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Posted: 7/6/2009 8:42:39 PM | | If a woman is overtly & overly sexual....how do you view her? Is she just a f*ck, could you date her, or can you see yourself settling down with a woman who is like that.....Please don't bash me I'm seriously looking for an answer....I can't ask this in the relationship forum because I am looking for mainly mens opinions on this | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 8:45:00 PM | | Depends on where the viewing is! | |
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| If a woman....
Posted: 7/6/2009 8:47:44 PM | | Overtly and overly sexual women turn me off. Most likely for similar reasons that those types of men may turn women off. | |
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| If a woman....
Posted: 7/6/2009 8:49:42 PM | If she's overly sexual in public, it's a turn off.
If she's overly sexual in the bedroom, it's a turn on. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 8:49:47 PM | If a woman is overtly & overly sexual....
and interesting.....
and can cook.....
and has a big heart.....
with a sense of humor...
and about a million other things...
then I think she is cool and very much girlfriend material.
But if all she is....
is overt & overly sexual,
and that's it...
then I would think not.
Hope this helps. | |
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| If a woman....
Posted: 7/6/2009 8:52:56 PM | Ever heard the expression..."lady on the streets but a freak between the sheets/behind closed doors"....
Message: If she's overly sexual in public, it's a turn off.
If she's overly sexual in the bedroom, it's a turn on. | |
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| If a woman....
Posted: 7/6/2009 8:53:03 PM | Depends who you speak to.
Deep down, guys might just want to hit it. That's in all guys. The visual thing, the hunt, call it what you will.
I tend to be realistic. That's not what allures me deep down. I don't view it as anything else but eye candy, at best.
Anyone can throw sex around like a bad joke. To be funny/honest/interesting is what makes me interested. | |
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| If a woman....
Posted: 7/6/2009 8:55:16 PM | Message: If a woman is overtly & overly sexual....
and interesting.....
and can cook.....
and has a big heart.....
with a sense of humor...
and about a million other things...
then I think she is cool and very much girlfriend material.
But if all she is....
is overt & overly sexual,
and that's it...
then I would think not.
Hope this helps.
I feel that I am all of the above....but, that's a prejudiced opinion....a better question...would you be willing to find out if she is all of the above or just because she was overly sexual would you automatically think she was/is easy? | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 9:01:26 PM | | I am having difficulty posting | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 9:01:44 PM | | To be real...Since Im an overtly sexual male, and always wanted to find a woman to keep up with me...I'd settle down with her, assuming the right feeling were invloved...The right guy wont be scared, intimidated, or in any put off by your sexual energy...If they are..Well theyre not the one for you. The right guy will not only match your sexual appetite, he'll love you for yours...**** all those who would bash, or insult you hun...Be proud..It takes a STRONG woman to allow her sexual nature to flourish like that...Most women are too inhibited for their own good. | |
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| If a woman....
Posted: 7/6/2009 9:01:50 PM | All the sexuality up front? Especially in the beginning? Not interesting.
Knowing she's the 'million other things' AND sexual, is. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 9:05:55 PM | I think she knows what she wants and isn't shy about saying it and that's a turn on.
It doesn't make me think of her in the "she's only good for one thing" type of way. It just shows she doesn't beat around the bush. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 9:06:33 PM | I believe in the right situation with the right person almost every woman is easy. Me personally I like women who know themselves and experimented a bit. It means she is adventurous.
Hopefully that is an indication that she has great experiences from trying things (outside the bedroom). That sense of adventure can make her interesting.
Unfortunately many guys like virgins. They never have to ever hear how someone else was better, meet someone you slept with, or be compared to someone from your past. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 9:25:32 PM | | For clarification purposes only I used the word overtly and I should have described MY meaning behind it.. .MY meaning behind it is comfortable with her sexuality and unafraid to discuss it...not in public..Just for clarification | |
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| If a woman....
Posted: 7/6/2009 9:37:55 PM | If it's one of many things talked about....
then it's part of the well rounded flirting process.
and hey, it's nice to know a woman will admit to liking sex.
(cus most woman do.)
But like all great art...
too much discussion about it is boring as hell.
Some music must be played by ear. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 9:41:30 PM | | If you're slapping them with your 'overt' sexuality on the first date, then it's probably a case of 'too much, too soon'. Obviously, we all want our mates to enjoy sex, but a coffee greet is not the time to tell your new beau that you like it with latex. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 9:47:17 PM | | Thank you for the advice guys....I'm often at times to forward about my sexuality.... | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 9:48:23 PM |
Ever heard the expression..."lady on the streets but a freak between the sheets/behind closed doors"....
I'd not be interested in a woman limited to such a tight box.
A lady in the streets, although respectable, can tend to be too stuffy for me! | |
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| If a woman....
Posted: 7/6/2009 10:25:56 PM | | Personally I don't take the sex and intimacy lightly. And yes I could settle down with a woman who loves sex and wants it often. That means she's into me and she likes how I make her feel. | |
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| If a woman....
Posted: 7/6/2009 10:30:38 PM | it depends on the whole picture, the whole vibe. i've had first dates where the woman was the sexual aggressor, and it was like christmas morning, woohoo! because she had plenty that i connected with initially besides her sexuality. a bold sexuality doesn't negate the other good stuff, doesn't lead to an automatic dismissal as just a fcuk.
other times, it was all wrong because i could sense she was coming from an unhealthy or incongruent place. THAT'S the stuff that's gonna to count against her, as far as consideration of the long term.
depends entirely on the women and whatever little space we've created together. | |
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| If a woman....
Posted: 7/6/2009 10:33:26 PM | If a woman is overtly & overly sexual....how do you view her? Is she just a f*ck, could you date her, or can you see yourself settling down with a woman who is like that.....
Ok... if I met a woman like that and she wanted to have sex on the first date... first off, I'd be turned off... second I'd be thinking STD's... and how many other guys has she done... and she'd be history... there was a time when I didn't worrk about that sort of thing and I'd just have sex with her and that's all she'd be and I'd never let it become a real relationship....
I'd also be worried if her attitudes to sex were the result of other issues... and quite often they are.... and I've had enough of crazy women in my time... as they say, "It's always the crazy ones who are great in bed..."
Now if I met a woman who was very sexual, and able to control it and waited awhile until we were sexual, then I'd be quite pleased...
Being sexually liberated means knowing when to say "No" it doesn't mean giving in and saying "Yes" all the time...
A very sexual woman is a good thing, but not if she wants to spread it around... | |
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