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Posted: 7/13/2009 2:12:49 PM | Hey All
Below is a message I sent to one girl in here:
Hey C
Nice try! Making us guys believe your a model, which website did
you nab the pic from?
Do you have any real pics, the ones like eating whole pizza's with
a few pints..
Let's be real, I like girls with authentic pics!
JK1luv
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Her response:
just because ur a minger doesnt mean the rest off the world is, i never claimed to be a model, i have one pic off me modelling, its not illegal to make abit off cash so just grow up and bother someone else will u!!!
I think I was expecting her reply to be either this or come out with some sort of funny response.
Anyway, I think I do have a way to come back good on this without being a prat. Does anyone else have ideas?
Cool 
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Posted: 7/13/2009 2:16:24 PM | | If a prat is anything like a pr**k, too late... you're already one. First, I cannot believe you messaged someone just to be a rude-azz d***. Second, I cannot believe you then came to the Ask A Girl folder to BRAG about behaving like a rude-azz d***. Third, I cannot believe you asked for suggestions on how to be a MORE rude-azz d***. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 2:20:28 PM | | I would try leaving her alone. Your original message was rude and offended her. There's nothing you're gonna say that will change her impression of you. You should be careful making accusations based on a hunch that you conjured up out of no where. If you think a girl is using a fake pic. then move on to the next pic. You aren't the picture police. If you are, then you're not very good at it obviously. Just don't be rude when you are trying to make a first impression. You obviously did not flatter her. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 2:24:27 PM |
...I think I was expecting her reply to be either this or come out with some sort of funny response.
Anyway, I think I do have a way to come back good on this without being a prat. Does anyone else have ideas?...
You could attempt growing up for starters.
p.s. to late on not being a prat.
FYI: Prat (urban dictionary)
Basically someone whos a major idiot, or is delusional and dumb. Acts against logic and thinks hes self-righteous. AKA: Major dumbass. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 2:30:03 PM | JK1luv...what is your problem? and what is it you are trying to accomplish by being rude to this woman?
I agree with WindRoper. You have some nerve posting such a question for us...what did you really think we were going to say.
Just think how the other women will take your messages now that you have this on your forum list. My advice is think before you message next time. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 4:28:09 PM | You blew it dude.. the only thing you could possibly do now is grovel and send her a apology. Perhaps with the bouquet of flowers attached as a gift?
Tell her you opened mouth and inserted foot.. no, both feet and you are so sorry. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 4:34:10 PM | | WTF is a minger? Anyway, was it really necessary for you to be rude to someone? Now you're asking us to help you with an answer to her reply. Please forget about it. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 5:30:46 PM | | OP, I saw your post and to be honest it boggles my mind. I am a logical person and I can't wrap my head around that kind of idiocy. Please never post that kind of rubbish again so I can avoid the stress associated with trying to comprehend it. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 5:35:04 PM | He was clearly trying an insulting in a playful way approach..
Almost could have been taken with a bit of sarcasm.
If he was being rude I'm sure he could have told her something about her appearance not the "style" of her pictures.
My only question is playing human emotion is identical to chess.
Think moves ahead.. If it was an expected reply then you should have been prepared.
You might try to respond with something witty, whatever your instinct tells you.
If shes really posting modeling pictures though, she probably gets 30-100 emails daily with people attempting to use pick up techniques. ( keep in mind you are online, you might have a better chance getting hit by lightning)
Also for anyone who doesn't know, playful insults are a major part of flirtation.
If you didn't know this you might not be too good on here as far as getting responses..
I don't think you're an idiot, but whatever you do, use your head and don't fret.
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Posted: 7/13/2009 5:36:26 PM | Prat
the guy who sends an insulting email, then posts it along with the response in the forums.
You realize OP that everyone that looks at your profile can see this thread you created. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 5:40:08 PM | | You want advice on how to harass a woman?!?! Know what you SHOULD say? "I am deeply sorry that I bothered you in the first place. I was not raised properly. In the future I will leave ladies alone if I don't like what's on their profile. Thank you for showing me what a @%$# I am." | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 5:50:24 PM | | Imperialpilot, I'm sure everyone knows what a playful insult is, however no one mentioned it as there is no playful insult evident. Secondly playful insults are not an opener they come after a connection has been made. As for instinct it should have told him not to write that in the first place, so I wouldn't rely on it too much. Lastly what are you going to say insulting to a modelling photo...your left eyebrow is higher! OH MY GOD! I don't like your swimsuit it stinks...Oh nooo how terrible. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 5:54:00 PM | [ quote ] Also for anyone who doesn't know, playful insults are a major part of flirtation. [ /quote ]
I 100% agree. There is even a name for such a technique. It's called the Push-Pull technique. However, what he did was push without any pull. When you do this there is a very fine line there. You either come off as a funny lighthearted guy or you you come off as an a$$hat. He came off as the later. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 6:10:28 PM | Double true.
I'm not saying his execution was perfect or even a brilliant attempt. More or less what I think he was trying..
and I will say if he wrote a sappy email he would have had zero response.
Well as we say on POF
as the sea churns?
maybe we don't... yet but I want credit  | |
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