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 musiciszen
Joined: 6/21/2009
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About a year ago, my girlfriend started to get very friendly with a guy she worked with. She started receiving tons of texts from him when they were not at work. When I asked about it, she would get extremely defensive and said I was obsessed with her phone but every time she thought I was not looking, she was on her phone sending or reading another text. She said she hid it because I was insecure and always asking her about it. This was all occurring when our relationship was not at its best and we were struggling. It just so happened, that one day,… a text came in and I saw it. It said that he loved her and he wished they could go away. I never told her that I saw it. He ended up getting another job and went to a new company and the relationship they had sorta died and we were working on patching things up. Then, she got a new phone. I was going to transfer her pictures from her old phone when I came across a place in her phone where pictures sent in text are saved and there was a picture from this guy of him holding his erect penis (she didn’t know it was there.) She says he was just a friend and that he drank too much and did it when he was drunk one night. Funny thing is,… she never mentioned his drinking before this point. She said she gave him heck for it and didn’t like it. She also made a point of saying that she has a different sense of humor than I. What would you think?
 Landra2
Joined: 6/4/2009
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Picture of another mans erect penis found on girlfriends phone.
Posted: 7/16/2009 10:02:24 AM

a picture from this guy of him holding his erect penis (she didn’t know it was there.)
LOL That cracks me up.
What? In his hand? I didn't see anything. I didn't even know it was there!
Your GF is a liar.
 mcwr
Joined: 3/24/2009
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Picture of another mans erect penis found on girlfriends phone.
Posted: 7/16/2009 10:03:57 AM
Wow, and you are still with her? I would dump her ass. Please don't be a door mat.
 musiciszen
Joined: 6/21/2009
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Posted: 7/16/2009 10:07:44 AM
ha. Yes,.. in his hand. What (she said) she didn’t know is that she deleted the text but neglected to delete where the picture automatically gets stored. I guess I don’t really know for sure if she knew it was there. She is not very technically inclined.
 JustRo
Joined: 5/19/2008
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Picture of another mans erect penis found on girlfriends phone.
Posted: 7/16/2009 10:10:16 AM
There is always something up when people hide text messages or emails... Technology enables many things in this world... not all good stuff.
 Landra2
Joined: 6/4/2009
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Picture of another mans erect penis found on girlfriends phone.
Posted: 7/16/2009 10:10:37 AM

I guess I don’t really know for sure if she knew it was there. She is not very technically inclined.
oh believe me. We women KNOW when there's an erect penis photo sent to our phone. One can only wonder what the accompanying text said.
 airconditioninthesummer
Joined: 6/22/2009
Msg: 7
Picture of another mans erect penis found on girlfriends phone.
Posted: 7/16/2009 10:14:59 AM
OP, obviously you don't respect yourself. look at what you wrote: she turned everything around and blamed it on you. Imagine if the tables were turned?

Or maybe I'm wrong and that you forgot to mention in you're thread that you're involved in an OPEN relationship and that you and your girlfriend also SWING. Yeah, that's probably it. I am wrong. sorry, bro!

 red_relaxed
Joined: 7/18/2007
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Picture of another mans erect penis found on girlfriends phone.
Posted: 7/16/2009 10:20:32 AM
I'd only be concerned if it was bigger than yours.
Hey, seriously, you're on a dating site saying you're available, and she's messing around with co-w0rkers, so it's obvious that both of you aren't really into each other.
 pirateheaven
Joined: 5/11/2008
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Posted: 7/16/2009 10:27:16 AM
That is some pickle. You asked a very penetrating question. I am sorry you were thrust into this situation. You should prematurely withdraw from this relationship.
 Shamefullpride
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 10
Picture of another mans erect penis found on girlfriends phone.
Posted: 7/16/2009 10:27:35 AM

What would you think?


1. I think you already know, but think you'll be lost and die with out her attention.
Even if your not the center of it!

2. I think you 2 actually belong together. You've got an account you opened last month on a dating site, showing yourself to be available and seeking long term. Yet are posting comments about your "girlfriend" of over a year.

3. I think water truly does "seek it's own level"!

I have a question for you OP. Something I have wondered for a very long time.

When your in a relationship like this, do you ever question just walking up and giving her a deep kiss after she has been gone all day ? You know... Not knowing if she was just with the other guy or not. Or do you ever wonder during sex when she is doing the "special things" to you, if she does those same "special things" with that other guy too?

Well if you don't, You will NOW!
 cookie22222
Joined: 8/4/2007
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Posted: 7/16/2009 10:31:50 AM
Yikes...I hope I never meet Rock Man in a dark alley if I piss him off...

OP - really come on now...I get naked pics all the time - unsolicited from strangers. If I got them from someone I actually knew - there would be hell to pay. But she was continuing to encourage him all along...what do YOU think that means?
 Sabrosura
Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 12
Picture of another mans erect penis found on girlfriends phone.
Posted: 7/16/2009 10:43:35 AM
OP: Your gf sounds like a "winner". However, if you have stuck around, then I don't know what to tell you:

1. She is befriending another man, sending texts back and forth.
2. She then attempts to flip the "blame" on YOU (since you are calling her out on the obvious).
3. You read for yourself that they are MORE than FRIENDS (text stating that he LOVES her).
4. Erect penis on her phone - she didn't know it was there? LMAO! Yeah, ok. I don't know too many of my male "friends" that get drunk and send me a pic of their penises .
5. Her "sense of humor" differs from yours?

