| is pussy better before a girl has kids Posted: 7/11/2009 10:48:30 AM | | ok so here is my question... is there a difference between having sex with a girl who has kids and one who has not...oh and if there is one which is better ? i have 2 kids and dont really notice a big difference on my end of the sex thing but i really am curious as to is all you guys see it... docters say that there is no change that is permanent but they could just be saying that to make bloated preg girls feel better or hopeful .... please let me know cause i have been talking to a guy who has never slept with a girl who has kids and i am trying to figure out if he will notice a big difference from what he normally does. | |
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| is pussy better before a girl has kids Posted: 7/11/2009 10:53:21 AM | To some to say the least, a vagina is more pleasing before a woman has kids. This is just what I've read.
Some men have said that a vagina after having children is too loose for their enjoyment.
It was said that some men enjoy a tighter vagina, when it comes down to sex. | |
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| is pussy better before a girl has kids Posted: 7/11/2009 11:07:09 AM | | There is no noticable difference. Goes right back to it's original shape and size. Feels just as good after as it did before. | |
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| is pussy better before a girl has kids Posted: 7/11/2009 11:09:11 AM | | Not much difference that I've been able to observe, or feel. If you are concerned about your condition you can always do kegel exercises, I can tell you that makes a big difference. But unless the doctor screws something up, there isn't any real change after you have had a baby. | |
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| is pussy better before a girl has kids Posted: 7/11/2009 11:12:12 AM | I have slept with women who had 4 kids. No difference. I have slept with women who had no kids. No difference.
I was just happy I was getting some action to be honest with you. I wasnt thinking to myself..."wow, this pootang is looser than the other one".....
Most guys are just happy they are getting laid. | |
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| is pussy better before a girl has kids Posted: 7/11/2009 11:12:55 AM | Goodness. Your subject line really strikes at the heart of matter. Have the doctor toss in an extra stitch or two after the child is born, then consider doing abdominal muscle exercises along with kegel exercises. Before you know it, it will feel just like prom night all over again.... | |
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| is pussy better before a girl has kids Posted: 7/11/2009 11:15:40 AM | | It's just in the guys mind. It's a mental thing. In our mind, a woman without kids is more "virgin" like and thus more appealing to our ego. | |
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| is pussy better before a girl has kids Posted: 7/11/2009 11:17:37 AM |
is there a difference between having sex with a girl who has kids and one who has not Yes.
oh and if there is one which is better ? IMO neither. It's just different. There are far more factors and variables at work than the "****." Unless she had kids a couple of days ago. Or if she never did Kegel exercises.
i am trying to figure out if he will notice a big difference from what he normally does. IMO the biggest contributing factor causing a noticeable difference will be the type of relationship the two have before they have sex. | |
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| is pussy better before a girl has kids Posted: 7/11/2009 11:18:36 AM | Tastes the same to me.
And I still find the girls will react accordingly with the right touch and flick of,,,,well whatever I am using at the time. | |
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| is pussy better before a girl has kids Posted: 7/11/2009 11:26:38 AM | Alrighty then.
I don't have children nor do I care to or want to. So I wouldn't know.
I'm gonna call bullsh!t on some of the responses. If what the guys answering is true, then how come in the "sex" forums when discussing the tightness of a vagina, some men say a woman is loose if she has too many sexual partners (I'm just talking physically not morally)? I believe the term that is frequently used is "throwing a hotdog down a tunnel". Oh the chuckles for the unwitty. Anyway, now if a baby ain't gonna loosen it (according to the answers so far), and it snaps back as you say, there is no way ANY penis is gonna stretch it out to all kinds of proportions. So which is it? | |
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| is pussy better before a girl has kids Posted: 7/11/2009 11:51:14 AM | A vagina is a muscle, possibly the most elastic ever known in the human body. Having a child does not do permanent damage, but it may take up to 8 months to move back into shape.
Men who say a woman with many partners is "loose", is and has always been a uphamism. | |
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| is pussy better before a girl has kids Posted: 7/11/2009 11:58:55 AM | Pitch - I don't see how having too many partners can possibly be any different than having only one... unless the frequency of her sexual encounters is rediculously high. I guess if one has spent the last ten years of her life laying on her back while numerous men pound away with telephone pole-sized c0cks every day... well that might stretch it out a bit.  | |
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| is pussy better before a girl has kids Posted: 7/11/2009 12:20:05 PM | The most frightening hing is that you are an "adult" with children asking an adolescent question like this. Do things like this really concern you ? Again , I weep for our future. | |
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| is pussy better before a girl has kids Posted: 7/11/2009 12:22:54 PM | heehhehehehehehehee.
This is funny, cuz I thought the op was a guy. Then I saw the pic. But its still funny.
And let me tell you why this is funny. Most women that I have talked to with kids will tell you that there is a difference. How do I word this? The muscles in that area would be more controlled than before they had kids. They are allowed to do things that they normally wouldnt be able to do. If that makes any sense. Which is true, if you have a woman who knows how to control those muscles. If she even knows they exist. They can make the canal ( for lack of a better term ) contract and expand at will. Now think of the possibilities. Easily convincing, if you know what I mean.
And its funny cuz you don't know this. So you might want to ask a girl.
Because 90% of the guys out there will tell you there is no difference, one is no different than the other.
Au Contraire..... | |
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| is pussy better before a girl has kids Posted: 7/11/2009 12:50:57 PM | I Can't Believe It's Not Virgin! = No Difference.
The cooch tightens up in just a few hours, so if you've been screwing in bed all day, yes it's loose. Come back tomorrow, and it's tight again. The first go round is always tighter. I mean unless you're practicing with B.O.B. for an hour before you guy shows up, there is no difference.
That's why lube was invented. Duh. | |
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| is pussy better before a girl has kids Posted: 7/11/2009 12:51:21 PM | | with the number of c-sections being done it really dont matter. but any is better then none... and two people in love are not going to notice any way. | |
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| is pussy better before a girl has kids Posted: 7/11/2009 1:25:45 PM | I have never gotten any complaints, and I had 5 children... however they were all c-sections so I guess that doesn't factor in? lol
With age things change for us all, men and women alike. Things sag, wrinkle, droop, go limp etc etc... That is probably more noticeable than anything else, especially I would think for a younger guy with an older woman wether she has had children or not. | |
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| is pussy better before a girl has kids Posted: 7/11/2009 1:25:52 PM | my tightest experience was with a gal who had two kids. (mmm, 20 years later those tapes are still fun to run in my head. )
she said she'd had a great doc who sewed her up. i have no idea whether this an exaggeration or what.
and as far as this ...
The most frightening hing is that you are an "adult" with children asking an adolescent question like this.
let he who has only 'mature' thoughts around sex cast the first stone ... and then wonder what's missing in the bedroom. | |
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| is pussy better before a girl has kids Posted: 7/11/2009 1:27:20 PM | I've never noticed a difference. I suppose if its a difficult birth and there is some tearing that might make a difference but I've no experience with that so I can't say.
P.S. Yes, I have been with the same woman before and after she had a child. | |
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