| what do you think he is?
Posted: 7/22/2009 9:25:33 PM | I met my ex-boyfriend here in pof. We dated for several months. I admire him for being gentleman & for being so professional.What really turned me on is when i went to his place,amazing he's a guy living w/ his 2 girls but all things inside his place are in order:from the kitchen till the washroom are clean,especially their closet (they really got no helper)...
We had really fun & amazing scene in bed...I gave him oral sex that he said had blown up his mind...
One day,while giving him oral sex he accidentally said "**** MY ASS".I was really surprised & stop what i am doing.He noticed me stopped that time,from then on he changed & cooled down.He seldom call me & don't want to spend the weekend with me until i received an email stating that he wants to end the relationship.
I really wonder why it end that way coz we never had a fight or anything just the last sex we had.
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Posted: 7/22/2009 9:31:10 PM | | well in your own story pretty much seems that was something he wanted and something you didn't give. Considering you never discussed it this i guess was his solution. My opinion anyways. | |
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Posted: 7/22/2009 9:41:48 PM | | He probably wanted you to **** in his ass. LOL He sounds like a wierdo. Did you very email him and ask him? | |
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Posted: 7/22/2009 9:45:15 PM | | To each's own oral is just good enuff for me-anything below the boys and the mood is ruined . I've heard many times before though-if the guy is with u sexually and he wants anal play it dosent make him a homo-just a hetero male that likes anal play. He probably freaked and thought u judged him for wantin it in his butt. I honestly dont see how men get pleasure from this. When i was a kid i had a bad stomach ache and went to the doc with my mom. The doc gave me all sorts of tests-and at the end had to check my rectum. My mom was in the room the whole time-and when it was over-i felt so violated-i wanted to fight. I had it made up in my mind that it wasnt called for and he did it for his own pleasure. I'll explore sexually but somethings are off limits!!!! | |
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Posted: 7/22/2009 9:56:41 PM | | Sounds like he's too embarrassed to see you because you were stunned and stopped oral sex due to his statement. If that is something you would have been willing to try you could have seen where the relationship would go (meaning you should have said something along the lines of trying it over the phone when you noticed his mood change). If you are not interested in his request then the relationship isn't meant to be. | |
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Posted: 7/22/2009 10:02:31 PM | | That's certainly awkward, I'm sure he was probably quite embarrassed due to your reaction. I guess he was bisexual and wasn't particiularly open about it? | |
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Posted: 7/22/2009 10:08:20 PM | He probably thought you were wierded out and since you never reassured him, he figured it was over between you two.
It seems the communication broke down between you two. I wouldn't be so upset with him though. It's a two way street and since you didn't contact him either, you both are to blame for the end of the relationship. IMO
What do you mean "what you think he really is?" Like... sexual orientation? There are a suprisingly large amount of straight guys who don't mind you dabbling with anal with them. Personally, I'm not sure I could do a guy in the ass. Just because he wants his brown eye touched, doesn't mean he isn't anything other than straight. | |
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Posted: 7/22/2009 10:10:38 PM |
Please help me know what you think he really is..
A guy that likes his ass played with during oral?
It's kind of funny though. You said
What really turned me on is when i went to his place,amazing he's a guy living w/ his 2 girls but all things inside his place are in order:from the kitchen till the washroom are clean,especially their closet (they really got no helper)...
So he's anal. But you kind of freaked out when he tried to prove it sexually. | |
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Posted: 7/22/2009 10:29:31 PM | I think he is a man who you embarrassed. How old are you? Don't you know that you should never react like that when a man opens up to you? He was in the heat of the moment and revealed something very personal to you, and you reacted totally wrong. Now the man is mortified. Anal play does not mean he is gay, or perverse or anything disturbing, he just wanted a little extra sensation while getting oral. It feels good for a man to have his prostate massaged while getting blown, and yeah, he didn't say it in the most gentle way, but you should have gone with the flow and said, well hand me a dildo baby and I'll oblige!
We all have our little things in the bedroom that we enjoy, and he told you what his was. If I were you, I would write him an email, tell him what a wonderful man he is, and how sorry you are that you reacted the way you did, and if it would be possible to talk. You should attempt to patch this up, not only for yourself, but for his own self-esteem. We are all a bit insecure when we share something so personal about ourself in the throes of passion, and this obviously has hurt him. Make it right. Reach out to him, gently, and apologize. He probably is thinking that you are thinking he is gay, and he probably has no gay tendencies at all. My ex husband liked anal play, and he was totally straight.
Make this right. It will be good for your Karma.
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| what do you think he is?
Posted: 7/22/2009 11:56:25 PM |
Please help me know what you think he really is..
