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 BeauSabreur
Joined: 5/11/2009
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ok ladies, poser for you:

a gentleman is really cool, and you like him, but he has a fetish for being walked on... in high heels. how would you react? would you indulge your partner, would it be a deal breaker, i mean... im in the situation myself being of that persuasion... so i just want some honest opinion? and don't bother to tell me i'm messed up, i know, but i embrace it :)
 Chipsss
Joined: 5/21/2008
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trample
Posted: 7/10/2009 4:06:22 PM
Womens feet are often eroticised, this is why there is so much more aesthetic emphasis on them like impractical high heels the pedestals to the rest of her form, I like a lot more than that myself, I would also indulge my partner in anything she wants within reason. Maybe you should read Brett Kahr's book "Sex and the Psyche" its quite interesting.
 psylocillin
Joined: 7/5/2009
Msg: 3
trample
Posted: 7/10/2009 4:28:54 PM
First date.... Pamplona Spain... Running of the Bulls.

He'll enjoy it.
 ForumFilly
Joined: 5/14/2008
Msg: 4
trample
Posted: 7/10/2009 4:47:01 PM
I'm afraid that at my size, walking on a man in high heels would be extraordinarily painful, not to mention, damaging to him. I can't stand the thought of causing pain to someone, so that would be difficult for me to do. If I was 100 lbs or so, then I might consider it, if that turns him on. In the grand scheme of things, that sounds like a rather mild fetish to me.
 TruthinessIncorporate
Joined: 12/27/2008
Msg: 5
trample
Posted: 7/10/2009 5:02:49 PM
ForumFilly

"I can't stand the thought of causing pain to someone, so that would be difficult for me to do"

I don't know about that...from the look of your profile pic, and your come hither grin...you've been hurt the fellas for quite a few years now...



Truth, all she did was turn her head, married 40 years now-TruthinessInc
 ForumFilly
Joined: 5/14/2008
Msg: 6
trample
Posted: 7/10/2009 5:39:32 PM

ForumFilly


"I can't stand the thought of causing pain to someone, so that would be difficult for me to do"


I don't know about that...from the look of your profile pic, and your come hither grin...you've been hurt the fellas for quite a few years now...

Awww, what a sweet thing to say! Let me strap on my stilettos and lay down, big boy!!
 HazelRose
Joined: 6/15/2009
Msg: 7
trample
Posted: 7/10/2009 5:42:23 PM
Hmm being trampled on, yep a dealbreaker. I went out with a guy that wanted me to cut him with a straight edge razor. Oh that is scary, too.
 TruthinessIncorporate
Joined: 12/27/2008
Msg: 8
trample
Posted: 7/10/2009 5:47:44 PM
"Awww, what a sweet thing to say! Let me strap on my stilettos and lay down, big boy!! "

Can we work up to the stilettos? I have this pair of Jammy jams you can wear, it's got the feeties in them and a trap door...I figure it'll be a good warm up?




Truth, the safety word is banana-TruthinessInc
 alexa0414
Joined: 5/22/2009
Msg: 9
trample
Posted: 7/10/2009 6:04:05 PM
Not a hard question for me to answer.
a gentleman is really cool, and you like him


Okay so he is cool and I like him...so of course I will do something that would give him pleasure. I would hope he would do the same for me. That's what it's all about isn't it?

Although, I don't have great balance and I may wobble and fall to the floor......
 psylocillin
Joined: 7/5/2009
Msg: 10
trample
Posted: 7/10/2009 6:07:36 PM
Well....... definitely gives a whole new meaning to, "Letting someone walk all over you".
 ava-adore
Joined: 10/21/2008
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trample
Posted: 7/10/2009 6:26:02 PM
i would crush him.
 displ4ced
Joined: 8/8/2007
Msg: 12
trample
Posted: 7/10/2009 6:28:45 PM
sounds fine to me...I have very cute shoes I could wear too! ;)
 MeInSC
Joined: 7/14/2008
Msg: 13
trample
Posted: 7/10/2009 6:45:18 PM
How would I react? I'd probably tilt my head to the side and say, "Hmmm... I'm a big girl and I might bruise you, but hey, bruises can be fun." Almost everyone has some type of fetish or fantasy. They should be openly discussed. If you really like someone, then you should be able to tell them what turns you on. You don't always have to try it, but don't be embarassed to discuss it.
 eschec mat
Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 14
trample
Posted: 7/10/2009 6:51:50 PM
Nope, won't give or receive pain...ok yeah, I know sometimes it hurts so good, but I mean something like that could go between your ribs and cause damage or break a rib. I have walked flat footed sideways, but nope not with heels.
 zangie
Joined: 5/30/2007
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trample
Posted: 7/10/2009 6:53:12 PM
I actually had a guy on another dating site ask me to do this....

