| Bi Girls
Posted: 7/10/2009 1:11:44 AM | | Seems like every girl I connect with lately really wants a girl. Not that I'm against that at all, I love girls and bi girls. I love the lez love. It just seems weird, that EVERY girl I know at the club points out some girl that she wants to do. Is this normal? Opinions welcome. | |
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| Bi Girls
Posted: 7/10/2009 1:16:49 AM | Many women are open to new experiences. Other women think it will turn a guy on to say that type of thing to a guy in a club. You can usually figure out the real bi females from the fake ones. Women have a tendency to appreciate other women's bodies. Kind of like a pride of lioness, and the one male lion. | |
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| Bi Girls
Posted: 7/10/2009 1:57:59 AM | Women know that men love lesbians. It'd be hard to ignore that kind of knowledge. This is why you get so many girls going out on the pull together and making out together to get attention, or dirty dancing in the middle of the floor. Men love it!
But, the chances are most girls who are so super-keen to point out to that you that they'd just LOVE to bone their best friend, are probably amping up their very very minor bisexual tendencies in an effort to get you interested. Not least because at the back of your head is a little voice saying 'wouldn't it be great if you could get them both in bed with you', and she knows thats what you're thinking. It's a slightly more subtle way of saying 'hey, I'm really sexy and kinky, and if you get with me then I'll have threesomes with you and another girl'.... but without actually saying it so you can't actually hold her to anything later.
I'm interested in women sexually, but there's no way I'd ever announce that to some guy I just met in a club. He'd just get the wrong idea. That kind of information, if you're serious about it, is something you share when you feel comfortable, not in an effort to be admired.
So yeah, it's normal that 99% of the women you know are doing this, but it doesn't mean that they're actually bisexual - the chances are they just tend to get drunk and snog their mates. | |
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| Bi Girls
Posted: 7/10/2009 3:57:41 AM |
but it just reeks of desperation and lack of any class
You got that right!!! Thats exactly what I was thinking - these girls are just desperate for attention. Its quite sad. | |
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| Bi Girls
Posted: 7/10/2009 4:21:52 AM |
Is this normal?
Yes. Perfectly normal for bar-bi girls.
HouseKitten is fairly accurate I think...
So yeah, it's normal that 99% of the women you know are doing this, but it doesn't mean that they're actually bisexual - the chances are they just tend to get drunk and snog their mates. | |
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| Bi Girls
Posted: 7/10/2009 4:27:44 AM | It all depends on the age of girl you're looking for. In the late 90's and early 2000's bisexuality was almost like the new fashion trend, with everyone jumping on the bandwagon. Now, the lines between sexuality have become so blurred that the current generation is really awesome at getting laid but completely sucking at relationships. It's not uncommon to find a guy or girl sleeping with someone of their own gender just as easily as they'd sleep with someone of the opposite.
It could also just be the girls you're attracted to are more likely to be sexually free or from this current generation that's much like the flower children of the 1960's. | |
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| Bi Girls
Posted: 7/10/2009 4:44:11 AM |
Women know that men love lesbians.
When was there a pole on this? Did i miss the memo?
You mean " Women know that guys love girl on girl porn! " ?
I dont ever remember recall i love them.. Or the porn.
OP - Chicks now a days thinks its cool to be bi.
But they wouldnt get down and go all the way..
I remember 5-6 years ago EVERY girl under age 25
claimed to be ' Bi ' to get attention.
So if i told everyone i was Bi would i get more attention?
Hmm. ill think about this ..  | |
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| Bi Girls
Posted: 7/10/2009 6:09:53 AM | its all attention seeking behavior.....
apparently with some people it works.
now excuse me while I run around and yell out that I am heterosexual ;) | |
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| Bi Girls
Posted: 7/10/2009 6:52:16 AM | I liked the "bar-bi" comment. It seems the straight girls get dirtier with their female friends at the bar than i _ever_ would with my lover. We both tend to giggle at them and wonder why we're the ones that come off straight when we're likely the only ones to take it outside the bar exit.
I've heard laments about this very fact from other women looking for women, because all too many times they have been in a position where they thought there was potential but then the other party just dispersed once through the doors.
I've come to loathe the term "bi" as it has become a word (and actions) to attract attention from men. | |
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| Bi Girls
Posted: 7/10/2009 7:06:37 AM | | I think it's your age. The young girls now a days seem to think that's what men want and what they should be. I think there is a lot of sexual confusion out there right now. It's time that people get honest with themselves and stop the game playing! | |
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| Bi Girls
Posted: 7/10/2009 7:53:58 AM |
Women know that men love lesbians.
I don't love lesbians. If I saw my woman making out with some bint, I'd dump her just as quick as if she rogered another fella. | |
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| Bi Girls
Posted: 7/10/2009 8:05:50 AM | Oh for gods sake.
Okay, to clarify for the men who need everything spelled out, what I meant by 'women know men love lesbians' is that women are aware that a large percentage of the male population, especially those in a particular age group, find it arousing to see two or more females engage in sexual interactions.
Don't worry, we're aware that not every single one of you will drop to the floor drooling over some girl-on-girl action. | |
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| Bi Girls
Posted: 7/10/2009 8:08:11 AM | lol yea its normal.
being BI for girls is a lot more accepted and hot.
