| why would a man go on plentyoffish if in a relationship?
Posted: 7/22/2009 3:09:05 PM | HI to all you guys out there.please inlighten me on this one.
My friend has been in a relationship for a year and the last few months they havent been getting on.but when they do get on....its really weel.his problem is ,he likes to control her,nothing she says is right,he has to be right all the time.
Tonight a friend text my friend saying that her boyfriend has sent her a message on plentyof fish.he was on it before he met my friend,but as far as she knows,he hasnt used it scince.aparently hes still on here but deleted his photo.!
Anyway this girl text my friend and said her boyfriend has messaged her on here asking if " shes on here for dating and if she wants some fun,to contact him"
My question is...why would a man do that if in a relationship,if he doesnt want to be with her,why not finish with her 1st??? | |
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| why would a man go on plentyoffish if in a relationship?
Posted: 7/22/2009 3:13:37 PM | Because they want their cake and eat it too. Because they have issues within themselves driving them to cheat. They know exactly that they are cheating, but bs their wife or gf telling them they didn't know what they were doing and they made a mistake. Cheaters know what they're doing and care only about themselves. It's sickening.
I hope your friend has the good sense to dump him! | |
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| why would a man go on plentyoffish if in a relationship?
Posted: 7/22/2009 3:28:37 PM | | This happened to me! I was in a relationship with a guy for a year and I had actually been up to see him, when I got home my sister told me she had something to show me and it was his profile. On here! Saying he was single and looking to date. I called him and told him I saw his profile and he said that if he met anyone on here and got a new girlfriend he would have broken up with me. That he was just looking. Basically he didn't think he would get caught, because I never would have thought he was doing something like that, and probably would have doubted it if anyone had told me, except that I saw his picture with my own eyes. So yes he wanted to have his cake and eat it too. Or he wants to have his next relationship lined up so he doesn't have to be single at all. This guy needs to be dumped asap. | |
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| why would a man go on plentyoffish if in a relationship?
Posted: 7/22/2009 3:28:46 PM | OK, two things. First looking is not touching and POF is a great place to look. So if a guy looks and perhaps even sends an email he has cheated on no one. So regardless of the POF stuff, no date...no foul.
Second, guys (normal ones) love to flirt. Its play and its harmless. I would suggest you worry (a lot) if all of a sudden your guy stops flirting. Guys will always chase women ( a good thing) in fantasy and the honest ones know the line between fantasy and being faithful.
So take a pill and leave your guys to their mischief. If they date though, then dump them...simple. | |
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| why would a man go on plentyoffish if in a relationship?
Posted: 7/22/2009 3:29:21 PM | he likes to control her,nothing she says is right,he has to be right all the time.
now you know how a guy feels.
most guys date walking encylopedias
and to answer your question he is trying to move on before the game is over | |
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| why would a man go on plentyoffish if in a relationship?
Posted: 7/22/2009 3:31:09 PM | Why is your friend complaining about her boyfriend if she stood with him with the way he is treating her already? Some women seem to think that by playing the long-suffering girlfriend that the man will fall at her feet. Not happening. She accepts this behavior from him so he does what he wants and doesn't worry about a damned thing because she is going to stay with him anyway.
He is messaging other girls and looking to fvck around because he can. And why not? His girlfriend won't mind if she doesn't mind being controlled by a jerk like him. | |
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| why would a man go on plentyoffish if in a relationship?
Posted: 7/22/2009 3:40:09 PM | My first question is " Why doesn't you friend come out here and ask this question'. Second if she is through with him why does it matter now?
I also sniff a bit of BS here was the text forwarded or what? I am sorry to me something just doesn't smell quite right here.
My question is...why would a man do that if in a relationship,if he doesnt want to be with her,why not finish with her 1st???
Several reason to many to answer here I would much rather answer this question
why would a man go on plentyoffish if in a relationship?
Why not... there are some great forums,there are some great friends on here. Just because he is on POF doesn't mean he is dating or trying to date.
I know this isn't going to win me any brownie points here, IMO just because s0meone is in a relationship doesn't mean they have to give up friends etc... I personally would have no problem with a BF on POF or any other dating site to be my BF there is atrust built there | |
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| why would a man go on plentyoffish if in a relationship?
Posted: 7/22/2009 3:40:22 PM | | Because he's a cheater? Cheaters are a different breed, and they are the center of their universe. He's going to do what he does and he doesn't need POF to do it. The best thing that can be done with a cheater is to remove them from your life and let karma take care of the rest. | |
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| why would a man go on plentyoffish if in a relationship?
Posted: 7/22/2009 3:47:18 PM | | Because being in inconciderate dumba$$ is not gender specific. Any question you ask about one gender, turn it around and ask it about the other. Cheaters and liars are rampant throughout life and society. | |
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| why would a man go on plentyoffish if in a relationship?
Posted: 7/22/2009 3:48:59 PM | Agree with Sassy. There is something about all of this that just doesn't smell right.
Also do you really expect some one to "confess" how come they are still on here "Phishing" if they are in a relationship? Don't see that happening. IMO | |
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| why would a man go on plentyoffish if in a relationship?
Posted: 7/22/2009 5:01:48 PM |
why would a man go on plentyoffish if in a relationship?
Many reasons. Not all of them are for seeking a relationship. Are you asking this question to attract a man, or to receive insight from an unacquainted audience?
I never realized that people would hide their photos on account of being in public relationships with others. For shame!
My question is...why would a man do that if in a relationship,if he doesnt want to be with her,why not finish with her 1st???
The man you mention must want out of his relationship. Otherwise, unless he's an utter fool, he wouldn't be contacting associates of his girlfriend. This is his way of finishing with her. | |
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| why would a man go on plentyoffish if in a relationship?
Posted: 7/23/2009 12:00:04 AM | | gee there are some ridiculously dumb questions on here that women ask. I'm starting to wonder if women have any common sense at all. This man is in a relationship but he likes to sleep around , why would he break up before getting caught? it just means less sex. | |
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| why would a man go on plentyoffish if in a relationship?
Posted: 7/23/2009 12:06:38 AM | He should have been dumped for being controlling.
he should have been dumped because they couldn't get along.
He did it because he thought he could get away with it. Because he is an a$$****. What difference does it make. find out why she has to get so many reasons before she wakes up. | |
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| why would a man go on plentyoffish if in a relationship?
Posted: 8/4/2009 4:24:08 PM | this man has not slept around.he has spoke to a woman on this site...he hasnt been unfaithfull phyisacially (however you spell it lol ) And i suposse as this sites free to everyone....there all at it on here to see what they can get away with.
all men are the same,carn help them selfs | |
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