| im good enought to sleep with
Posted: 7/6/2009 1:24:26 PM | | ok ive been chatting to a girl in her thirties who is attractive and everything i want and dreamed off. we eventually ended up in bed after meeting a few times. but she says she cant do a realtionship but wants to keep having sex with me , how can i be good enough for sex but not to have a realtionship with ? | |
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| im good enought to sleep with
Posted: 7/6/2009 1:37:38 PM | Totally the thread title of the day!
And a fly-by guess: she doesn't necessarily want an instant family with your two children. | |
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| im good enought to sleep with
Posted: 7/6/2009 1:40:11 PM | OP why not? Guys do it all the time - now the shoe is on the other foot! Welcome to the modern age of dating! She just wants your body - be flattered.
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Posted: 7/6/2009 1:41:17 PM | | she has 2 children of her own and all the time we have chatted and met up she never said it was a problem the kids have even met each other and got on great ? | |
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Bluez
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Joined: 6/6/2009
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| im good enought to sleep with
Posted: 7/6/2009 1:55:42 PM | See what happens when you give up the sex too soon! She doesn't respect you now. If you'd do this with her, how many other women are you doing this with? You're a booty call now with no hope of it getting better. I see so many guys on here jumping in the sack on the first date and then crying cause the women lose interest... it's sickening!
Hold your head up brother.. you didn't do anything wrong! Break it off with this bimbo. I know it will hurt, but you've got to do it.
Good luck!
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| im good enought to sleep with
Posted: 7/6/2009 1:57:44 PM | its called FWB ...
now go read all the girl's threads about FWB and wanting a relationship.
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| im good enought to sleep with
Posted: 7/6/2009 2:07:31 PM | You are not enough of a challenge to be her boyfriend, but you apparently lay pipe okay.
Never tell a girl she is the girl of your dreams, make her earn that sh!t. She may very well become the girl of your dreams, but you don't know that until a lot later in a relationship, and its not flattery to a woman, it shows your insecurity.
Women never give away the candy store, they calculate, and wait before they tell us we are awesome, if they ever do. We can learn a lot from women, they are better at handling us than we are at handling them.
Observe, and play it cool. | |
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| im good enought to sleep with
Posted: 7/6/2009 2:17:51 PM | I'm agreeing with brad29483 on this. She didn't have to make an effort to land you but your tool works well, so all was not lost. It could really be any manner of other things that rule you out as being boyfriend material. It could be your smoking, personal habits, lack of chemistry, gambling, drinking, parenting styles, - it could be anything! Don't take offense but if you think you might be or could develope feelings for her, your best bet is to stop all contact. I doubt her feelings will change and you'd only end up getting hurt.
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| im good enought to sleep with
Posted: 7/6/2009 2:47:56 PM | | She is in her thirties... top priority is great sex. She take that over a great relationship until she can find both in the same person. Just, wear a raincoat! | |
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| im good enought to sleep with
Posted: 7/6/2009 2:52:20 PM | | Seeing as you are in the UK it probably means your are uncut, correct? Plus the fact that you are short for a guy and your teeth need some work. Add that you have children. I would say you should jump on that big pile of poo you stepped in. Talk about lucky for you. That gift horse won't be coming around again any time soon. Trust me. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 3:00:33 PM | lol i've been asking myself that same question since for 5 years now.
Meh if you want more then don't settle.. if you want to have sex while you look for more just be honest with her and do that. | |
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| im good enought to sleep with
Posted: 7/6/2009 3:40:26 PM | | This post should be a sticky for all the women who whinge about men only wanting sex and no commitment | |
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Bluez
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Joined: 6/6/2009
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| im good enought to sleep with
Posted: 7/6/2009 3:51:20 PM | Actually, I've had sticky whinge sex and the last thing I wanted afterward was a commitment. Shower... yes. Commitment... not so much.
I wonder what ever happened to her....
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| im good enought to sleep with
Posted: 7/6/2009 3:59:02 PM | What's a whinge? Do I want to know?
At least she laid it out for you (no PUN intended.......ehh). I mean the situation, you know... Accept it or move on (don't forget your pants!) | |
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