| | Men help me with Fellatio?? tips??? Page 1 of 5 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5) | Okay so I need some help here with a lil issue.  How do I make a guy really turned on from going down on him, I have been told by previous relationships that I knew what I was doing and I could see all the signs that what I was doing was right. I have read the Ten Commandments on giving head (excerpt: How to make love like a porn star) and have used them to my advantage, but........................ my boyfriend doesn't seem to be into it as much as I am, he only moans a lil and moves his hips. I want to give him a toe curling, muscle tensing, orgasmic experience. What kind of things do guys like girls to say to them to get them over the top, I understand that all guys are different but I need some scenerios and different opinions please and experiences that made you exclaim "WOW" and Ladies if I hear any replies on this thread, I will assume you have a big fat****and that might be a lil awkward. I have girlfriends and I have my own experiences to rely on for a woman's opinion ;P just playin | |
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| Men help me with Fellatio?? tips???
Posted: 7/21/2009 11:15:54 AM | Probably the best advice I have seen comes from God is a Woman by Ian Coburn.
Page 159 reads:
How important is the blowjob to a guy? Very. next to sex, it is the biggest thrill a woman can give a man. It not only feels great but it creates an instant feeling of gratitude toward the woman. Guys feel a stronger emotional connection to women who give us head than to women who don't.
We know many women don't like to give head. We appreciate them doing it and that appreciation takes the form of emotion. The emotion is augmented when a woman lets us ejaculate onto her breasts. It is augmented even more when she swallows.
(It's a comedy book).
Page 160 reads:
Don't go to town right away... Make a guy cry out for it. It's a lot less work and yet far more satisfying for the guy.
I have heard other tips including teasing with the hair, etc which to me goes farther than the "golf ball through a rubber hose" method.
By the way, the book I reference is hilarious. I have become addicted to books like this (I'm currently reading Live Nude Elf by Reverend Jen). | |
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| Men help me with Fellatio?? tips???
Posted: 7/21/2009 11:40:06 AM | I'm sorry, I wish I could help you, but I have hardly had any experience of having a Good BJ, but maybe try looking at a few porn films or some adult education films Eg : The Lovers Guide and more. or even try this link http://sexuality.about.com/od/oralsex/ht/fellatio.htm
Good luck lucky guy for you want to do that for him
Tim | |
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| Men help me with Fellatio?? tips???
Posted: 7/21/2009 11:41:25 AM | | Fellatio is probably the only thing that one can learn how to be good at by watching porn. One of the three best fellatrices I have ever known learned this way. | |
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| Men help me with Fellatio?? tips???
Posted: 7/21/2009 12:43:18 PM |
How do I make a guy really turned on from going down on him,
It is not so much as what you do, but how much he is into you. I have had good head before, but nothing like my g/f. I'm just so turned on by her that I have mind blowing orgasms. You b/f's lack of response may be a sign. | |
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| Men help me with Fellatio?? tips???
Posted: 7/21/2009 1:20:30 PM | | All us Bones are different my Dear. Some guys like fast hardcore BJ's some like the slow teasing types. I think it needs to be talked about between you and your partner more so than any of us self proclaimed experts or wiseones...I myself have a certian taste when that is being performed, as Im sure others have different things they like. Example, read the posts about oral and anal play, oral and massage, oral and food. My advice is practice, and be sure to ask him what feels good and what feels best.. Rent some porn of just BJs use it as a learning tool to see what makes his eyes sparkle and the scenes that make him YAWN..Good luck | |
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| Men help me with Fellatio?? tips???
Posted: 7/21/2009 1:24:01 PM | OP - I know you weren't really looking for responses from women... but I could definitely help you out on this one... but your filters were blocking me from sending you a private message.
I would not dare post the "holy grail" of blow jobs on this site. It's for your eyes only and a few select friends in my circle. Change your mail settings and i will be happy to help. | |
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| Men help me with Fellatio?? tips???
Posted: 7/21/2009 1:29:56 PM | well I cant say what works for others, but only for myself.
things I like:
eye contact. nothing sexier than a woman with a mouthful of****looking at me.
deep throating is a nice touch.
definately uses your hands. touching the balls, stroking his**** perhaps touching his taint with your finger, sucking or licking his balls.
prostate massage when your sucking him off.
lube.
teasing his penis. licking the head, down the shaft , nibbling on it | |
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| Men help me with Fellatio?? tips???
Posted: 7/21/2009 1:36:35 PM |
It is not so much as what you do, but how much he is into you.
Don't want to confuse this issue, OP, but I've have said it's about how much you are into him, and show it. Try broadening the playing field, and snake a slippery finger/tongue toward his butt. | |
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| Men help me with Fellatio?? tips???
