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 SimplyKendra

Joined: 5/22/2009
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Guy at a grocery store..what does this mean?
Posted: 7/9/2009 1:43:38 AM
So I was at the local staters with my good girl pal shopping for our movie and popcorn extravaganza and as we approach one of the isles this guy looks at us in a dead stare. We walk by him and I smile and quickly look away. His head follows us as we walk by and he keeps staring, but it's a really odd look. Kinda creepy and almost like he is dumbfounded...it gets stranger.

We walk down a few more isles and pass him a few more times. He is obviously shopping with his mother as it is an older lady. He keeps blantantly staring at us and completely turning around to keep us in view as we walked by. My friend comments "He was pretty hot" and I just couldn't help but giggle. She found him hot, but I was creeped out. I thought "Oh my god that guy must know me from somewhere" but I wasn't sure who he was staring at. A few moments pass and we get in line..lo behold! It is the same guy in front of us. He keeps looking back. I tell my friend "Stay with the cart, I forgot soda." I walk to get the soda, come back and he stares at me. He then nudges his mom and blantantly points at me. I turn away but glance back a few times kinda freaked out..

What the heck does this mean? The guy looked about my age, maybe older but not at all familiar. Any ideas what this was all about? The whole thing kinda freaked me out and I can't stop thinking about it.

 itsmillertime6227

Joined: 9/19/2008
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Guy at a grocery store..what does this mean?
Posted: 7/9/2009 1:46:22 AM
He thought you were cute...or something was hangin out of your nose. Maybe he thought you looked like a celebrity. Maybe he recognized you. Maybe you went to school with him when you were young. Who knows. Nothing to lose sleep over.
 SimplyKendra

Joined: 5/22/2009
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Guy at a grocery store..what does this mean?
Posted: 7/9/2009 1:48:52 AM
I hope that was it, and it wasn't that he was sizing me up to be his next murder victim..

Wow I am paranoid.
 Justwaiting85

Joined: 12/13/2008
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Guy at a grocery store..what does this mean?
Posted: 7/9/2009 1:51:04 AM
He probably recognized you. Most guys will not even think about hitting on a girl if their mother/grandmother/aunt with is them. And even the actual creeps tend to behave under those circumstances as well.

The fact the he pointed you out to his mother makes me think it was somewhat innocent.
 meandyouas1

Joined: 6/20/2009
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Guy at a grocery store..what does this mean?
Posted: 7/9/2009 1:51:31 AM
Be afraid, be very afraid, lol.
 itsmillertime6227

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Guy at a grocery store..what does this mean?
Posted: 7/9/2009 1:52:04 AM
Lol yes, you are paranoid. I doubt he's some serial killer that is shopping for victims with his mother.
 CEO of Hoagie Inc.

Joined: 7/30/2007
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Guy at a grocery store..what does this mean?
Posted: 7/9/2009 1:52:30 AM
He was probably asking his mom what wine she thought would go good with your pasty skin and as far as the staring he was trying to figure out whether or not you would fit on his roasting spit.
 SimplyKendra

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Guy at a grocery store..what does this mean?
Posted: 7/9/2009 1:53:00 AM
See, exactly cause thats what made me second guess it. It was odd too because he had this weird penetrating gaze.

Wish he would have just said "HEY! I KNOW YOU!..you were the girl that.."Insert crazy thing I did in the past here"
 SimplyKendra

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Posted: 7/9/2009 1:53:39 AM
Thanks CEO.
You never know, stranger things have happened!
 LeCutter

Joined: 2/25/2009
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Guy at a grocery store..what does this mean?
Posted: 7/9/2009 2:04:53 AM
Maybe you had a honkin booger hanging out the end of your nose and your "friend" didn't tell you because she thought it was too funny. Or maybe he was just 'hawt' for you. Creepy and hot are merely prespectives.
 LifePending

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Posted: 7/9/2009 2:30:56 AM
You should have checked his grocery cart to see if he was buying a new shower curtain.
MOTHER!!!!!
 M-Bomb

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Posted: 7/9/2009 2:38:32 AM

You should have checked his grocery cart to see if he was buying a new shower curtain.
MOTHER!!!!!


Haha yea, this does sound like some Norman Bates kinda s**t!!

Honestly, i think he either knew you and was checking with his mother to confirm, so maybe in the past - when you were growing up or something.

Or he was just wanting to do the squelchy with you !!

M-Bomb
 Justwaiting85

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Posted: 7/9/2009 2:56:41 AM
He probably wasnt sure if you were who he thought you were.
 dancecard

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Posted: 7/9/2009 4:05:02 AM
he was enjoying the view and wanting to nibble.

Dance
 h0ldfast

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Guy at a grocery store..what does this mean?
Posted: 7/9/2009 4:29:49 AM
The guy sounds like a zombie from a horror movie. Subtly checking you out from the corner of his eye would have been normal, but after a few glances, he has to either introduce himself or break it off. Staring at you like that and creeping you out is not cool. Nudging his mother is even more bizarre.

Next time, instead of soda, pick up a can of mace. And maybe some holy water.
 Tokolosh1

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Posted: 7/9/2009 5:32:27 AM
Unless he bought a sharp implement from the hardware aisle I reckon you're reasonably safe.

And I'm really sorry I stared at you like that.
 Buns of Veal

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Posted: 7/9/2009 5:55:46 AM
I have seen somebody do this....stare without regards for making somebody uncomfortable....they turned out to be "special"The hanging around mom makes it sound more likely..
 Spartyfan033

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Guy at a grocery store..what does this mean?
Posted: 7/9/2009 6:27:38 AM
I was going to suggest this as well. Or maybe he knew you from the past.

It seemed to be a pretty safe situation, maybe you could have just inquired? That woulda satiated your curiousity. And who knows, maybe you could have napped one of America's Most Wanted
 JP1111

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Posted: 7/9/2009 8:06:46 AM
The guy obviously thought you were attractive but was too shy to approach you and start talking to you. All you really need to take from that experience is that “you got the hot stuff and you’d be one hot sexy momma”!
 rllamas1

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Guy at a grocery store..what does this mean?
Posted: 7/9/2009 8:50:39 AM
he probably was just stunned by your beauty. some guys , (hard to believe) are shy and do not approach women like most me do. this guy sounds like a family type. takes care of his mother well , or at least cares about parents . Most men dont . we live in a world where parents are almost kicked to the curb. this guy seems to not be the same. I also respect my parents and take them shopping if they need be. He also wanted like 2nd opinion on what type of woman he is attracted too... and just wanted an honest opinion. oh well life goes on right... lol . have a good one.. Robert
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