| Question for the women, part 2
Posted: 7/18/2009 1:41:02 PM | I read the 'question for the women' thread. I take it most women think it's a complement for men to look at their butts, as long as it's not a stare. One woman says if they get caught men should have a good compliment too. The same thing goes for breasts.
My question is would you really like a man to compliment you on these parts as they do legs, eyes, smile?
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| Question for the women, part 2
Posted: 7/18/2009 1:42:45 PM | If it is a sincere compliment then Yes...
There are times however that men have been known to start throwing out compliments just to get out of the hole they dug themselves.  | |
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| Question for the women, part 2
Posted: 7/18/2009 1:46:08 PM | Part 2 threads are against the forum rules. People who intentionally show disdain for the forum rules seem to have entitlement issues. That is how I perceive them, anyway.
I really don't want that kind of attention from a stranger. It creeps me right out.
The most flattering thing a man has said to me was "I find you fascinating."
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| Question for the women, part 2
Posted: 7/18/2009 2:13:36 PM |
How about trying to compliment me on my smarts or humor or compassion ...
The most flattering thing a man has said to me was "I find you fascinating."
Nuff said...
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| Question for the women, part 2
Posted: 7/18/2009 2:29:06 PM | | I have another question about butts. Why do both men and women stare at my butt whenever i grocery shop or i'm out and about? | |
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| Question for the women, part 2
Posted: 7/18/2009 2:52:13 PM | You'll have to supply a profile pic of you grabbin your ankles for us to intelligently answer that question..  . . .
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| Question for the women, part 2
Posted: 7/18/2009 2:57:10 PM | OP.... as you can see, the only time to officially whip out a butt compliment, is to answer the question of "do these pants make my butt look fat?". At that point, compliment away.
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| Question for the women, part 2
Posted: 7/18/2009 3:02:14 PM | If I don't know him I had better not hear that type of compliment... I think that would be creepy and inappropriate.
Now if I know him well he can whisper it in my ear anytime.... just saying...
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| Question for the women, part 2
Posted: 7/18/2009 4:26:07 PM | I had to delete a very good picture of myself because the dress I was wearing was a little 'revealing' and all I would get was 'I love your bo0bies' mail!!!
Now, I at least got one gentleman saying he likes my sense of humor from the exchange of mail we've been having!!! Imagine that... a compliment about my personality and not my breastonality!!!!!
I find THAT fascinating, don't you?  | |
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| Question for the women, part 2
Posted: 7/18/2009 4:28:14 PM | Ron
Gawwwd No. I couldnt imagine a random guy getting caught staring at my
chest and saying * Damn, nice rack*
The hell?
Id prolly slap him | |
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| Question for the women, part 2
Posted: 7/18/2009 4:31:03 PM | What the hell is the problem..we are talking about looking at a butt, right? the original question clearly stated that the guys were walking past a woman walking the other way......so if she dosnt turn around to see them starring,,,it really didnt happen.
There are far worse things that women should be creeped out about, for godsakes get over yourselves. We know not to compliment you verbally, so a look is a compliment.
What kind of a person gets offended by someone elses double take? I am not sure either. | |
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| Question for the women, part 2
Posted: 7/18/2009 4:40:33 PM | | This is a sequel? I'll stay tuned for Part Three. Meanwhile, let me flip the question around. How would you feel if a woman was staring at your crotch? Are you cool with that or would you be uncomfortable? | |
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| Question for the women, part 2
Posted: 7/18/2009 4:53:06 PM | | If it were my SO complimenting me and saying "I really love your ass" then yes, I would appreciate the compliment. But if a stranger complimented me on my ass then I would find it rather rude simply because the person spoke to me as if he knew me well enough to get that personal with me. | |
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| Question for the women, part 2
Posted: 7/18/2009 5:31:58 PM |
How would you feel if a woman was staring at your crotch? Are you cool with that or would you be uncomfortable?
I'll add a Part 2 to this: Would it make it okay if she complimented you on it? What if she was giggling a little bit?
"Wow, the way your pants fit you, I mean I'm looking and I just can't see a wrinkle or bulge at all! Your package must be very compact!"
We don't need to stare at any breasts, legs, thighs, or butts unless we're picking out chicken parts at the gorcery store. It's rude to stare and even ruder to comment on someone else's body parts uninvited.
Didn't your momma ever teach you nothing about manners? | |
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| Question for the women, part 2
Posted: 7/18/2009 7:37:45 PM | | Not unless he's already my partner or at least a very close friend or that would be the last time we talk. It's creepy if a stranger behaves like that. I'd just view him as someone without self-control. | |
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| Question for the women, part 2
Posted: 7/18/2009 8:17:32 PM | This is a sequel? I'll stay tuned for Part Three. Meanwhile, let me flip the question around. How would you feel if a woman was staring at your crotch? Are you cool with that or would you be uncomfortable?
^^^
Basket watchers? No it never made me uncomfortable. I was a little surprised. I thought, "Man! These ladies are even bigger sluts than we are!" | |
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| Question for the women, part 2
Posted: 7/18/2009 8:39:40 PM | With sincere respect, sometimes a compliment [to a body part] is a disguise for a passive aggressive utterance meaning to objectify a person and make her feel shameful. I apologize if I minimize since compliments from nice people.... I think it has to be taken in context and on a case by case basis to know if it's sincere or not.  | |
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| Question for the women, part 2
Posted: 7/18/2009 9:29:46 PM | "Meanwhile, let me flip the question around. How would you feel if a woman was staring at your crotch? Are you cool with that or would you be uncomfortable?"
A mans OR a womans crotch is really streatching it, and I wouldn't go there, not even if they had on revealing swimsuit bottoms that just barely covers, "you really have a nice bikini wax."
I would only compliment someone I knew well. I wouldn't mide compliments on my butt, a friend has done it before. Do men like compliments on their pecs or abs?
Ron | |
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