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 tahquamenon

Joined: 5/19/2009
Msg: 1
The three things that a man wants in a mate...
Posted: 7/22/2009 7:50:09 PM
Number one..... Kindness this is essential when things really get rough in life and they do more times than not.

Number two..... A good sense of humor..... somebody who will keep him laughing in good times and bad

Number three... Honesty..... We men need our feet held to the fire whether we admit it or not.

So quit worrying about the looks ladies .... just had to set things straight
 Commonsens

Joined: 4/6/2009
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The three things that a man wants in a mate...
Posted: 7/22/2009 7:52:27 PM
(grabbing a bucketfull of popcorn)

oh am gonna enjoy reading the replies and reactions to this one.....
 kpooks

Joined: 12/23/2008
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The three things that a man wants in a mate...
Posted: 7/22/2009 7:55:59 PM
Watching White She-Devil and Sistah Girl duke it out and rip off each other's clothes in the shower to "Brick House" in the movie Undercover Brother...

Warmth, humor and sex. That's it.
 Fifi47

Joined: 8/19/2004
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The three things that a man wants in a mate...
Posted: 7/22/2009 7:56:44 PM
No mention of sex 24/7, a body that looks like a VS model, and agreeing with everything he says?
The three things that a man wants in a mate...
Posted: 7/22/2009 7:59:19 PM
Samwiches, ham and cheese, egg salad, roast beef. All men ever want from me is my samwiches.
 ~GoneSailing~

Joined: 6/5/2009
Msg: 6
The three things that a man wants in a mate...
Posted: 7/22/2009 7:59:25 PM
define "good".....
 mcwr

Joined: 3/24/2009
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The three things that a man wants in a mate...
Posted: 7/22/2009 8:00:11 PM
Without physical attraction, you could be describing your grandmother. Men and women want to be sexually satisfied.
 daynadaze

Joined: 2/11/2008
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The three things that a man wants in a mate...
Posted: 7/22/2009 8:01:32 PM
Stop worrying about whose looks, mine or his?
 pharmtec2

Joined: 6/16/2009
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The three things that a man wants in a mate...
Posted: 7/22/2009 8:03:54 PM
I am loving what you have to say..and REALLY wanting to believe it..but several men ..that I have recently come in contact with say one thing and mean another.
I hope you are not one of those guys!
 tahquamenon

Joined: 5/19/2009
Msg: 10
The three things that a man wants in a mate...
Posted: 7/22/2009 8:05:12 PM
Mmmmmm Im leaning toward the whole sandwich theory now..... could you mail me a couple of those ? roast beef on white ? thanks beautiful ;)
 kmm52072

Joined: 1/25/2009
Msg: 11
The three things that a man wants in a mate...
Posted: 7/22/2009 8:10:04 PM
Let's re-write this shall we to be more 'realistic'.......

Number one....Chemistry/attractiveness....first comes the looks, then comes the body (it's all about personal preference)

Number two....Sexual compatibility

Number three....Sense of humor...he wants someone who will laugh at is stupid jokes, you know the ones that no one else will laugh at but HIM and hopefully YOU

Number four...Patience and Understanding...these are essentially tied into one because even though you understand that he can't get up off his ass to get himself a beer....You must learn to patient with his constant whinning about it
 *golfgirl*

Joined: 8/2/2008
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Posted: 7/22/2009 8:10:14 PM
Speak for yourself tahquamenon.....I can guarantee you dont speak for all men..

Some of them want head.... during sports....some want a woman to be seen and not heard, some want a chef in the kitchen, maid in the living room and whore in the bedroom. Yet others want a woman who will....

Ahh...ya know, forget it...I'm wastin key strokes here.



 Tenacious Forumite

Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 13
The three things that a man wants in a mate...
Posted: 7/22/2009 8:11:39 PM

Hmmmmm....thinking, thinking, thinking.

There has to be more than this. Is this what you personally want? Have you tested this and found it to be true? If so what happened?

 brewton4

Joined: 1/9/2008
Msg: 14
The three things that a man wants in a mate...
Posted: 7/22/2009 8:30:13 PM
In many cases there's only ONE thing a man wants in his mate...

(and sandwiches)
 ~The Rock Man~

Joined: 4/23/2009
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The three things that a man wants in a mate...
Posted: 7/22/2009 8:32:50 PM

define "good".....


Obedient!
 kmm52072

Joined: 1/25/2009
Msg: 16
The three things that a man wants in a mate...
Posted: 7/22/2009 8:43:28 PM

Obedient!


Yes Sir!
 Vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008
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Posted: 7/22/2009 8:57:13 PM
tahquamenon: You forgot the most important thing that a man wants is LOVE that is a very strong bind with his woman. Kindness,sense of humour,Honesty is nothing with out LOVE and a man has to Earn that love from a woman...
 cmdrfunk

Joined: 2/7/2008
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The three things that a man wants in a mate...
Posted: 7/22/2009 9:02:10 PM
1: doesn't ever roll her eyes like a 7 year old snot
2: only judiciously uses emoticons
3: doesn't subscribe to herd mentality
 bo_weeks

Joined: 1/5/2009
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The three things that a man wants in a mate...
Posted: 7/22/2009 9:08:33 PM
geez, how about loyalty, integrity, sensuality, intelligence, compassion, spirit, motivation...l could go on but l don't wanna strain my little brain more than 30 seconds

^^edit...l forgot attractiveness..l'm so disagreeable sometimes
 NightJ1986

Joined: 3/11/2005
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The three things that a man wants in a mate...
Posted: 7/22/2009 9:17:35 PM
Independence
Education/Educated/Street Smarts ....... whatever you want to call it. Humor is a part of this.
Realistic.
 chandlers wish

Joined: 6/22/2008
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The three things that a man wants in a mate...
Posted: 7/22/2009 9:39:54 PM
So there you go, the sandwich offer was kindness, humor and honesty and you closed with "Beautiful" actually though she is....
 Puppydog54

Joined: 7/30/2008
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The three things that a man wants in a mate...
Posted: 7/22/2009 9:46:52 PM
OP... You make a good start but, really, there is sooooooo much more... and every man has his own unique wants and needs in a mate.
 wolftxus

Joined: 2/24/2009
Msg: 23
The three things that a man wants in a mate...
Posted: 7/22/2009 9:55:15 PM
1. Breakfast
2. Lunch
3. Dinner
 DemonDingleBerry

Joined: 6/7/2009
Msg: 24
The three things that a man wants in a mate...
Posted: 7/22/2009 9:56:51 PM

The three things that a man wants in a mate...

I thought it would be more along the lines of
Number one...someone that helps fulfill needs.
Number two...someone that helps fulfill desires.
Number three...someone committed and responsible enough to seeing the first two things through on an ongoing basis.

I wonder why these lists usually come down to the number of holes generally desired for intercourse? OH OH no he di'int.
 drbelieves

Joined: 8/23/2008
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The three things that a man wants in a mate...
Posted: 7/22/2009 10:06:37 PM
Brains
Beauty
And Money.
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