| Where do u meet a nice guy? Posted: 7/16/2009 2:08:20 AM | | Well this internet thing hasnt worked at all for me. Im wondering where do people go to meet people? Im not a bar star...Dont have a heck of alot of hobbies, no kids...Hmmm library haha? any ideas? ALso is pof just one big meat market?? Im not looking for one nighters.... Help | |
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| Where do u meet a nice guy? Posted: 7/16/2009 2:17:12 AM | Simple. To find a nice guy go to the grocery store. If you see a guy with a lot of foods for a slow cooker he is probably single and has been for a while which would indicate he is nice and can cook 
POF is a decent forum and a nice way to get rejected while your drinking your morning coffee. Nothing starts the day better than a little dose of reality. | |
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| Where do u meet a nice guy? Posted: 7/16/2009 3:30:05 AM | | It takes time to learn how to make the internet work for you. JUst like the twon square or a bar their are jerks, meat hunters, and nice guys. One place to strat is with a profile review to see what kind of guys you are attrcating. Some towns have an internet thing called "meet-up" . Its where folks who have similar interests can post opportunities to share doing stuff they like. These are not dates but a chance to meet others who might have similar interests. | |
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| Where do u meet a nice guy? Posted: 7/16/2009 3:39:54 AM | | To meet a nice guy??? Join a large church with a huge member count and be a nice woman and you will find a nice guy. | |
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| Where do u meet a nice guy? Posted: 7/16/2009 4:25:20 AM | | Actually just hang out in the AAG forum - they pop up there on a regular basis. | |
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| Where do u meet a nice guy? Posted: 7/16/2009 4:36:22 AM | | The Ask a Girl forum has countless threads started by nice guys everyday. Hang out there and email every guy who posts "What's wrong with me". | |
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OKRob
| Joined: 6/4/2009 Msg: 7 | |
| Where do u meet a nice guy? Posted: 7/16/2009 4:49:49 AM | Do OK fellas only show up in certain places then? 
What about a reeealllly good guy who was just having a bad day on the day you met him in the perfect location so he didn't catch your eye?
I doubt the place that you bump into somebody has any bearing on if a person is nice or not :) | |
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| Where do u meet a nice guy? Posted: 7/16/2009 6:09:29 AM | | According to the resident POF mavens, Nice Guys are the worst possible type of man. They are said to turn out to be immature abusers whose initial affability is but a devious ruse to trap you. So, according to the wisdom offered, you should avoid a nice guy and instead let yourself be found by a, well, see, they don't say exactly what the option is. You're supposed to avoid someone who is nice but neither do you want someone who isn't nice. I guess you'll just have to settle in and languish waiting for that man who is neither nice nor not nice. Never mind all that; the upshot is that there just aren't any, no matter what kind you decide to wait to be found by. It's hopeless. All that is left is to join your sisters in the ongoing complaint about men. | |
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| Where do u meet a nice guy? Posted: 7/16/2009 6:17:20 AM |
The Ask a Girl forum has countless threads started by nice guys everyday. Hang out there and email every guy who posts "What's wrong with me".
That's if you're into messaging saps, attention seekers, and those of no confidence. Not to mention the threat of creepy, clingy individuals as mopey as Eeyore on Ritalin. | |
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| Where do u meet a nice guy? Posted: 7/16/2009 7:15:19 AM |
Subject: Where do u meet a nice guy?
Are you serious? Nice guys? Trust me.. There is the Big difference and define of the term " Nice guys " is..
Nerdy guy that dresses funny.. Hes nice, You wanna hook up? didnt think so. Fat guy, Hes funny and knows how to cook (He likes to eat), wanna hook up? Nope! The guy that is very attractive, smells nice, tells great lies and he will call you, when hes ready to get some yumyum again.. Wanna date that nice guy? Thought so..
What is a " Nice guy " ? . Its kinda like a virgin. No one wants to date one. ONCE you give them a little attention, have sex with them, they will fall in love, get psycho and wont ever leave you alone! Blow up your phone, tell all their friends how big of a d^ck he is, blah blah..
Oh dam. i had a flash back.. | |
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| Where do u meet a nice guy? Posted: 7/16/2009 7:16:12 AM | Well nice guys are of the same species and can be found wherever not so nice guys are found. You don't have to go to church, stay away from bars or like books to be a nice guy lol thats all just sterotype. Just don't worry to much on it and keep dating and doing your thing...sooner or later one will pop up  | |
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| Where do u meet a nice guy? Posted: 7/16/2009 7:20:46 AM | So, yeah...looks like you're actually looking for a nice guy. Who's also physically attractive but himself doesn't worry about body type, doesn't drink much, is emotionally available, is easygoing, has no baggage, is under 38, lives in or near Vancouver area (since you're unwilling to travel), is "real", isn't a "loser", drives, is your best friend and #1 fan, and isn't concerned for your evident serious medical problems.
So is everyone else. (Hell, you've even got a testimonial; very few women do.)
Please don't see this as an attack; it's not. But do you begin to see something here? | |
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| Where do u meet a nice guy? Posted: 7/16/2009 7:26:58 AM | | Just as beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so is the "nice guy." One woman's nice guy is another woman's jerk sometimes. So...it takes effort. It's not about just "meeting a nice guy." You have to look around, think about what you like and don't like in a guy, and communicate.... and that's the effort part. | |
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| Where do u meet a nice guy? Posted: 7/16/2009 7:28:30 AM | I was in FutureShop the other day and there were TONS of nice guys.
Commissioned sales, what? I just look really hot in the light of a plasma screen tv. | |
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maryrn
| Joined: 2/12/2009 Msg: 18 | |
| Where do u meet a nice guy? Posted: 7/16/2009 7:32:48 AM | | Not all nice guys are virgins and geeks. I have met a few nice guys that I was very attracted to, but for whatever the reason...they were not attracted to me or it just didn't work out. A guy can be sincere and romantic and still work on cars and drink beer. | |
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| Where do u meet a nice guy? Posted: 7/16/2009 8:25:01 AM | Maybe i was a bit harsh. But im talking about " Between age of 20-30 " That IS in FACT on the internet fishing..
Or is this real life from dating sites? Oh, then yeah! Theres nice guys out there.. But they dont get play. They are too shy to talk to a girl, ask her for anything, they sit at home and dream of that bad girl to rule them and to change them in a way like the movie " Girl next door " !
But i guess its just my opinion anyways.. Who knows ? | |
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| Where do u meet a nice guy? Posted: 7/16/2009 8:29:51 AM | The WORLD is a giant meat market.
You just haven't found your cut of beef yet.
You meet a nice guy in the same place where you meet a not so nice guy. | |
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| Where do u meet a nice guy? Posted: 7/16/2009 8:30:29 AM | | Im a real real nice guy. I will lay a horny woman at anytime and won't even charge them to do it. | |
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| Where do u meet a nice guy? Posted: 7/16/2009 8:32:04 AM | Do a thread search for "Nice Guy"
apparently we have tons of them here on PoF... | |
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