| How Can The Good Come Come First??
Posted: 7/7/2009 2:08:03 PM | | All my life i was the chubby funny kid everyone loved, i was everyones best friend and "little bro" but like now i want more. Whenever i meet a girl i end up getting into the friend zone and i learnt once im in there its no chance for romance :( , i may not be no bradd pitt but im the original nice guy with a big heart and a good sense of humour but these traits are what make me the friend typee , how can i get the girl of my dreams without falling into the friend zonee:( | |
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| How Can The Good Come Come First??
Posted: 7/7/2009 2:13:21 PM | | Awww your cute! Dont worry...your 19 hon... Good things will come. You have a lot of experiences that will come your way. | |
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| How Can The Good Come Come First??
Posted: 7/7/2009 2:16:02 PM | 1. Exercise. You can lose weight.
2. Stop being so down on yourself.
3. Stop acting like a girl's friend. You want her to be attracted to you, not friendly.
4. Stop Mistaking shyness and a lack of confidence as being "nice."
5. Never, ever compare to yourself to Brad Pitt again. Ever. | |
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| How Can The Good Come Come First??
Posted: 7/7/2009 3:28:56 PM | | This is really an insecurity you're going to have to let go. Plenty of women choose men that aren't perfect in height, weight, and looks. Confidence will get you everywhere. | |
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| How Can The Good Come Come First??
Posted: 7/7/2009 3:44:40 PM | Damn the Brad Pitt thing too hell...
Back on topic though. Blaming it on certain traits is a bad way to go about it, sounds like confidence issues. People pick up on that. Also if you want to win the girl you need to take some initiative, if you meet a girl take her on a date if she'll let you. End the night with something a little more then a hug, kiss on the cheek something that will show your interested in being more then friends... Other then that, best of luck. | |
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| How Can The Good Come Come First??
Posted: 7/7/2009 3:56:29 PM | Dude,
First off, Dont listen to the guy WAY ABOVE. Take it from a guy with lots of experience with women....some success and some not so good success.....YOUR ONLY 19. Take your time. First off, most women your age from what I know of them, want a guy for his looks, his car type, or whatver else they can think of.
Dont worry about NOT being Brad Pitt, hey the girl on the post said your CUTE. Well I can say I am not GAY, but for a guy to guy your cute. Hey look at me....I am not Bruck Willis(had to go for my generation. LOL) but I have had more than one girl tell me I was cute, or handsome. It depends on the ladies taste. Also, try for a girl a bit older than your 3-5 years is usually about right. When I was 19 my best relationships were with ladies 5 years older than me. The worst were the ones who were my age or about 1-5 years younger.
When you start talking to a lady, make them laugh, try and drop suttle hints about where you want the relationship to go but dont drop a bomb....Tell them "you are looking for someone to be in your life that you can have fun with and spend time with and get to know". Thats it. Thats all. You arent pressuring them into ANYTHING with that. It isnt really a LINE, but its letting them know thats what your looking for in life. Plus dude, your 19 you have plenty of time. But have fun, trust me there is someone out there for you. | |
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| How Can The Good Come Come First??
Posted: 7/7/2009 4:27:53 PM | Continue to search for the one who wants to be more than friends.
Chances are , OP, MOST people you meet will end up in the friend zone, as we all
know that it is not easy to find the one you like as a romantic interest who returns the
same interest. | |
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| How Can The Good Come Come First??
Posted: 7/7/2009 4:35:42 PM | | Whelp, it sounds like you're not very secure about yourself. You look adorable. Whey don't you go online and buy some books on dating. It's all in how you carry yourself. You may not even realize that some girls are into you and you may have put them in the friendzone that you're now stuck in!!!! You have to work on yourself and your confidence! Flirt, learn to read body language! | |
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| How Can The Good Come Come First??
Posted: 7/7/2009 5:05:32 PM | Guess what??? No one is Brad Pitt except Brad Himself. Stop comparing yourself to him. They broke the mold when they made him. And you're one of a kind as well. Write down all your good points, what you have going for you that is good. Focus on those things.
Be positive and yes stop being a ''friend'' to women. hang out with your guy friends, and be one of the boys...let them see you as a guy...not another girlfriend | |
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| How Can The Good Come Come First??
Posted: 7/7/2009 10:20:38 PM | | I wonder if Brad Pitt has ever been told about the pof forums, and the problems he is causing young brothers and their ego's. I doubt it, but maybe someone should tell him to tone it down a bit. | |
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| How Can The Good Come Come First??
Posted: 7/7/2009 10:23:01 PM | | One thing that helped me was slapping myself int he face and thinking "It's all or nothing there is no in between!" or "Never give up and trust your instinct!" Things like that made me feel really confident and ready to try to sway her vote XD Don't be afraid to just flat out say HEY I'm not looking to be friends so cut the crap! | |
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| How Can The Good Come Come First??
Posted: 7/7/2009 10:32:48 PM | Stop acting like a little b!tch around women, tagging along like a lap dog and trying to be their BFF. Women have friends. They have dogs. They want a man who can lead them to fun and adventure, not some chat-buddy-dudette who's gonna giggle while they get their toes painted.
Stand up, walk tall, and be a man. Did you ever watch the original Planet of the Apes? No one wants to be Cornelius, ever guy wants to be Gen. Urko. Why? 'Cause he wasn't trailing behind Zira and whining.
Now fight like apes! | |
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| How Can The Good Come Come First??
Posted: 7/8/2009 12:07:22 AM | Heres the word: Women aren't all into Brad Pitt and more. Brad Pitt is too old and besides, he's got a ton of kids. George Clooney was The Man for awhile, but then it turns out he likes ot date c0cktail waitresses half his age, so he's out, too.
So it's Joe Jonas now. Anytime you want to compare yourself with a famous person that all women love and desire, you must say, "I know I'm no Joe Jonas, but..."
Stop trying to be the nice guy, and work on being a better man.
Edit: As much as I hesitate to admit it, WackMC's post is pretty much right-on. | |
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| How Can The Good Come Come First??
Posted: 7/8/2009 12:14:14 AM | No, no, no, no! ZacEfon is The Antichrist, haven't you heard? With his cold eyes and evil/pretty smile, he brings nothing but disease, pestilence, famine and war upon his bony back, mark my words.
Anyway, he's out. | |
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