| What Would You Be Thinking?
Posted: 7/12/2009 9:27:11 PM | | What would you think of a female , whom you've just met, that keeps throwing having sex in your face all the time?I mean, if you were trying to get serious with this female.And all she does is talk about having sex all the time.Which you haven't got to that point yet.What would you be thinking of her? | |
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| What Would You Be Thinking?
Posted: 7/12/2009 9:29:05 PM | | It happens to me all the time and to be honest I’m getting a little tired of it. | |
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| What Would You Be Thinking?
Posted: 7/12/2009 9:31:28 PM | What would I be thinking of her? How to fake a bathroom break and run for the car.
If we just met or in the "learning stages" and all she's throwing on the plate is sex, something is very wrong, and not very serious.
Vroom. | |
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| What Would You Be Thinking?
Posted: 7/12/2009 9:34:15 PM | If thats the best conversation she can come up with I would be out of there. Who wants to spend a lot of time with someone who gives the mental stimulation of a plate of steamed brussel sprouts.
Sex is fantastic don't get me wrong but there is so much more to see and discuss in life than just the one topic. | |
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| What Would You Be Thinking?
Posted: 7/12/2009 9:34:20 PM | That she's just into me for the sex and that I would be going where several men have gone before.
It would depend on how much I was attracted to her--physically and emotionally--if I slept with her or not. Then I would have to decide if I wanted a FWB relationship with er because this would more than likley turn into that. I'm not big into meaningless sex so I doubt I would sleep with her and we would probably not date anymore. But without being in the situation I can't say what I would do...only speculate a hypothetical question. | |
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| What Would You Be Thinking?
Posted: 7/12/2009 9:34:43 PM | | Not that I have girls throwing themselves at me, but when they do, it's annoying and a turn off. | |
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| What Would You Be Thinking?
Posted: 7/12/2009 10:19:19 PM | For the first day or so, complimentary.
Shortly thereafter, a little boring (and a bit of a red flag).
If it continues more than a week, VERY annoying and certainly a dealbreaker. | |
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| What Would You Be Thinking?
Posted: 7/12/2009 10:39:10 PM | Huh? Keeps talking about having sex? I think she'd only have to mention it twice before we'd say "check, please" and get a room to take care of her horniness.
Men know who they want to ****, and when the door is open, they walk through it and ask questions later. Really -- she wouldn't have an opportunity to keep talking about sex because her mouth would be full of penis.
Even the men who don't like that kind of talk wouldn't keep dating her or sitting through such a date -- they'd be OUT OF THERE pronto. Men generally don't suffer a bunch of BS. | |
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| What Would You Be Thinking?
Posted: 7/12/2009 10:41:19 PM |
Some of you guys are full of crap!! Most of you guys sound like you've all found religion all of a sudden. Truth is, it all depends OP. Most of us would either try to have sex with her, OR at the very least flirt back. There's no way of telling; obviously it all depends on the guy, how the guy felt about the girl to begin with, whether he's attracted to her or not, and how he felt after meeting her. My first thought would be, "How many other men has she done this with before?"
I'll grant one thing, if it made me feel uncomfortable, and she kept on talking about it, then that would be a big turn off, but if I were attracted to her, I'd flirt right back! I wouldn't recommend SEX being the first, major, or only topic of conversation.
Good luck,
Cityboy | |
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| What Would You Be Thinking?
Posted: 7/13/2009 2:04:42 AM | ha ha ha ha... i cant even sympathize with this scenario... ive never met a woman who constantly talks about her sexual experiences with me upon meeting... however, ive had quite a few to talk about wanting sex from me openly.
damn, i would say, this chick must be trying to send a clear signal she is no stranger to getting laid and evidently to breech such a topic, obviously wants some. depending on the chemistry, id say GO FOR IT | |
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| What Would You Be Thinking?
Posted: 7/13/2009 2:05:33 AM | Talking about sex how? Sex with others, or sex with me?
A girl who comes on strong can be quite intimidating, and nervousness has a negative effect on a man's sexual performance. Regardless, I pretty much chose sex after a few missed opportunities left me vowing to never miss another one.
Sex too early can complicate things when you assume it causes a change in roles. Boundaries need to be established at some point, and a deal-breaker that caught me a few times was the assumption that a person who slept with you suddenly transformed into an affectionate, exclusive partner who somehow understood you. I have been on both ends of this awkward exchange, and neither is desirable.
If I had good chemistry and a solid connection with somebody, and they were ready to boogie down, then I went for it (safely as possible, mind you). Despite the fact that it didn't work out for me, I still believe there's a possibility that it could work for two people of complimentary personalities. | |
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| What Would You Be Thinking?
Posted: 7/13/2009 2:44:59 AM |
Huh? Keeps talking about having sex? I think she'd only have to mention it twice before we'd say "check, please" and get a room to take care of her horniness.
Men know who they want to ****, and when the door is open, they walk through it and ask questions later. Really -- she wouldn't have an opportunity to keep talking about sex because her mouth would be full of penis.
Even the men who don't like that kind of talk wouldn't keep dating her or sitting through such a date -- they'd be OUT OF THERE pronto. Men generally don't suffer a bunch of BS.
What he said.
If he didn't basically knock the dishes on the floor and do you in the restaurant it means that he didn't want to. | |
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| What Would You Be Thinking?
Posted: 7/13/2009 2:48:32 AM |
What would you think of a female , whom you've just met, that keeps throwing having sex in your face all the time?
I'd think I'm not the first guy to hear this, nor the last. | |
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| What Would You Be Thinking?
Posted: 7/13/2009 5:06:27 AM | There's nothing wrong with a woman that wants sex but if all I ever hear from a woman I just met is sex, sex, sex then I can very safely assume that it's her pattern and that it's what she does with all men with whom she shows interest. Obviously, she needs sex more than she needs to get to know me or see how I am as a man. It would be very hard to trust a woman who puts sex as a first priority -- it just shows me that she hasn't experienced the accomplishment and satisfaction of humility and being less self-centered.
It's a trap!! :) | |
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| What Would You Be Thinking?
Posted: 7/13/2009 6:10:45 AM | - Possible her self-esteem is such that she figures that's her best offer?
- Possible she is very attracted to you and wants to get around to the first time soon so she can show off her 101 tricks in bed?
- Possible she lacks conversational skills or interests to talk about so she talks about what she thinks you want to talk about.
- Probable she doesn't know this has popped up as a red-flag for you. If she still interests you, mention it to her tactfully and see if she has anything of more substance to offer.. | |
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| What Would You Be Thinking?
Posted: 7/13/2009 12:48:53 PM | | I wouldn't be trying to get serious with her because I think her intentions are pretty clear. I'd think that she's looking to have a good time, and not really looking for a relationship right now. There's nothing wrong with that.. everyone does it at some point in their life | |
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| What Would You Be Thinking?
Posted: 7/13/2009 1:29:01 PM | It seems from the responses that there are two possible interpretations.
If she were offering to have sex with me, then I'd make the evaluation based on whether I wanted to have sex with her or not.
If she were just talking about sex in general, I would think her a tease and get away from her. | |
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