| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/5/2009 5:53:54 PM | | Ok his the problem, if a man only last for about 2 to 3 mins during sex, how can we fix this.. Is it a physical problem??? I'm honestly not kidding it doesnt last more then a few mins... Aswell during sex he tells me to stop moving or it will make his cum faster.. Is he just trying to finish things off because his not attacted to me?? Is he having sex with some else? Ive ask him, and he says his stress .... Man what do you think? | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/5/2009 5:59:32 PM | There's numbing creams out there that'll help Mr. Quickdick rein in his horses, so to speak. Chances are he's cripplingly embarassed by his performance as is, so breach the subject lightly.
Do you use condoms? If not, they also have a pretty good delaying effect.
'course, both these solutions rely on making the male less sensitive, which means he'll enjoy sex less. Maybe introduce some interesting toys to the bedroom, to both take the pressure off his hair-triggered junk, and give you increased satisfaction? | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/5/2009 6:04:59 PM |
Ok his the problem, if a man only last for about 2 to 3 mins during sex, how can we fix this.. Is it a physical problem??? I'm honestly not kidding it doesnt last more then a few mins... Aswell during sex he tells me to stop moving or it will make his cum faster.. Is he just trying to finish things off because his not attacted to me?? Is he having sex with some else? Ive ask him, and he says his stress .... Man what do you think?
You are suffering from a syndrome that many women come across known as "Two minute Johnny"  It really takes a toll on a guy's ego so try not to harpe about it too much. | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/5/2009 6:10:31 PM | | well if i have a pull before sex i last longer! So all the men out there make time to please ur self and u will be able to please ur women longer | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/5/2009 6:12:03 PM | | I surely wouldn't think it's because he's not attracted to you. He probably feels awful about it himself and his attraction to you may be making it worse. The only thing I've ever heard of that might help this is if he masturbates a few times before being with you. Then it's not quite so "built up". | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/5/2009 6:20:08 PM | | given your age and the assumption that the man is also young, he will have to do some work to control his premature ejaculation. Generally the problem is psychological and not physical. It has to do with self worth issues as a rule. Having said that, there are a couple of physiological solutions; a series of excercises called Kegals will help him control himself. Google this for more information. Also he can practice squeezing his penis below the head with his thumb and forefinger in a circle when he feels ejaculation coming on. Generally this is done while masturbating. Repeated practice will allow him to be able to this with his mind only. Hope this helps. | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/5/2009 6:23:25 PM | | How old is he? Younger guys tend to cum faster than older guys. It comes with experience. Ive experimented with a numbing spray amd they work. I went 3 hrs and didnt cum | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/5/2009 6:25:17 PM | He needs to masturbate to almost climax, then ease off, have him do this for about 4 hours a day for a months or so anyway, and never have him stop for the rest of his life, or at least until he can detect the signs that he's about to pop, and can pull back until it's time...he need to be on control of his orgasm, not the other way around.
Truth, just, a lil, more...just a lil, more-TruthinessInc | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/5/2009 6:29:05 PM | | Have him focus more on his strong suits... if he has any. If he's good at oral, have him get you off that way beforehand. Tell him to make better use of his hands and mouth. Foreplay is your friend. | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/5/2009 6:38:48 PM | Sorry guys, I'm going to have to disagree with you here. If she is willing to help then by all means get on it.
My ex and I had a book that taught us how to make him last longer ... extended fun for us both. I had the pleasure of helping him with the exercises and just when he'd reach climax I'd grasp the base firmly ... when the moment had passed, I'd start again. He didn't mind my help at all.
OP ... ask him to let you help ... if he has problems because he's over stimulated by you .. then in my opinion you need to be a part of the solution. Have fun!!!! | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/5/2009 6:46:42 PM | Ok... since she's reeeeally lookin' for help:
Tell your man to practice stopping and starting his urine stream while taking a leak.
Pee some and then stop. Keep doing that and it'll help him have more control over his muscles and emotions. Ok... I'm not sure about the emotion part. | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/5/2009 6:51:50 PM | | This one is easy, tell him to where a thicker condom. This isn't your problem, he just has no control and that comes with age and experience. | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/5/2009 7:01:46 PM | ^^^^ exactly, that is why nothing better than and older lover!!!
My 57 y.o. ex- lover.....amazing is the least to call him. Could last forever and could go a 2nd round no sweat. | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/5/2009 7:05:49 PM | Very little to do with age, old wives tale at best!
He just needs to practise restraint, all guys do...it's really not a secret.
Truth, the five knuckle shuffle-TruthinessInc | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/5/2009 7:05:52 PM | The problem is you have been dating boys.
It takes about 50 years for a man to finally realize that most women enjoy sex much more than we. So to catch up we have to figure out how to selfishly get with the program and also equally enjoy.
All it takes is education, the right attitude and joyful practice.
Eventually you will be saying, “Stop. Stop. I can’t take any more. You’re going to kill me!”
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/5/2009 7:27:31 PM |
Ok his the problem, if a man only last for about 2 to 3 mins during sex, how can we fix this..
Well, a lot of guys never get out of this...
Older guys, more experience is not always true...I've been lucky, I always had staying power, even when I was young...
If he was 18 yeah, I'd say he needs to calm down a little but at you r age he's likely going to be that way for life...
You could try getting him off for him then a while later he may last longer and have a session for you...
Or, just as you think he's getting ready to pop.... grab his testicles and twist violently... do that every few times you have sex.... and he'll be so worried you'll do it again, he'll be able to last longer... much longer.... | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/5/2009 7:48:52 PM | | Tell him to masturbate every single chance he gets. I mean every chance he gets. The more a man masturbates the longer he will last after a while. Think of it as kaegels(sp?) for men. Buy him some porn and tell him to have at it. It will take a few weeks/months for him to see a difference but it does work. At a very minimum he should do this daily. | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/5/2009 8:18:43 PM | | well, if you are having intercourse at night, it would behoove you to have a nooner or give a quickie BJ a few hours earlier. Yall could do that for each other. That way, intercourse is much better. Part of that sexy foreplay and flirting that everyone likes. Of course with the working world, this can only take place on weekends as workdays are usually filled with BS (Wait, he's just a young guy). If that doesn't work, start dating B.O.B. to help you. | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/5/2009 8:56:11 PM | It helps if he masterbates before hand then the second time around it will last longer
He could eat you out and pleasure you while his errection comes back :)
Also a C*o*c*k Ring Helps by making a man last longer , Even if he ejactulates his penis will still be errect for you :) | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/5/2009 9:46:28 PM | Does it have to stop after he blows? A lot of the time a man can go multiple times with a bit of a break. I have to stop for 30 seconds or so because its just too sensitive but after that its FABOO time. You can also go quite a bit longer the second time around.
A lot of guys (those that don't talk about sex with the SO) figure the woman isn't really interested in sex and just does it to keep the man happy. Once they get off they think they've put their SO through enough of an inconvenience so they stop. | |
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