| I Must be way too stupid or my pics suck Posted: 7/16/2009 1:12:23 PM | | Do I really have to upgrade my pics. I dont really think doctoring up my pictures to look there best is the best move. What if eventually when we meet its not what you thought.......Hmmm whatever. Maybe the right one will enjoy the pics I have. | |
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| I Must be way too stupid or my pics suck Posted: 7/16/2009 1:20:20 PM | OP, you've only been here a few days, so be patient. More often than not, this process can stretch to months, so sit back, relax and ..
Add some more pictures. No need to doctor them, but your portfolio will experience an instant upgrade if you add pics other than those taken in front of your shower curtain.
Your "interests" field should be more specific. Sports? Ok, which ones? Travel? Where have you been? You could list, for example, "Cancun", and then somebody who's also vacationed there has an instant email hook: "Hey, I've been to Cancun, too!" See what I mean? | |
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| I Must be way too stupid or my pics suck Posted: 7/16/2009 3:45:44 PM | | I think that you are simply to rude when you say you lookink for a girl who can think about someting else beside the color of her nail polish, and your name ImWayTooSweet what does it mean? no honestly I think you are just rude! you are a attractif young guy but your personality I don't know! | |
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| I Must be way too stupid or my pics suck Posted: 7/16/2009 4:31:29 PM | | what else do you want the woman to think about, you give no real description of yourself other than you don't have time to meet new people. If you don't have time for that how will you have time for a relationship? Who says you are way too sweet? Maybe you should tell a little about why you have come up with that title, then give others the option to agree or not. What type of a woman are you looking for besides one who only thinks of nail color? Just things to think about. | |
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| I Must be way too stupid or my pics suck Posted: 7/17/2009 9:21:01 AM | Username: Make a new one. This one will drive women away in droves :P
Photos: Need a full body shot, some action shots (preferably outdoors and taken by friends when you're having fun and preferably without beers in your hands).
Interests: Recommended is 10-12, and for God's sake man, don't put "work" as an interest. You'll appear to be a workaholic!
About You: Nothing here, man. Spend 2-3 paragraphs discussing you, your interests, with a good splash of humor. Spend another full paragraph discussing what you're looking for in a woman - that special one that you're going to make all the time in the world for? What is she like?
First Date: Okay, I'm going to first correct your spelling, then I'm going to lay into you - cool? ;)
On my first date I think all dates should start with dinner. Its an easy way to find out a lot about someone and there is a lot of time to talk and see if its awkward or if sparks fly. If she likes to dance then we would head off to the club or maybe even salsa dance. If she doesn't like to dance then maybe we need to take this to the comedy club(we all love to laugh). If that doesn't pique her interest then I need a drink. Bar time!!
There's decent humor there so I don't want to beat you up too badly. Grammatically it needs help. I like the if - else relationships (I'm a developer, what can I say? The logic appeals to me) but I think the below might work better:
On our first date, I think we should start with dinner. We'll have an opportunity to get to know each other, talk in a comfortable setting, and see if the sparks fly.
If you'd like to dance, then we can head to a club or maybe find somewhere to salsa dance.
If you don't like dancing, however, perhaps we should try a comedy club (don't we all love to laugh)?
If that doesn't pique your interest, then I'm definitely going to need a drink, care to have one with me? | |
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