| 4th Date/Friend gone bad in the last month
Posted: 10/17/2004 7:34:18 PM | I am haveing a realy bad time with dates. I was just getting ready to meet a girl that I have been friends with for over 2 years might be going on 3 now, I cant exactly remember. Anyways, everything was going good. We where going to get together and hang out as boyfriend girlfriend and see how we fit together. I even asked her if she would like to move in next summer when I buy a double wide trailer with 2 acers of land. I just got a message from her about 20 min ago... She says * I AM THE BIGGEST F* WH*RE IN RENO I HAVE HAD EVERY STD THERE IS AND I MAY HAVE AIDS SO IF U WOULD STILL LIKE TO TALK TO ME THEN IM ME IF NOT SEND ME AN IM AND TELL ME TOO HAVE A NICE DAY *
I sent several replies to it asking her whats happening ? Whats going on ? I gave her my cell phone number and other meens of communication.
I dont know what to do, I have gone on so many dates, gone head over heals for a couple of them, got my pocket picked by one, got used by another, and one that just kept lieing. I feel more like falling in love with my computer and car than even trying to get another girl. I am tired of being friends for several months or years to get close enough to kiss them and then, bam. No contact or they get aids, or some other wierd thing happens. | |
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| 4th Date/Friend gone bad in the last month
Posted: 10/17/2004 7:47:58 PM | I even asked her if she would like to move in next summer when I buy a double wide trailer with 2 acers of land.
you can't be serious with that? did you seriously ask her to move into your double wide trailer?
it sounds like she's had enough of you but is going about telling you very immaturely. my advice: move out of the trailer. | |
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| 4th Date/Friend gone bad in the last month
Posted: 10/17/2004 7:53:24 PM | | If I was makeing more money, and the economy wasnt so bad, I would buy a house. All I can afford is a trailer with some land. I was laid off 3 times, and finnaly have a good job because I moved over 600 miles from friends. | |
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| 4th Date/Friend gone bad in the last month
Posted: 10/17/2004 9:11:24 PM | move into a house and you'll have an easier time with women-that should be your first priority
most women don't like a man who isn't financially secure
sorry it's just the way things are | |
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Ruby_
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Joined: 7/10/2004
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| 4th Date/Friend gone bad in the last month
Posted: 10/18/2004 6:15:04 AM | careingfriend...there was nothing wrong with your offer.
A mobile home is a good alternative to a house. It is all about the land and 2 acres is awesome. You could build on it later if you wanted to. Mobile homes have a bad reputation because some of the mobilehome parks let themselves get run down and will let anything on wheels camp there. To call a mobile home, mobile is really a mistake. They are starting to be called mini homes and for many years now they are being built to code just like a fixed house.
The Jerry Springer show doesn't help the reputation of the mini home either, calling people trailer trash.
Keep on working towards your goals and get yourself your home. I am sure a nice lady will find you. | |
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| 4th Date/Friend gone bad in the last month
Posted: 10/18/2004 6:50:17 AM | I supposed owning the trailer with the 2 acres is better than nothing at all.. You are still young, it takes time to build your home. At least you are honest and upfront with what you have. If someone is not willing to share that with you or work towards owning a house with you eventually, she is not worthy of your love.. Someone who truly love you for who you are will want to do it together with you. That will take a very special lady to want that commitment which mean you need to be patient.. What you have is time on your hand, so don't rush.. All the best.
Hui Ching | |
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Vanni
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Joined: 9/6/2004
Msg: 7 | |
| 4th Date/Friend gone bad in the last month
Posted: 10/18/2004 7:15:37 AM | ok omg, i cant believe theses girl are saying " oh its just a trailer , i guess its ok for now". WTH is that all abt... Materialist ppls uh! Well careingfriend i think its not the trailer thats fur sure . where i use to live small town in province of Quebec lot of ppls had trailers as houses its all good man:) Anyways i think u were maybe moving a lil to fast asking here already abt moving in... But to the sounds of it looks like she was looking for a reason to get out of it in the first place and by asking her that BOOM but she could of atleast said straight front instead of probably making up this story.. If it is true man this girl needs help ..
Ok to come back to the trailer part with a lil piece of land... I think thats great , yes its not a house BUT u have something u can say is YURS :) I think thats great :) | |
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| 4th Date/Friend gone bad in the last month
Posted: 10/24/2004 11:08:21 AM | First of all, I've got to agree with Vanni... The house, car, whatever, who cares? I'm a little suprised by some of the responses to your post. I didn't pick up you were asking about the trailer, but whatever.
I had a similar experience with my first girlfriend, which may not relate to what you're wanting to know but I thought I would share it:
I met a beautiful cheerleader when I was in HS from a couple of towns over. This girl was awesome, way out of my league. We talked on the phone for a couple of months, I went to see her on the weekends, etc... One night, we kissed and after the kiss I told her I loved her. She smiled and walked away. I can still remember exactly where we were standing, the lights, everything.
A few days later she calls me crying. She tells me that she has dated almost everyone in her town, is considered a wh!re and is sure I don't ever want to see her again. The thing was, I really fell for this girl. I told her I loved, didn't care what anyone else thought and wanted to be with her (not just sexually). We began dating and long story short(er), it was the best relationship of my life. We dated for a couple of years, broke it off and got back together several years later for a few months.
After we got back together the last time, I was immature, rushed things and let jealousy get the best of me. I destroyed the relationship but think about her everyday and thank god for the experience.
Again, may not relate but that's my 2 cents. If this woman actually has AIDS, though, your situation is a little more complicated and you should be careful. I have to wonder, though, if she isn't trying to push you away because she doesn't feel she is good enough. | |
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| 4th Date/Friend gone bad in the last month
Posted: 3/8/2005 6:46:50 PM | | Listen....Buy the doublewide...Be proud of it.... Dont take a bunch of you know what from anybody and relax..... It will come!!!!!! Good luck!!! | |
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| 4th Date/Friend gone bad in the last month
Posted: 3/8/2005 7:13:19 PM | I cannot believe the snobs on here that think a doublewide is a bad thing! I'm guess that's a thing to put on one's profile - whether a doublewide is a no-no!
And I think your girl is having a personal crisis and will talk to you in time. Sounds like she did some things that have scared the crap out of her and she will calm down eventually. Just tell her you care and you will listen when she's ready to talk. | |
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