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Posted: 7/11/2009 9:10:57 AM | | i was in a casual very casual relationship for 7 years when like most people when young goes out well i would meet this person at end of night if we both out or sometimes he would come to my house after being out with his mates we had a great time when we were together then he would leave and i would just meet him next time it was fine , but had to come to a end when i started seeing my ex husband. now that i have split up from ex i saw him on pof and got in touch had a laugh on the messages but also told him i was now single again and that he could pop back up to mine anytime he did answer his message but with a joke and no mention if he will come up to mine sometime, normally he very honest with me if he not want to come up but after 5 years not sure so asking the best people any men have any advice to give me as he works offshore so is only home weeks at a time and is away at min??? cheers in advance for reading and passing anything helpfull on cheers me x | |
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Posted: 7/11/2009 9:30:47 AM | So what I'm getting from your initial post is that you stopped seeing this guy, and started seeing your ex husband again.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but if I was this guy, I wouldn't even want to have anything to do with you. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2009 9:35:25 AM | | After 7 years, he may have been more attached to you then he led on. Hoping that perhaps it would be more and when you bailed to be with your ex, it may have hurt him enough to not want to go through it again. I realize I'm not a guy, but thought I would give my 2 cents. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2009 9:36:18 AM | First off, I would expand your profile a bit. Use punctuation. Make it a habbit to use a period to make sentences flow. More people can understand you a lot better. Even this post is tough to read.
So you dated your ex and your casual went away. That's to be expected. Now that you split up with your ex, doesn't mean you can go back there again. Sounds also like you need a new interest.
Invest in a new relationship without trying to wipe-off and recycle old ones. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2009 9:39:26 AM | | no no i was with him for 7 years casual no strings his choice then when i met my husband i told him i could not meet casually with him which he was great about then i married my husband who was a heavy drinker so have had to leave that relationship now found my lover again so no cheating nothin like that don't do that!!! so now its clear have u got any advice ?? | |
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Posted: 7/11/2009 9:42:39 AM | | cheers but no he said it was fine and that we would never go out he does not do that just likes casual but i thought i wanted to be with someone for ever but dreams are shattered!! i have always loved this guy but knew would never be exlusive thats how wondering what he will be thinking now i also just want no strings | |
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Posted: 7/11/2009 9:45:54 AM | | My last bit of advice: perhaps he has another who is fulfilling those needs while he is on a dating path. It has been 5 years since you were seeing eachother. But the best way to find out is just to ask directly if you don't get feedback here that makes sense for how well you know him. :) | |
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Posted: 7/11/2009 10:19:50 AM | | No, he's not interested. You can speculate as to why he isn't, but if you've invited him back into your life, be it for friendship or casual sex, and he doesn't respond, then he's not interested. After five years, he may have grown into the feeling of being used by casual, no strings attached encounters. Or he might be with someone else. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2009 2:50:33 PM | | 5 years is a long time, he's moved on and so should you. | |
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Posted: 7/12/2009 9:43:35 PM | It's been five years. Also, it seems that you had stronger emotions towards him than he had for you. You said you were in love with him...he didn't show any love at all--not exclusive, strictly casual, FWB...
He's moved on. It was lust, not love, at least for him. That flame has burned out.
Do yourself a favor and find someone else.
Good luck | |
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