I haven't got an objection to something this relatively benign if it makes him happy...but, as I tried to point out to this guy, ( though I had no intention of doing it either way)...I'm afraid at my size..I'd really hurt him...

I think that women who are open minded will at least listen to requests from someone they care about...I have tried many things for someone I cared about..there are some that are complete not on your life things...but, not many..and some that once I tried just weren't pleasant for me...but, I would try my best to please someone I cared about...
 actshorty
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 16
trample
Posted: 7/10/2009 7:49:04 PM
errrrrruuughhhh!!
i cant stand it when my heels puncture the grass im walking on...
i dont think i could handle to feeling of puncturing SKIN.
 miska1
Joined: 9/16/2008
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Posted: 7/10/2009 8:10:54 PM
Brings to mind a country song about boots.......


Now personaly I liked giving my ex back massages, and he would have me walk on his back for a deep rub.
 sandra19
Joined: 9/30/2007
Msg: 18
trample
Posted: 7/10/2009 8:21:59 PM
i wouldnt date a guy like that, but considering im sometimes into femdom ..id do it still
u like the pain..i like giving it hahaha
and its not messed ..i heard worse but hey whatever floats ur boat
cheers :)
 Sidewinder154
Joined: 5/19/2009
Msg: 19
trample
Posted: 7/10/2009 8:36:50 PM
Well I'm not a small gal so I think if I were to indulge in this fetish, my SO would end up looking like swiss cheese. LOL Nah... I think I'll pass on that one.

There are some women out there though who are into giving that kind of pain/pleasure. Find yourself a good dom.... I"m sure she'd be more than happy to oblige and they have those really cool thigh high stiletto leather boots
 OttawaJohnM
Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 20
trample
Posted: 7/10/2009 8:45:03 PM
You're my ex girlfriend's dream... a man who loves to be walked on......
You guys could role play..... buy t shirt with WELCOME written across the front and lie by the front door.........in wait...

Hahaha... either way man... it shouldn't be a big deal... there's no danger to her besides breaking a heel....
 BeauSabreur
Joined: 5/11/2009
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Posted: 7/11/2009 12:36:08 AM
cheers guys

for everything,, i mean i had no idea that this had been posted before, and wanted to know what the general consensus was. you've really helped alot. cheers

Beausabreur

Nice guys finish later... as the ladies know, this need not be a bad thing...

 Erinlove
Joined: 11/30/2008
Msg: 22
trample
Posted: 7/11/2009 1:02:56 AM
It would be a deal breaker for me, but so is anything strange sexually. I don't want to feel awkward at all. Maybe when I get older, as the pool runs dry, I will order weirdness into categories but for now I'd prefer them "normal" sexually in every way.
Anal play on men scares the crap out of me too so I am not the best one to ask lol

(They say fetishes are stunted sexual growth, I am not sure how true that is. I get it for manly hands, but it's the pleasure they provide. I don't remember being hot for them when I was a kid :P)
 kaylee wilson
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 23
trample
Posted: 7/11/2009 2:31:32 AM
Always wanted a guy i could walk all over !
 BeauSabreur
Joined: 5/11/2009
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trample
Posted: 7/11/2009 2:33:51 AM
if youre ever up for it... give me a shout lol
 kaylee wilson
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 25
trample
Posted: 7/13/2009 8:22:29 AM
rofl i just might
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