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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 5:08:21 PM
I recently had a date that went... ahem, well - very quickly. Wow. Afterwards, she said we should keep in touch, then as she was getting out of the car, asked if I had any money!

Then she said "If you want this again, you'll have to pay for it"

OMG I was in utter and complete shock.

Is there a name for this? Has anyone ever had an experience like this? I have been just floored!
 bigbrowneyes38

Joined: 3/3/2006
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 5:12:39 PM
Perhaps she is an entrepreneur...and starting her own escort service.
 DemonDingleBerry

Joined: 6/7/2009
Msg: 3
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 5:13:03 PM

Then she said "If you want this again, you'll have to pay for it"

By "this again" was she referring to the feelings you expressed over the date?
Herself?
Or the money you gave her?


Is there a name for this?

Opportunist?
Hooker?
Business savvy?
Golddigger?
Entrepreneur?
Prostitute?
Wall Street CEO?
Desperate?
Cashless?
Self employed?
 kazzmere

Joined: 1/26/2009
Msg: 4
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 5:14:56 PM
There are so many double entendres & jokes to be made about that, I don't even know where to start.
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 5:16:32 PM
Lol, NO I did not give her any money!!!

Even though it was amazing.... (guiltiness)
 Abbicci

Joined: 11/17/2008
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 5:17:37 PM
I have dealt in PR and HR for so long that I don't care what anyone says, you need a cattle prod to shock me.

I would have said " Well now that you bring it up, I would like a refund on tonight, when your Mom was whoring you out for tonight she neglected to mention you smelled like six day out clams left out in the sun."

But that's just me.

You met a crazy broad who thought she was something special that guys would be willing to pay for. Crazy people get dates, you got one.

Or she really is a Pro and you got yourself a freebie and maybe the heebie jeebies if she is a Pro.
 OttawaJohnM

Joined: 1/22/2006
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 5:26:53 PM
You slept with a hooker.........................by..................mistake......................?
Rightttttt........
I would have tossed the change I had. Oh well live and learn... and then you get tested.
 clasact

Joined: 1/18/2008
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 5:33:09 PM
Frankly, after all that I've heard and seen in my career in the investigative field,
I'm shocked by very little.

Seems like you got hold of a pro...'er, she got hold of you, whatever the case.

What I would like to know OP...what was your reply to that?

Edit: Oh, I just looked at your profile, you're an attorney...now I KNOW
you had a response to her statement to you. What was it? Spill it.
 LIWOMAN56

Joined: 2/11/2008
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 5:40:51 PM
Never realized they gave out free samples..... great marketing ploy
 ForumFilly

Joined: 5/14/2008
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 5:53:56 PM
I, too, want to know what your response was!!

You were out with a prostitute, whether you realized it or not. Nope, I've never experienced such a thing. I would have been floored also. Maybe you should differentiate on your profile that, although you like a woman to have a career, you really didn't mean for her to be a 'working girl'.

Maybe you could do a little 'quid pro quo'. She can service you and that will be your retainer for when she inevitably gets busted for solicitation.

Okay, I'm done with the smart @ss comments now. She has some nerve, that's for sure. Good luck with the next woman you meet.
 Pitch Blease

Joined: 3/4/2009
Msg: 11
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 5:59:08 PM
Stupid whore....and I mean that! You get the money upfront...not afterward. Duh. I at least hope the freebee was worth whatever she GAVE you. Let us know in 6 months.
 rumyfwb

Joined: 6/27/2009
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 5:59:22 PM
maybe u bored her and she thought if it was that much work to date u she should get paid.lol
 Zardoz451

Joined: 3/28/2009
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 6:00:44 PM
Just a sign of the economic depression and new marketing skills.

She IS a HOOKER after all...she's trying to 'hook (addict) you' to her wonderful services.

First one's always free.

As for paying?

That's up to you.

Me personally, I don't pay for what I'm paid for. $ $
 davidsauvignon

Joined: 2/6/2008
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 6:02:56 PM

I recently had a date that went... ahem, well - very quickly.

