| So why do you think nobody responds to my profile/emails Posted: 7/6/2009 6:39:37 PM | What's up? Is it the pics? Is my English bad? Do I sound boring, disingenuous, douchey, lame? I didn't think so, but... starting to wonder... Do I just need to email 100 girls before someone responds? Your feedback, please.
Be honest, you won't hurt my feelings. | |
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| So why do you think nobody responds to my profile/emails Posted: 7/6/2009 7:02:06 PM | As far as the smoking, unfortunately they didn't have an option for smokes when drinking... Should I just say I don't? Pics... working on it...
Something tells me "nice" doesn't get responses...
I appreciate it Ron, but could somebody really break it down for me? | |
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| So why do you think nobody responds to my profile/emails Posted: 7/6/2009 7:25:43 PM | I don't see any real glaring problems - but maybe the profile is just a little too long? It's witty - I applaud you on your all too rare correct use of "you're" (though I suspect most people won't know the difference). a. I'm not sure "nice" doesn't get responses and b. it's not THAT nice (i.e. sickly nice). Smoking is definitely a turn-off for me - but if you lied and then a girl met you - and she can smell it immediately, guaranteed - that's a REAL turn-off. Are you responding to women's profiles? That seems to me to be the way to go - but I find there's no guarantees on this site. Sigh. Good luck! | |
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| So why do you think nobody responds to my profile/emails Posted: 7/6/2009 8:03:52 PM |
As far as the smoking, unfortunately they didn't have an option for smokes when drinking... Should I just say I don't?
No! Do not lie!
When I quit smoking, I quit drinking for a good six months.
If you smoke at all, you're a smoker. Be honest, accept the consequences.
If you want to not be a smoker... quit. Heck, you could put in your profile, "I'm a reformed smoker, I would really like to find someone else who has quit so we can support each other". That would be a good "hook". | |
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