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Posted: 7/20/2009 1:13:47 AM | | Ok this is a question for males but females feel free to comment!! Ok there is a ton of people on this site and we all can see who views our profiles. I have no problem meeting people when I go out for the night but not intrested in meeting some drunk person who probaly won't remeber my name when they wake up lol. I meet people in random places better then on this site. One guy on here explained to me that alot of guys will look at a womens picture and immedalty judge is she is "out of their leauge" and this is why I was told I have a tougher time. Does that really happen with guys? I know i've done it a time or two but i'm just curious?? If so does that mean us girls need to put ugly pictures up lol (kidding) | |
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Posted: 7/20/2009 1:43:03 AM | I think with the anonymity of the internet, guys will always try to hit on the very attractive girls regardless if they think they are in their league or not.
To be as honest as possible, I think it might be more of the having a child. I mean, I like kids, but as a younger guy, I don't know a lot of younger guys that want to have a long term commitment with a woman and a kid - it is a bit of work, and if something happens, you just have to feel bad for leaving the kid after knowing them too.
Meeting people randomly, if they can't remember your name, I'm sure they weren't thinking of the ramifications of just meeting up for a one night stand.
The pool of people on this site is pretty small too relative to the population, there are probably 50-100 people in the Vegas area on this site. Plus being an online site, the people it attracts might be different than the one you are looking for.
Also, there is an option to hide who you view as well, so you aren't sure who actually saw your profile or not. | |
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Posted: 7/20/2009 5:47:51 AM | You are fairly young and so is poster Tom. I think I may have an older view of your post.
yes, without a doubt, guys will judge whether your "in their league" . And yes again, You appear more sophisticated than a guy at your age and this may limit your responses.
At 25 many guys still fancy themselves "players" and limit their emails to less intelligent arm candy (a generalization for sure). I totally admit I have viewed some women as in my league or not, but I have also dated out of my league and have the same yes/no connection results. You are asking about first impressions and they are very often wrong, due to either your written profile and some times whether your photogenic or not. | |
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Posted: 7/20/2009 1:23:24 PM | Your thinking like a woman...
If a guy is lookin at pictures and thinking she's untouchable and he's out of her league -he has no confidence and no self esteem -your probibly better off if those types stay away from you
Men (and women) should at least say "hello" to someone they find very captivating, -if they decides to ignore, than thats there problem...
At least they stepped up to the plate and took the swing | |
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Posted: 7/21/2009 12:30:18 AM | | The phrase, " out of their league " could refer to a lot of things, not just appearance. The guy who told you this was probably just giving you a good excuse for why he wasn't interested in continuing anything with you. I suggest you concentrate on finding people who want to play on the same field. | |
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Posted: 7/21/2009 2:33:04 AM | | I wouldn't say he wasn't unterested in talking to me actually it was the opossite but anyways i've heards it alot it's been funny even in meeting men face to face their so nervous compared to us women lol. Seems like some guys have met the wrong women ya know the types that think there too good for any guy lol. I'm sorry by no means am I big headed but for my age yes I think I'm good looking but I also have a lot more going for me than the average i'd be more intimidated by someone young and sucessful rather than just by their looks lol if that makes sense | |
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Posted: 7/21/2009 3:07:09 PM | LVGIRLY25
I could only imagine you're asking this because not many men have contacted you. You also say "One guy on here explained to me that alot of guys will look at a womens picture and immedalty judge is she is "out of their leauge" and this is why I was told I have a tougher time. Does that really happen with guys? I know i've done it a time or two but i'm just curious?? "
You're a good looking girl but the reason I think is your profile....you go on at lengths about the things you hate and want in a partner...this is good since you at least know what you are looking for but cuts down drastically the number of men who are going to contact you ...then you add all these mail filters
Male
Age between 21 and 35
Live in United States
Live within 75 miles.
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
You must have a picture to contact this user.
Must not be looking for Talk/E-mail
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be looking for Activity Partner
Must not do drugs
Must not be married
and you're drastically going to cut down those that want to contact you....The other thing missing is what sells anything....sex...you make no mention of anything sexy, including your pictures.
Try my experiment for fun...remove the filters and everything in your description but leave your pictures up and just type in "Fuuck me" in the description and then see how many guys consider you out of their league by looking at the pics!! | |
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Posted: 7/21/2009 11:02:07 PM | | wow thats probaly one of the dumbest things I have ever hear and all though you probaly spent a great deal of time typing your response sadly it ignorant!! Why wouldn't I put filters on there if I was looking for a "****" i'd just put it on there first off and second I sure as hell wouldn't need to waste my time on a site like this to get laid all you have to do is walk into a bar and end of story come on now. I know there's a ton of guys just looking for that but if there on here in search of that to me it means there too ugly that they can't get it by justing hitting a club. I feel sorry for guys like that and you but thanks for the statement! | |
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Posted: 7/22/2009 10:03:16 AM | Well I tried to be nice so lets be more direct.....
"Ok there is a ton of people on this site and we all can see who views our profiles."
No I can easily make so that you can't see me look at your profile but you're a genius so I'm sure you'll figure it out sooner or later.
"I have no problem meeting people when I go out for the night but not intrested in meeting some drunk person who probaly won't remeber my name when they wake up lol."
Really, then I suggest you try meeting people that aren't drunk! And what makes you think this place is any better.
"I meet people in random places better then on this site"
Wow that's a revelation....since I meet people once I step out my door , but have to go through a bunch of hoops and dances to meet anyone I have seen here.
