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Posted: 7/5/2009 12:55:52 PM | | my girl is into this fantasy rape thing. any one familiar with this? she brought this up to me and im not sure what to think about it. she also likes being caught and watched which is kind of hot also. does anyone ahve any experience with this rape thing. please let me know. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 1:14:10 PM | Mine likes it when I hold her throat rather forcefully during sex, but being careful not to apply too much pressure. And since I like doing this from behind, it can be nice for me too.
Being caught and watched- nice. There used to be a place, probably still there, in Houston which lets you watch people have sex, or you can have sex in a room and let people watch you. The cover was $15, towels and whatnots provided in the rooms. Basically 1 price free for all. Or you might just try getting a room in a public area, like downtown, open the shades and lean her up (front side facing window) against the window for a warm up.
Heh, who knows- maybe we're seeing the same gal :) | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 1:19:01 PM |
my girl is into this fantasy rape thing. any one familiar with this? she brought this up to me and im not sure what to think about it. she also likes being caught and watched which is kind of hot also.
Two questions
Where can I find this woman and how fast can she run? | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 1:25:31 PM | | When you are talking dirty to each other, have her describe it to you as a fantasy, and that way you'll get an idea of what she has in mind. It probably has a lot more to do with light bondage and rough talk than getting hit with a brick or threatened with a knife. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 1:36:06 PM |
my girl is into this fantasy rape thing. any one familiar with this? she brought this up to me and im not sure what to think about it. she also likes being caught and watched which is kind of hot also. does anyone ahve any experience with this rape thing. please let me know.
does? "Your Girl" as you put it know about your Fantasy Dating account here on POF??? | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 1:38:49 PM | Reckless, good one!! Two big thumbs up for you 
The OP's profile indicates he's looking for a girl | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 1:40:16 PM | Oh lord- you guys realize he may have met the girl on PoF, or another site, and simply hasn't updated his account here?
Good lord folks, some of ya'll are more pedantic in ways that blow even me away. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 1:47:55 PM | Open minds, open hearts.
The 'high ground' isn't difficult to achieve, just believe it, do it/live it. In my case I'm a horribly pedantic person, or have been in my life, but I've also been chatting around these things before there was an internet- 21 years to be exact. I've seen a lot, most of it the same after 2 decades. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 1:50:44 PM |
Open minds, open hearts.
The 'high ground' isn't difficult to achieve, just believe it, do it/live it. In my case I'm a horribly pedantic person, or have been in my life, but I've also been chatting around these things before there was an internet- 21 years to be exact. I've seen a lot, most of it the same after 2 decades.
hey dude what ever.....flaots yer boat.........knock yer self out. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 3:04:01 PM | | My ex liked it rough but...I'm not sure about rape. Unfortunately I'll never know. : ( | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 3:29:12 PM | Fantasy rape?
What is that, being raped by a wizard on a gryphon? | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 3:57:43 PM | Fantasy Rape is one of the top 10 scenarios women list. I've Role Played this one several times. As Azalea7 pointed out, you have to find out the specifics of her fantasy and then try to create it as closely as possible. I would strongly advise setting up a safe word.
A few months ago I posted a question about the Rape Fantasy as I was curious what the motivation behind this particular fantasy was. The consensus was that it's a way for the girl to experience or explore things that they wouldn't normally do. I think that it's also a power exchange....giving you complete control and the freedom to do anything you want.
Doyle | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 4:38:21 PM | This one always bothered me...
I'm down with being freaky if the moment calls for it, but when a girl says no, I stop. End of discussion.
When a girl says No and means Yes? Well that is just silly.
If this is something that you're BOTH cool with, then BE SAFE, and more power too ya'.
This is one of a very small list of things that I ABSOLUTELY WOULD NOT DO for any girl. I'm very open minded about sex, but for F***S Sake... One man's pleasure is another man's great reason to break up with someone. lol
(Things that make ya go... buuuuh. -_-) | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 4:48:56 PM | Dude,
You have yourself a gem. Most women are too prudish to talk about their deepest desires, for fear of rejection. They would rather us figure it out for them, so that they do not lose the power.
Obviously she is candid in her suggestions. Do the right thing and fulfill it. Like another post suggest, offer a safe word. But I would go one step further and get it on paper, tape, video something to cover your azz. With a rape fantasy, it is one sided if she decided to go to the cops and say that you raped her.
Be creative and open to suggestion. I will tell you, you will fulfill an animalistic mentality within your own self and she will definately enjoy it! | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 5:09:13 PM | 'fantasy rape' - I just could not do that and to think some women (apparently) love it
I mean it's rape!! just can't get past it why would you want to fantasize about something so sick
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Posted: 7/5/2009 5:38:28 PM | | This is something I could never do. I'm all for having fun, but rape is not something that sound fun to me. I'd have to pass. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 5:45:51 PM | Agreed. I think it indicates some pretty profound psychological issues.
And what if you fall off the gryphon? | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 5:45:54 PM | | I had an old girlfriend who was into this as well. Problem was that I could never go far enough for her. It can be fun up to a certain point, but she wanted me to call her names and stuff and I'm just not wired to do things that way. Give it a try, just make sure you have a code word to stop. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 6:05:22 PM | From what I've heard/read etc., the fantasy rape isn't really "rape". Meaning she doesn't want you to break into her house wearing a ski mask, put a knife to her throat, have your way and then when it's over take off the mask and say "Hey babe, did you like that?"
It's probably more about you taking control, maybe tieing her up, being a little rough and forceful. Normal sex is about give and take. You do what she likes, she does what you like, everybody walks away happy. Well the fantasy here is you just take what you want. She probably gets off on having zero control over the encounter. I had a gf a few years back who had a "rape fantasy" and what I described is exactly what she wanted.
Only one way to find out and that's to ask her and see if it's something you can be comfortable with. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 6:36:17 PM | If you go with it, remember to watch her and see if she don't flashback to when she may have been actually attacked. There three types of people who like this form of sex:
1) Subs
2)Victims of sexual abuse
3) Freaks
Find out which 1 she is. Hopefully she is just a sub. | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 6:51:10 PM | Guessing I am an old fuddy-duddy.
From what I have read, rapist do not love women but are very insecure psychos who belong in prison or wherever.
Fanaticizing about it is another story – which I really do not understand and have never experienced; but if she likes that sort of thing, go for it.
As said, am a lusty traditional male who enjoys leisurely pleasuring someone who happily enjoys my efforts.
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Posted: 7/5/2009 8:27:09 PM | I think if you check the kinsey report, you'll find that the rape fantasy is one of the most common female erotic fantasies.
The key esssential elements of the fantasy are a loss of control for the woman, combined with a gentle, forceful, controlling, and insistent sexual approach.
If your GF is asking for this, it is really important to here. Women don't like to reveal their needs and fantasies.
Ask her for details, and then remember them.
If you decide to pursue this, there are rules.
- don't apologize.
- don't push it farther than she has described.
- don't say more than need be ( silence let's her imagination fill in the dialogue.)
I would suggest you begin by coming home with her one evening. As you kiss her, you grab her hair. Then whisper in her ear that you want her, and you will have here, no matter what she wants. Then make love to her in the usual way, holding her hair, and perhaps spanking her on the bottom.
Rape fantasy is about losing control.
Ketch | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 8:44:53 PM | A friend of mine who is Male, Actually Likes Rape Sex as well
so its just not a womans Fantasy | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 9:03:01 PM | Pitchin' or catchin'?
Actually nevermind, both are equally disturbing. | |
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