| would a soulmate want phone sex before meeting
Posted: 7/6/2009 9:00:41 AM | | i have met an extremely busy, very wealthy, attractive photographer who has a v high sex drive. we met on a chat line when he'd broken his leg and was into chatting on the phone. we had plenty to say and had a few mammoth 7 hour chats smattered with phone sex every now and then.he's ex army segreant major, used to getting his own way, and being away from his girl, he's away in states and we still havent met. he is very into sexy pix to ease the boredom but im not used to that. he says he's looking for a soulmate. as he's soo into horny pix does this really translate as a friend with benefits? | |
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Bluez
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| would a soulmate want phone sex before meeting
Posted: 7/6/2009 9:37:19 AM | Before they come in to this thread saying the guys a complete poon hound, let me ask you this.
You say this guy has a very high sex drive, that you've already chatted with him to include phone sex... yet you haven't mentioned that this is something you've been opposed to. Only that you're not used to giving out sexy pics. So, you must be getting something from all this interaction, or else I would think that you'd put a stop to it, right?
At this point, the sexy pics would only icing on an already baked cake. You've started down this road with him, and now balk and wonder if this is only a FWB situation??
I'd say, you need to establish all this with him and find out where his head is at. That's the only way you can really be sure of anything.
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Posted: 7/6/2009 9:38:26 AM | you are on a very low level of his interest ladder.....this is what makes it so easy for him to say these things to you. if you partake.......good for him.......if you don't.....water off the back of a ducks azz.
if this isn't what you're looking for.......it's over.....move on. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 9:42:08 AM | I don't do phone sex so I can't speak for him. However, your story sounds really fishy and I wouldn't send him any erotic pix. Also, do you know for sure hes successful & wealthy? Very few photographers are wealthy, even the most famous ones aren't extremely rich. Have you seen any of his photographs?
I would demand to meet in person if I were you, your current scenario sounds very sketchy. | |
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| would a soulmate want phone sex before meeting
Posted: 7/6/2009 9:55:35 AM |
who has a v high sex drive
you have not even met him(according to you) so how do you know?...cause he says so?
smattered with phone sex every now
ok, so you are particpating in it.
as he's soo into horny pix does this really translate as a friend with benefits?
you have phone sex with him, Im assuming you have sent him pics of your boobies, and you have not even met him yet, and you are asking if your a friend with benefits?
first off, you cant be friends with someone you never met, and when and if you ever meet, he is expecting sex, so that makes you a stranger that he will get sex from when he meets you... | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 10:09:57 AM | He's looking for a fukc.
C'mon,Op......................you're a 41 yr old woman-----You cant be THAT naive......??
You haven't even met,and he's wanting phone sex and dirty pics sent to him.
Why would you even want to meet someone like that?
Are you that lonely/desperate?
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Posted: 7/6/2009 10:17:26 AM | and being away from his girl, he's away in states and we still havent met. he is very into sexy pix to ease the boredom but im not used to that. "his girl" is that someone else as you haven't met yet, so you couldn't be his girl yet. Ya know if you have sent someone you have never met or done any background on, pictures of you sans clothing, I would prepare myself for finding out that these pictures could be all over the web as well perhaps people you knows hands. Not good at all.
And last question, do you really want to be with someone that always gets their way? I couldn't handle being with a control freak. | |
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| would a soulmate want phone sex before meeting
Posted: 7/6/2009 11:41:53 AM | hmmmmm i can smell a , dare i say it? horny summat or other that probably isnt any of the things he told you....... probably isnt the guy in the pictures he sent.......... dirty rotten liar!
did you web cam with him? cos if not, id be running for the hills!
(not that i would be down with having phone sex with someone im not in a relationship with, it works when your partners out of town on business or on vacation but not with a random stranger!!) | |
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| would a soulmate want phone sex before meeting
Posted: 7/6/2009 12:05:55 PM | | I can't see why not. I would guess that the only way you coould be soulmates is if you both saw that issue the same way. Apparently you don't, so you draw the inference. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 12:12:43 PM | Wait, what?
WHAT?
W..T..F?
This guy is after one thing only, and you're providing it for him, and showing a marked lack of self respect in the process. He isn't interested in being "soulmates" (such a thing doesn't exist to begin with)... he's interested in gratifying his urges, and you're enabling him to do so at your expense! | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 12:46:37 PM |
an extremely busy, very wealthy, attractive photographer
uh huh
Yeah.
Right.
You've never "met" him, you've been in contact with some loser who created an online persona to entice naive women to get him off
ex army segreant major, I'm surprised he didn't say an ex green beret | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 1:56:22 PM | You haven't met anyone yet OP, so you don't know that anything he has told you is true except for him wanting sex. To answer your question, a man who is genuinely interested in you or in long term, will not be looking for phone sex before you even meet in person. He's in a relationship? And he's on dating sites looking for soul mates that will send him nude photos and have phone sex. Now does that sound like a man with genuine intentions? He sounds like a real winner! Just a tip - DON'T send strangers nude pics, y ou'll never know where they may end up! I'm not sure if you're that naive or just desperate. Time to kick this one to the curb!
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Posted: 7/6/2009 2:35:14 PM | my bull sh1t meter is going off from here OP. 
C'mon,Op......................you're a 41 yr old woman-----You cant be THAT naive......??
take off those rose colored glasses and get with reality. | |
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