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Posted: 7/18/2009 5:41:10 AM | a guy on here got nasty with me when I said I wouldnt be fitted in for casual sex. he at first wanted to 'just' meet c how we got on, then it was I am free friday 4pm then he said saturday he was free, then next thing its I am busy friday after 6pm so can i come round his 4 til 6? as he was also busy , saturday night now camping?, he then asked me to come round for coffee friday lunch time? I explained I was not just fitting a quick 15 min sex session with someone I had not even met, I could get a quick 15 mins from my drunken hubby? he go snooty with me, told me to stop being a smart arse and F off?
so guys whatbu think? lucky escape or what. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2009 5:46:37 AM | | other guy reads like a dork and not one to lose sleep over :) | |
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Posted: 7/18/2009 6:42:39 AM | So OP... what is it that you're looking for???
Your profile says Friends, and that you're married. But your requirements to contact you says "must not be married"... ????? You can be, but they can't?? Doesn't make sense for just making friends.
And by reading exactly what you wrote, he never stated that he asked for a 15 minute sex session.. you simply inferred it. It reads as though he was trying to find a common time to first meet.
Given the same set of circumstances, I'd probably have done the same thing he did. I think HE dodged a bullet and made the lucky escape.
JS | |
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| fitting me in?
Posted: 7/18/2009 6:59:13 AM | As the poster above said, your profile is a little fishy... you are married but he cannot be?
Plus you were setting up a "date" and you are complaining about the fact that it would be only 15 minutes but you aren't complaining that he is making the date AT HIS HOUSE?!?
Hmmmm.... Sounds like he had reason to expect something casual | |
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Posted: 7/18/2009 7:33:44 AM | If i had a chick tell something like that id flip also!
I would think " Great, she has issues! "
And then its " F her for thinking im even like that! "
Yup... Kick rocks  | |
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Posted: 7/18/2009 9:18:09 AM | | I think your a mess, and you are finding the jerks you deserve | |
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Posted: 7/18/2009 9:23:58 AM |
I think your a mess, and you are finding the jerks you deserve
Yup. And it doesn't help that two of the six pictures on your profile (including your profile picture) are of you wearing a negligee. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2009 10:19:42 AM | It sounds like you need to find someone who will give you more than "15 minutes" of his time. Dump this loser and find someone else. This loser is way to be that busy to be even nice to you. There are many out there for ..that will give more than a partial hour of their time.
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| fitting me in?
Posted: 7/18/2009 11:42:19 AM |
Yup. And it doesn't help that two of the six pictures on your profile (including your profile picture) are of you wearing a negligee.
Yes. The profile looks like an invitation to second-degree Rapo (c.f. Eric Berne, Games People Play), and the OP seems to confirm that. | |
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Posted: 7/18/2009 12:34:30 PM | | Although there is no real excuse for being rude, you ae married and you are looking for sex outside marriage, so I'm not sure why you would not expect to receive messages from guys looking for a quick boink. What else could you be offering over a date with someone single? The thrill of a clandestine meeting? | |
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Posted: 7/18/2009 2:36:00 PM | oh this is good!!!!! ...the cheating wife complaining about men on a dating site.
you'll find no sympathy here | |
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Posted: 7/18/2009 2:42:18 PM | | sounds like it might of been, you never know with internet folk like that but i wouldn't lose sleep over it it's not like he can do anyhing over the web | |
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Posted: 7/18/2009 7:14:21 PM | I am totally confused by this thread. HUH?? Woman, I don't know if you're making any sense! You wanna go out and meet single men away from your husband and just be friends?? ARE you trying to have an affair? I can't co-sign the other guy IF his intention was to screw a married woman, but honestly, I'd give him more credit at least for being more honest than you!
Be honest now... what kind of advice or feedback were you expecting from us??? lol | |
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| fitting me in?
Posted: 7/18/2009 7:32:45 PM | LOL speaking of fitting in I love it when s omeone alwasy seems to have their weekends filled with something to do with a friend or family but can see you during the week.
Thepart that bothers me is that they think you are stupid like you haven;t figured out you are not worthy of their prime time. Its an insult to one;s intelligence. | |
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Posted: 7/19/2009 5:25:39 PM | | HUH? Why assume he wants a quickie? If the conversations were as confused as the post is, well maybe a 15 minute meeting would be a good idea. Other posters have noted that you're married but your date must not be, adding to the confusion. A married woman interested in dating only non-married men --- let me put on my Einstein thinking cap (got it at Dollar General for a buck -- that sort of means that you might have an intent to just play the field, but this guy doesn't just come out and say it, you do. So, who's being more explicit here about what's on their minds? | |
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Posted: 7/19/2009 6:30:25 PM | | this has affair written all over it..lol | |
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Posted: 7/19/2009 7:30:47 PM | | I feel sory for the hubby sounds like an another broken home on the way | |
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Posted: 9/17/2009 10:05:16 PM | You should have just gave up the vajayjay from the start. Instead of playing hard to get. | |
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Posted: 9/17/2009 10:46:25 PM | | OP has left the building..... | |
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