Posted: 7/21/2009 1:54:15 PM | | I have had hundreds of BJs over the years and yes, there are women who are fantastic at it and there are those who... suck (no pun intended). I recently was with an oriental woman who when she did me orally I swear I had to check and see if she had teeth. It was like heaven on earth. Then I was with a woman who proclaimed that she was the master of giving head but she kept catching me with her teeth and soon it was unbearable. So I guess the first thing Curiosity-27 is to make sure you don't rub your teeth tooo much. My favorite action from a woman giving me head is the "twirley whirley". You know... when she is twisting her hand back and forth as she slides it up and down my shaft. Then she is using her mouth to keep it all wet and slippery. The women I've been with that seem to do it the best have a sense of when I'm building to a climax and as I build they slow the action down, making me beg for her to finish me off. WOW.. that is by far the best experience. THe last woman I was with (32 years old and married unfortunately) told me she wanted me to throat-**** her till tears came out her eyes... so I did and she loved it. I guess everybody is different. What a beautiful thing! Hope that helps. | |
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| Men help me with Fellatio?? tips???
Posted: 7/21/2009 3:09:34 PM | Two words: ASK HIM
Only your BF can tell you how to give him those toe curling muscle tensing orgasmic experiences you are seeking. While you might be really getting into it and enjoying it and wanting a certain thing for him.. he might not be enjoying it as much as you'd like him to. He might not really like recieving.. there ARE men out there like that.
Since I don't know what the 10 commandments that you speak of are.. it's hard to comment on what you might be missing, if anything. | |
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| Men help me with Fellatio?? tips???
Posted: 7/21/2009 3:15:47 PM | ^^^^^ What no 1 bby said. ( ASK HIM)
Based on my 45 yrs on this planet, most men don't want "porn star" BJs. Don't use your teeth , take your time, keep a steady rhythm and don't forget his b@lls and @ss. Deep throat always earns extra points but don't freak if you can't take all of him in. Its the enthusiasm and willingness to try it that counts. | |
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| Men help me with Fellatio?? tips???
Posted: 7/21/2009 3:29:50 PM |
Since I don't know what the 10 commandments that you speak of are.. it's hard to comment on what you might be missing, if anything.
It's unlikely she'd take any advice from us anyway... afterall, she does know all there is to know from a woman's point of view.
Just sayin'...
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| Men help me with Fellatio?? tips???
Posted: 7/21/2009 3:38:13 PM | | The hottest thing a girl can do for a guy, is jam his sexual sausage all the way down her gullet, and proceed to emit horrible strangling sounds, as though she's suffocating or choking on something enormous. Bonus points if you blow chunks in his crotch, or claim to have lost a dental filling. | |
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Posted: 7/21/2009 3:44:54 PM | i cant speak for all my fellow guys but just slowly licking the head of the penis drives me ****in nuts, ( come now were all grown ups on here haha) It really works make smy feet numb n also makes me wanna let out the good stuff! | |
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| Men help me with Fellatio?? tips???
Posted: 7/21/2009 3:58:20 PM | There's not a cookie cutter technique for the best ever BJ. Every woman is a little bit different. Same goes for guys.
Here's what I suggest . . Find a comfortable, distraction-free place where you two can talk with your clothes on. When you bring it up, don't ever imply that there's anything wrong with the way you do it now. If you do, he might blow-off your question in the interest of not hurting your feelings. Use the tone of voice that you would use to say "Hey babe. I had a great day today!". Ask him exactly what you asked us and LISTEN to what he says and take it at face value. Don't try looking for hidden meanings in what he says because there won't be any! Hope this helps . . | |
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| Men help me with Fellatio?? tips???
Posted: 7/21/2009 4:01:37 PM |
It's unlikely she'd take any advice from us anyway... afterall, she does know all there is to know from a woman's point of view.
Just sayin'...
Ooooooh SNAP! I forgot how at 28 I knew everything there was to know about everything. *rolls eyes* | |
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| Men help me with Fellatio?? tips???
Posted: 7/21/2009 4:10:10 PM |
Fellatio is probably the only thing that one can learn how to be good at by watching porn.
Even though porn stars are nothing, but actors, and actresses.
OP would be better off watching REAL homemade porn. An awful lot of that stuff is genuine. Unlike professional porn. | |
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| Men help me with Fellatio?? tips???
Posted: 7/21/2009 6:21:30 PM |  Lots of us gals seem to have big fat d!cks, since we're replying to this thread!!
Every man is different........what will send one man to the moon......will bore the hell out of another!
Exploration and communication are the keys.
Try one thing and pay attention to his reaction......try something different and pay attention to his reaction......repeat till you find the techniques that make his toes curl!!
The one thing every man I've been with liked.........eye contact.
And to not stop till every drop has been milked from his body!! | |
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| Men help me with Fellatio?? tips???
Posted: 7/21/2009 7:06:55 PM |
We know many women don't like to give head.
Those women are unsuitable to be with.
Why would a guy accept women like that? | |
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| Men help me with Fellatio?? tips???
Posted: 7/21/2009 9:27:36 PM | I'm just gonna say, maybe he's not a BJ guy. I would not complain about getting a BJ, and if a girl wanted to do it, I'll damn well let her. But It's not the most important thing for me. Maybe your man is in the same boat as I am.
Also, I don't tend to make much noise. I might like it but I still don't make too much noise, so your man could be the same way. Just because he doesn't say much doesn't mean he's not enj0ying it.
As for advice... Watch the teeth.
That's my 2 cents. | |
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