You have had more than enough signs to "read the writing on the wall". If you opt to stay in this relationship, then I hate to say this, you deserve to be played on.

However, since you are on a dating site, I'm assuming the "light bulb" went on?

 daynadaze
Joined: 2/11/2008
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Posted: 7/16/2009 10:48:20 AM
So how long do you plan on being this woman's pet joke? Why does she stay, do you pay the bills or provide something she can't get on her own because I don't get why women like this stay with one man while they screw around with so many others...why not just be single and do what you want? Anyway, you need to kick her to the curb, get tested for STDs and find someone not so trashy as this one.
 SASSYN89178
Joined: 2/19/2007
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Posted: 7/16/2009 10:52:18 AM
Are you still with her? If not, who cares? If you are, why are you on here?
 BigDaddyJinx
Joined: 11/4/2006
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Posted: 7/16/2009 10:53:09 AM
So she claims a random drunken shot of a penis was sent?

And you fell for it did you?

Dude, unless you're waiting for a HUGE flashing neon sign to go off, I suggest that you clue up next time. Yes, *some* people get WAY too carried away just because there's a lot of texting going on that wasn't before...but not always is it a bad thing.

However, in that vein, random c0ck shots are always a cause for the huge neon sign to appear.
 verityone
Joined: 10/23/2008
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Posted: 7/16/2009 10:58:58 AM
I don't know about you, OP, but I could do better than this woman...
 GeneralizingNow
Joined: 10/10/2007
Msg: 17
Picture of another mans erect penis found on girlfriends phone.
Posted: 7/16/2009 11:01:51 AM
So a floppy d*ck pic would have been ok with you?

BTW--where do you hide YOUR porn?
 musiciszen
Joined: 6/21/2009
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Posted: 7/16/2009 11:09:56 AM
No,... I am not still with her. We split before I joined this site. I still question the decision and would have given more of the story but didnt want to make my post tooooo long. I still care about her but I dont want her back. I suppose a key thing I left out is that this guy is married. She often said that I didnt trust her and I am trying to figure out how others would react under such a sercomstance. I spoke to some friends about this situation and one felt that the only person that would send a picture such as that is somone she slept with and I wanted others openions on the matter.

Thanks all.
 Sabrosura
Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 19
Picture of another mans erect penis found on girlfriends phone.
Posted: 7/16/2009 11:13:37 AM

I spoke to some friends about this situation and one felt that the only person that would send a picture such as that is somone she slept with and I wanted others openions on the matter.


Glad to hear you broke up. I would have to agree with your friends. Either she did sleep with him or was going to, but one DOES NOT SEND pics of this nature unless there is something up (other than his d*ck).
 Catisfaction
Joined: 12/14/2007
Msg: 20
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Posted: 7/16/2009 11:14:59 AM
I had pictures like that sent to me totally unprovoked and from men I didn't even know .... Yes, even on my phone, it's easy nowadays to get hold of somebody's phone number. One of them was found by my other half and that caused no end of trouble. Thank god he trusts me enough to let it go (eventually). What helped was that I let him sent the "man" in question a very abusive text.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 21
Picture of another mans erect penis found on girlfriends phone.
Posted: 7/16/2009 11:16:20 AM
I think your girlfriend lacks any respect for your intelligence. The only question is whether or not you prove her right.
 red_relaxed
Joined: 7/18/2007
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Posted: 7/16/2009 11:21:43 AM

I still care about her but I dont want her back.

Very wise choice. Hopefully you'll get to the place of indifference.
I agree with your friends. And you did see a text that he sent her professing he loved her, right? I feel she was having an affair with this married guy behind your back. Although she wasn't very discreet, now was she? She had no backbone and wanted an out. She's trash.
Get on with your life. You deserve better.
 no_excuses_please
Joined: 6/28/2009
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Posted: 7/16/2009 11:23:22 AM
Hmm...

Two lessons:

1) Don't snoop
2) She's not your girlfriend.
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
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Posted: 7/16/2009 11:30:44 AM
And he had to hold it up?????.......

I have a problem with those that have this need to snoop on others, and their phones, computers, mail, etc. All of this wreaks of insecurity, lack of trust, and many many more things, that I think good counseling could help, the both of you.

You are snooping because you know deep down, that something was not right, or you knew that she was playing you some, and knew you would take it. Snooping is one of the first signs of a relationship already over, but the two involved do not know it yet.

I can promise you this, that many of us have had "special" pictures or messages sent to us, over the years, and if one leaves it on their phone, email, or computer, when no longer with them, one is doing it for a reason, and that speaks volumes about that person.

Many of my former pictures that were sent to me, or taken when with that person, still exist, but only in a private location that can not be accessed by others, and only for my eyes, and my memories. The only current ones available, will be those that are of the one I am with at that time, and if and when it is no longer meant to be, they move from that location to my memory book......

People should feel free to leave their phones on the table, their computers turned on, and all the other forms of communication available, without feeling the need to hide, snoop, be jealous about, etc., and what needs to happen is open and honest communications about all that is happening in each others life.

Just my opinion........
 BeTwixxt
Joined: 7/4/2009
Msg: 25
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Posted: 7/16/2009 11:35:42 AM
lol I've heard of being caught red handed, but in this case it's "penis-in-handed"

My opinion is she was being a very naughty girl, and probably didn't just keep it limited to phone contact.
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