Dang OP, I don't think I would be broadcasting all over the internet that you're a one pump chump.


Afterwards, she said we should keep in touch

So, what ya think OP? Literally, or figuratively?


then as she was getting out of the car, asked if I had any money!

Did she mean 'on you', or, in your accounts and investment portfolio? Need more info here.


Then she said "If you want this again, you'll have to pay for it"

Well sure, what would you expect her to say? I mean afterall, it took you all of 3 strokes and 2 seconds the first time. At least with her BoB, she can relax, take her time and get something out of it.


OMG I was in utter and complete shock.

To find out that women have needs, too?


Is there a name for this?

Yes OP, there is. It's called a 'backfire'. You posted this with ulterior motives. Whether as billboarding yourself, attempting to display your sexual prowess, or merely as some sort of judgement call against a woman you went out with. See, that's the thing... you went out with her, OP. So, we can deduce that you suck at picking women because, if she were actually the 'type' of person you are portraying here, you would (or should) have picked up on it way before the date...or at least, before you decided to shag her.

Sorry OP, not buying the "OMG, I just can't believe it" PollyAnna routine.






~ds~
 clasact

Joined: 1/18/2008
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 6:04:10 PM
Maybe you could do a little 'quid pro quo'. She can service you and that will be your retainer for when she inevitably gets busted for solicitation

Hee, hee, I wonder, if that would be a conflict of interest even though it WAS a
freebie. I think that's kinda like a free consultation in his field to decide whether
or not a case would be taken on.
Be sure and let us know if your clients or firm collegues see this and you
broadcasting that you didn't see that one coming.
 Bluez

Joined: 6/6/2009
Msg: 16
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 6:11:00 PM

Then she said "If you want this again, you'll have to pay for it"
My guess is that she worked as a sampler at Costco...

They hook you with that two bite sample and then charge you when you want to make a meal out of the item!!!




Bluez
 NoturTypical_Italian

Joined: 4/11/2009
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 6:12:27 PM
Lol, that's funny
 HazelRose

Joined: 6/15/2009
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 6:12:54 PM
A stupid cheap Whore.
 NoturTypical_Italian

Joined: 4/11/2009
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 6:13:14 PM
Man, you are a sicker and weirder dude than the girl I had a date with!
 readyornot57

Joined: 1/19/2008
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 6:14:45 PM
Did she have a toothpick in her butt?
 eschec mat

Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 21
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 6:31:03 PM
then as she was getting out of the car,
First date and she was in your car.
Ok, how many times did you two email before the "date." How many times did you speak on the phone? Did you pick her up at her place? Did you knock on her door?

Swiss cheese I think.
 JulieC29

Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 22
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 6:33:27 PM
ARe you saying you went out with this woman for the first time, had sex with her on your first date and then she wanted money? If you didn't have sex, it would be weirder.
 idoc_steve

Joined: 3/20/2009
Msg: 23
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 8:16:28 PM
davidsauvignon-You posted this with ulterior motives. Whether as billboarding yourself, attempting to display your sexual prowess, or merely as some sort of judgement call against a woman you went out with. See, that's the thing... you went out with her, OP. So, we can deduce that you suck at picking women because, if she were actually the 'type' of person you are portraying here, you would (or should) have picked up on it way before the date...or at least, before you decided to shag her.

Sorry OP, not buying the "OMG, I just can't believe it" PollyAnna routine.


Well done. Nice to see a few trollbusters around. As well as those that just rolled with it without taking it seriously.

My thoughts are that she was hinting that the next date should be at your house, playing "Beer Monopoly".
 mogrl42

Joined: 4/16/2007
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 8:33:58 PM
Did you feed her before you ****ed her ??
Hmm,I wouldn`t really call this a date,more like a hookup ??
Wow,it`s amazing how low people can go these days.
 Excelsiur

Joined: 4/11/2009
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 9:25:12 PM
You were floored? Does that mean she was on top?
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