 7/4/2009 10:05:18 PM | | My ex...he was a wonderful person in many ways. Just because we werent compatible in the end, does not diminish his worthiness as a great companion. I learned plenty during my marriage and accept my share of the responsibilities for its demise. That does not mean we failed, we chose to find greater success with someone else. What I need from my partner today is considerably different than what I was looking for during my marriage....we all grow, and hopefully learn from our experiences. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 7/4/2009 10:05:55 PM | | I have healthly well balanced kids that my ex helped concieve...I must admit I have the highest respect for every man that i've ever been in a relationship with, it was hard to see the beauty that each man bought into my life at the time, but i wouldn't change them for the world...For all the men that i've loved before thank you for being exactly as you are. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 7/4/2009 10:18:56 PM | I've had some great relationships. I believe that we spend time with people, no matter what capacity, to learn lessons and grow as a person. So, I don't necessarily believe that we're only supposed to be with one person for the rest of our lives. As much as it hurts when a relationship ends, if we are honestly looking back, then each contact we've had with people has brought us a little closer up the ladder of evolving as a human being.
With that I mean, that maybe the last relationship lasted for much longer, because we'd learned things about ourselves in the relationship before. And if we hadn't had that lesson, then the last relationship would have never gotten off the ground.
Sure that are often times things that the other person may have done that we deem unfair and they left scars, that we still react to. BUT, I don't really look back and have a lot of regrets of the times I've spent with certain men. Some of the situations I must needed to go through in order to go on. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 7/4/2009 10:20:37 PM | He taught me very early in life what the meaning of love was - and the meaning of hate.
I am kind of bitter at him for how he screwed everything up because I haven't felt either since. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 7/4/2009 10:30:59 PM | | Ohhhh yes I do. My exwife was fantastic in bed. She knew what it took and how to do it. If you don't believe me ask almost any man it town, they will know. If they don't they are lying to protect their own hides. I can name at least 14 right off the top of my head. Hows that? Nice enough? One more thing, when she finally left she took our dog with her, that was 20 years ago and I still miss my dog. Easyjohn | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 7/4/2009 10:35:03 PM | I have a lot of good to say about my ex, and he was the one dumped. We were together 3 1/2 years. He was so much fun, spontaneous, and very free-spirited. He was the love of my life, and I still have a lot of love for him today. He was great to my son. He is still in my son's life even though he is not the real father, but being that we were together so long they developed a huge bond that can never be taken away.
He just could not give up the bar scene and settle down. I was ready to move toward marraige, and extend out family and he was not. We have been broke up almost 2 years. He admits to everybody that I was great, and I was the one he let get away. He says his lose the next ones gain. We could never get back together because of the things that have happened since the breakup. But we remain good friends. | |
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