For them its almost like that new hot hair due you have to do it its
"The thing to do" lol
its okay though. it increases the chances for 3SUM ssssss | |
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| Bi Girls
Posted: 7/10/2009 8:15:21 AM | I think that much of todays bisexuality and homosexuality is just situational
true homosexuals and i suppose bisexuals cant help what they are ..however since bisexuality and homosexuality has become the in thing ..I wonder if someday these suppose to be heterosexuals may have issues about their lifestyle ..every bit as bad as a homosexual living in the closet ..and living a lifestyle he/she was not meant for | |
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| Bi Girls
Posted: 7/10/2009 8:38:19 AM | I think that women have always wanted to be with women.
It was common, but rarely spoken of, down through the ages...
Evidence has been found in many cultures regarding lesbian/bi-sexuality activity, but it was not the norm, it was very taboo and unheard of...but it happened.
Now, I think it's becoming much more socially acceptable for these women to let the world know what they want to do with that sexy little thing that's across the room. | |
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| Bi Girls
Posted: 7/10/2009 9:56:12 AM |
Opinions welcome.
OK - I like girls who like girls. | |
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| Bi Girls
Posted: 7/10/2009 9:58:11 AM | I'm listening (reading) to HouseKitten, she seems to be a woman that knows about women.
Go figure. | |
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| Bi Girls
Posted: 7/10/2009 10:16:31 AM |
Okay, to clarify for the men who need everything spelled out, what I meant by 'women know men love lesbians' is that women are aware that a large percentage of the male population, especially those in a particular age group, find it arousing to see two or more females engage in sexual interactions.
Okay to clarify...
Those men who love lesbians are either immature, or they got into the bar underage...
As was said before, they just come across as desperate and needy to us... and one other thing... they're kind of embarrassing.... you feel sorry for them....
And if a girl I was with started flirting with a chick, then she's history...
If a girl wants a guy to stay with her, then he's got to respect her... and how is he going to respect her, when everyone in the bar, including him is laughing at her...? | |
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| Bi Girls
Posted: 7/10/2009 11:31:24 AM | | What's with all the hostility towards the bi girls coming from the men? I think y'all are jealous. I don't "think" it's hot when girls make out, it is hot. And I'm not talking girls pretending they are bi to be cute, I'm talking about the girls that follow through afterwards when they go home and do it. I've seen it happen. There's a lot of that going on here, especially odd considering this area is so conservative. Seems like a lot of these girls prefer women over men too. They can get a guy any day of the week, and cherish their rare opportunites to get a girl. Seems like girls are becoming bigger studs than men. I know it's cliche, but I think there's something in the water, all those synthetic hormornes. | |
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| Bi Girls
Posted: 7/10/2009 11:59:18 AM |
What's with all the hostility towards the bi girls coming from the men? I think y'all are jealous.
I have no hostility towards bi-girls... I really don't care one way or the other...
If a lesbian is attracted to a man, what does that say about his manhood...? hahahaha
Look, you enjoy your little bi-chickies... when I was your age I thought they were kind of interesting too... (Surprise: bi chicks have been around forever...! - it's really nothing new except to the younger boys...) Then I realised that they really don't do it for me... watching two women swapping spit in a bar well, just sad... and really kind of got boring after the first 30 or so times I saw it... My usual thought is typical... they're between me and the bar... or between me and the washroom... in other words, just in the way.... | |
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| Bi Girls
Posted: 7/10/2009 3:09:50 PM | | Hmmm is it normal these days? sure is....girls dancing with girls, and guys fiddling with their ipods, what a jack off society! Met a 21 yo girl at rehab with her boyfriend, and she was really happy to tell us how much she likes pssy, I think its wonderful. But if girls really think its a turn on for us when they grind, I think not, it has no shock value anymore, and guys will just look elsewhere, you just played yourself, unless you're bi, then take er home an git er done. | |
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| Bi Girls
Posted: 7/10/2009 4:28:32 PM | I think it's a curiosity thing, like experimenting with drugs. I have 3 friends that came out as bisexual. One of them had a long term GF and eventually ended up with an open rel'ship with a guy, and they both occasionally date girls. One had a 3some with a straight couple, fooled around a couple other times with a girl, and ended up in a LTR with a guy. One had a brief relationship with a girl and went straight back to men.
I think a lot of women appreciate other women aesthetically, and so they imagine that it would be fun to actually be with a woman - but to maintain a relationship with one? Very very rare. It's usually only when they immerse themselves in lesbian culture - and that is a far, far cry from the night clubbing dancefloor caressing girls you're talking about. Basically if they don't find a butch lesbian to take the man role, it's just pure experimentation.
BTW - I do know men that do the same thing. Homoerotic play but i don't think it counts as true bisexuality, which is much rarer. | |
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| Bi Girls
Posted: 7/10/2009 5:30:11 PM | | I don't know, i think is very rare to find a bi girl that really wants to do it at home. | |
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| Bi Girls
Posted: 7/10/2009 5:38:52 PM | I could care less for what other people think or do. It is what I do that breaks or makes my day. Two people kissing up a storm be they gay, bi, or straight does nothing for me. I rather worry about my own action. If I was with a guy, and he started macking on another guy, I would definitely leave the scene, and go to some other club. | |
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| Bi Girls
Posted: 7/10/2009 9:24:16 PM | | If I wanted a girl, I'd be with a girl. I love men. Only men. | |
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