"One guy on here explained to me that alot of guys will look at a womens picture and immedalty judge is she is "out of their leauge" and this is why I was told I have a tougher time."
Dream on honey...the guy was being kind to you just like I was trying with my first response! Any guy looking at your pictures and reading your profile is going say "****" and move on!
"Does that really happen with guys?"
Yes it does but since this is the internet people tend to feel more emblazoned (look it up) so they are less likely to not contact you because of that.
"I know i've done it a time or two but i'm just curious?? "
Of course you have, if you weren't so insecure you wouldn't be starting such a forum after signing up for ten days!
"If so does that mean us girls need to put ugly pictures up lol"
No it means that you might want to find a picture that doesn't make you look like a **** and change your profile to make it more inviting. | |
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Posted: 7/22/2009 9:46:41 PM | | lol your a funny one!! No wonder you have to jump through hoops t meet people on here one you don't have a picture so hmm got something to hide there buddy? and your profile wow you sound like a winner and you seriously say you have to jump through hoops lol wow!!! Actually i've met pleanty of people on here and if in youor opinon my pics look a certian way well thats your opinon and feel free to have that and i'll have mine. It was only a question on a forum who knew you'd get so involved in it wow lol. Good luck with your search sweetie your a real winner i'm sure you'll have no problems!!!! | |
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Posted: 7/22/2009 10:49:36 PM | | To lvgirly25, just wondering whats all this bar stuff mean? Just by walking into a bar or club gets people laid? I seriously doubt that! I honestly don't believe the majority of males who go into those places actually end up getting "lucky" at all, there just places to be "seen" thats all.. Now an attractive woman, you are correct, can get laid ANYTIME she wants, this is true whether she walks into a bar, club, supermarket, etc.. But guys, especially "nice" guys, don't even have a snowball chances in hell of it! Just setting something straight, thats all.. | |
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Posted: 7/22/2009 11:22:41 PM | professorjjd,
I agree with your statement I have heard that alot from males. I don't know if they actually end up getting lucky. But my point was more when going to those types of places it is unlikely that your going to find much but a one night stand kind of situation Most guys and girls going to the clubs tend to get to "smashed" to even know what occured the night before lol that's all I was saying. Nice guys shouldn't finish last!!! | |
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Posted: 7/23/2009 12:01:01 AM | | Well, trust me when I say, in a place like Vegas, we do! Only the "bad" boy types, or overly confident "successful" men seem to have any luck at all, the rest of us(meaning guys like me I guess) don't even get looks, let alone a date! Haha | |
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Posted: 7/23/2009 12:21:28 PM | Yeah I have something to hide...I'm a zillionaire and made my money dispensing advice and opinions. I can write english too. Since you didn't like my last experiment try this one. Draw a long pointy black hat on top of your head on your profile pic and tell me what you see....were you in the Wizard Of Oz? | |
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Posted: 7/23/2009 6:59:35 PM | lol plentofhumpinng you a pretty funny guy!!!! You are correct I was in that! People like you keep me laughing thanks I needed that!!! Your awesome!!!! | |
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Posted: 7/24/2009 9:23:34 PM | | Just out of sheer curiousity LVGIRLY25, on your profile, you say age is "just a number" and yet your limit is 35? That seems kind of contradictory, thats all..You seemed very cute! | |
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Posted: 7/25/2009 9:23:07 AM | | With such a good looking kid it would be nice to get a smile out of you...and try posting that! | |
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Posted: 7/26/2009 12:52:53 AM | | I am smiling lol !!! Dang ur a hard one to please!!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 7/26/2009 6:55:47 AM | You're a gorgeous lady with beautiful eyes and you have the "I would like to stick a pitch fork up my ex's...." look down pat!....but that's ok...you shouldn't be worried about the number of guys contacting you to begin with...you only need one perfect one! And I mean perfect, not one with a bunch of flaws you think you can fix because he has certain qualities you like...LOL...BTW you're not out of any guys league so don't prejudge, they could only be so lucky! | |
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Posted: 7/26/2009 8:33:40 AM | LVGIRLY25
Forgot to mention if you go to your mail settings...top right you'll find this:
Allow a user to see that
I viewed their profile:
(HELP) Yes No
comes in handy so you don't have to put up with idiots wondering why you looked but didn't contact them.... | |
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Posted: 7/26/2009 11:14:45 PM | ya gotta agree with tom, if i date a girl that has a kid it makes me realize im getting old.
i wouldnt contact a girl on here with no picture either, to many trannies in vegas | |
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Posted: 7/28/2009 7:14:44 PM | | lol ya that from the guy who has a blwon up picture of him with two chicks standing by it!!! I'm sorry I really don't get why guys take pics like that either so vain as to blow up your own picture or take a picture with their shirt off in a mirror that right there would make me close out not even worth looking at. I don't even get tempted to look if you blew up your picture that big means you have way to big of an ego and your superficial good luck sweetheart! I'd rather contact some one with a kid than a life size picture of themself not trying to dawg you out but seriously?!?!?! | |
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Posted: 7/28/2009 11:15:48 PM | | show it while ya got it sister, sooner then i know it ill be walkin around with sausage boobs and a cane. strike while the irons hot | |
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Posted: 7/29/2009 3:44:57 AM | | If you think thats shown what you got honey then go right ahead LMAO but umm ohh never mind I won't go there!!! | |
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