Are you worried he is actually an alien life form? Pretty sure he is human. . . and male. . . and if he was having sex with you voluntarily, straight. . . what are you really worried about?
He didn't accidentally say, "**** my ass," he made a request - and you freaked out. And now think he is gay simply because he enjoys anal play. Why, exactly, would he want to see you again?
And seriously, who *accidentally* says something like that? Just walking along down the frozen food aisle, looking at the bags of peas, and 'whoops'! Technically, that is probably a fetish ;) | |
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Posted: 7/23/2009 5:01:11 AM | Some fellows like to have their prostate stimulated during oral--for them, the climax is a bit more forceful. He may not have known what his ex-blower was doing when she slipped a finger up his bunghole to play with the lower wall. Sometimes it can also be stimulated with pressure on the area betwixt the testicles and the anal opening.
One doesn't have to be gay, to want extra stimulation after one has experienced it. I'm not a fan of prostate stimulation, but I'm guessing that's what he was referring to.... | |
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Posted: 7/23/2009 5:20:32 AM |
One day,while giving him oral sex he accidentally said "**** MY ASS".
I was really surprised & stop what i am doing.
Did you stop blowing him altogther and leave him hanging?
I would dump you too! lol
Accidentally? HAHAHA.....No...he has had that done before! He could have given you fair warning though!
"**** my ass"
Is that Fvck? Or finger my ass?
OH NO! NOT THAT! lol
So why didn't you slip him the finger?Obviously he had a hankering for it! lol
He really is a NORMAL man with sexual needs you can't seem to fulfill without judgement.He's smart to move on and find a more open-minded woman to share his bed with.I truly doubt it would have ended....had you been willing to accomodate his needs at the time.If you are not into that,that's cool, but really educate yourself and don't assume because a man enjoys anal play that he is gay.
What do I think he is?
Looking for a woman who's into what he's into. | |
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Posted: 7/23/2009 6:15:16 AM | ma'am, the man's a straight up freak. thats cool, im a straight up freak, hellz yeah ill have you finger my ass hole. and dont think youll get the pressure I want just poking my prostate with 1 finger, u better use 2. when i nut, u gonna know it, that shits gonna be the hardest nut u ever taken to the back oyo throat, that shits gonna be like some species shit, yo.
point is u just missed out, that was the best **** of your life... woulda had you wondering if it was a dream or if you were in heaven, woulda made you feel like your life was complete and you could finaly be content with death. almost wishin it would happen so your last memories would be the best of your life. | |
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Posted: 7/23/2009 6:40:46 AM |
that shits gonna be the hardest nut u ever taken to the back oyo throat
yEah....wHaT He sAiD yO!! LoLoLoL
point is u just missed out
I don't think she could have handled all that goo, yo!
I don't think it's freaky or gay to want a finger up your ass! Jeez!
I love it myself.....both giving and recieving.What's the big damn deal?
Not so sure I could handle a strap -on....but I don't knock anything until I try it first!
I already have penis envy...so fair warning to my guy.........don't reach down for the soap in the shower.....hehehe | |
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Posted: 7/23/2009 6:46:34 AM | ALWAYS no the bedroom rules.
If you get to surprize or NO in the bed its to late to get it back.
Talk before you screw | |
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Posted: 7/23/2009 6:57:07 AM | | Sorry for the confusion... I just stopped for a moment but still continue what i am doin' & did what he really wanted me to do. I did the most for him. | |
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Posted: 7/23/2009 11:13:33 AM | What do I think he is?
He is just a normal guy that likes a lubed finger up his ass and the Prostate stroked. Very common desire and very pleasurable.
You messed up by stopping. By all means be a little startled by the request and decide if you want to do it or not, but do not stop everything. If you don't want to do it then say, "I am really not into that," and then get back to what you were doing.
Later talk to him about it and give it a try for him. Use a rubber glove or condom on your finger, it is just another erogenous zone for us guys and you too if you can relax yourself enough to let him try.
No matter what a Male and Female do together and regardless of the orifices or regions used, it is still HETEROsexual.
You sound as though you still like the guy a lot so give it a shot at patching this thing up. Maybe cut and paste some of the replies from here in an apologizing email to him. Sounds like it might be worth the effort. Good luck. | |
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Posted: 7/23/2009 11:18:03 AM |
One day,while giving him oral sex he accidentally said "**** MY ASS".I was really surprised & stop what i am doing.He noticed me stopped that time,from then on he changed & cooled down.He seldom call me & don't want to spend the weekend with me until i received an email stating that he wants to end the relationship.
*uncomfortable silence*
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