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| what are guys attracted too??
Posted: 7/23/2009 8:58:55 PM | | i just want some insite on what most or all guys are attracted too and what they are not attracted too...thanks=) you can put whatever you feel. so let me know=) and what are things that you would like to have in common | |
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| what are guys attracted too??
Posted: 7/23/2009 9:03:08 PM | | Personally, you. lol But to answer your question there is no one thing that will attract all men, everyone likes different things. Smart girls, dumb girls. Big boobs, small boobs. An outgoing personality, a shy wallflower. Just be you and you'll find a guy who thinks that is perfect. | |
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| what are guys attracted too??
Posted: 7/23/2009 9:25:54 PM | | Wow, that's deep. There are many different types of women I am attracted to. Younger age groups of men are going to want something different than older age groups. My choices would be someone fun to be around first. Attitude and compatability next. Looks and body for a final choice. | |
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| what are guys attracted too??
Posted: 7/23/2009 9:27:45 PM | | Read the thread about the 3 things that guys want in a mate. It'll make it all clear to you. | |
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| what are guys attracted too??
Posted: 7/23/2009 9:39:29 PM | I like what mduncan said about just being yourself. He is right.
Me, personally... what attracts me is a warm smile, a sweet disposition, and long hair. | |
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| what are guys attracted too??
Posted: 7/23/2009 9:44:45 PM | You question is wayyy too open and general.
Are you looking for specifics or are you trying to do a survey of some sort? | |
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| what are guys attracted too??
Posted: 7/23/2009 9:51:49 PM | A woman who isn't programmed by or brainwashed by the media. If she is a White woman then she acts like a White woman (and not like a Martian though they got some cool riffs and Bob Marly type music...) and if she is a Black women (or milk chocolate though caramel tastes good too...and don't get me started on the fantastic beautiful Boricqua women!) then she acts like a Black woman and not like a woman from Pluto.
A woman, series #7700s, fully upgradeable, enhanced intellect chipset, superior emotional chip, advanced logic program, kindness software, likes males software installed (not the anti-male types) with nano electro nodules attached for superior self installed female intuition kind of WOMAN.
Basically your next door neighbor, down to Earth man friendly Android...why do you ask?
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| what are guys attracted too??
Posted: 7/23/2009 9:54:10 PM | yup .. it's easier to find a "type" of guy and find out what that "type" is attracted to.
a pretty much catch all answer is .. guys are attracted to sex... and any guy who says he isn't- is trying to convince you he is sensitive and not trying to get into your pants .. so he can get into your pants -
but while sex can attract a guy .. it won't keep him unless you are his "type" | |
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| what are guys attracted too??
Posted: 7/23/2009 9:55:42 PM | That was my "left-handed" answer. Here is my "right-handed" answer:
Honest, direct, strong but bendable..., intelligent but humble, down to Earth, patient, kind woman. Do they exist anymore? I heard sector X-328 contains some renegade females who escaped the news brainwashing that existed way back in 2009...
E Harmony.com did a survey years ago. The #1 answer by men was:
A kind woman.
All good energy (and good luck to you!) | |
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| what are guys attracted too??
Posted: 7/23/2009 9:57:31 PM | | 6 inch F me heels, car batteries, jumper cables, magnets, porn, sammiches....apparently ham according to another forum thread, mute women, and BJ's | |
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| what are guys attracted too??
Posted: 7/23/2009 10:11:54 PM | *MisKa* wrote:
6 inch F me heels, car batteries, jumper cables, magnets, porn, sammiches....apparently ham according to another forum thread, mute women, and BJ's
Nice list but I think most guys would agree that "sammiches" are highly overrated. | |
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| what are guys attracted too??
Posted: 7/23/2009 10:45:14 PM | I've dated for mental compatibility, a rocker chick english major who taught me a bit about Jainism, with good sex over looks. I married a cutie career go getter bi-curious hip hopper with average to poor sexual chemistry who cheated on me. And of course I've had my own bit of fun during my life, hahaha.
Finding the right girl for me is mental & sexual compatibility with someone who I find attractive. To put simply if a woman likes to discuss topics that are on coast to coast AM radio, there is a match. Also, if she has a high sex drive there is another basic match. My jean size is a 31 waist but I think women would be surprised to know that I have always been a smaller size and/or similar weight or lighter than my girlfriends/ex-wife. Heck I think half of my girlfriends have been a little bit taller then me. Also I don't care if your heels make you taller then me, thats your hang up not mine :) I really like a cute face, then the butt ;)
The rest are all interests which some we will share and others we will not. Hopefully we will agree on music so we can see the same concerts, lol.
Oh and a veal california sammich with peppers & mushrooms will win my heart, haha. | |
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Posted: 7/23/2009 11:01:03 PM | So I can give utterly lame answers. Question answered, now aren't you so glad you asked? | |
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| what are guys attracted too??
Posted: 7/23/2009 11:06:03 PM | I'vw been dating since I was 12 years old. I've dated men from a lot of different backgrounds, men with vanilla tastes, men with hardcore fetishes, men with money, men who were dead broke. So you could probably say that I have enough experience on the subject to give you some credible advice.
1. Confidence-not to be confused with arrogance, snobbishness, or a 'I'm better than you' attitude. You should walk out of your house every morning looking and feeling like you are ready to take on the world. Every man you come across, be it the postman to your colleagues to you after-work wind down business man will notice if you have great posture, a smile on your face, your hair fixe, makeup in place and radiating happiness and self assuredness. You do not have to be a size 2 to do this. Men find a confident woman sexy, and they have a natural curiosity to find out what is so great about her that makes her feel so good.
2. Men like a woman who dresses well for her figure, no matter what size. If you are built like a bikini model, great, but that leaves little to the imagination. The rule to dressing sexy without looking like you are asking for a one night fling is this...If you have great legs, show them off withe some sexy stockings and a great pair of heels and a short skirt (please, not up to your a$$), but if you're showing a lot of leg, play it modest with the cleavage. If your breasts are your best asset, show some nice cleavage, especially with a nice blouse open a bit low with a nice jacket. Make it look classy, not trashy. But once again, if you are showing off the 'girls', keep the bottom part modest. When you wear an outfit that shows all you goodies at once, you tend to be labeled as an easy pick-up at the bar, and all the girls turn into haters, whereas if you dress right, Men will be intrigued, mystery has been established, and you will find the girls will become your allies instead of your enemies. Class beats trash everyday, unless you are in a biker bar wanting guys to do tequila shots off your abdomen...and hey, we all knows how that ends up.
3. Hair. Blonde, Brunette, Redhead, different men have different preferences, but one thing that 90% have in common (even though the short haired girls are gonna hate this one), they like it long and flowing and beautifully styled. Hair is a basic instinctual attraction for men. Take the time and have your hair done by a professional. Keep it nicely styled, even if it isn't down your back, but men look at hair and smell sex.
4. A nice sense of humor. No matter what kind of troll comes up and offers you a drink, never be rude. You never know, his best friend may be the man of your dreams, and if he goes back to the table talking about what a **** you are, you've just lost your shot. There are tons of ways to politely turn down a drink, and you know, if he's not half bad, accept it and go meet his buddies. If they are all dorks, you'll have made his night (Karma goes a long way), and if there is a hot guy with them, play it cool and work your flirt magic...but do not hurt the feelings of the guy who bought you the drink. That would be a bad thing to do. But be yourself, if you are naturally shy, let them draw the laughs out of you, if you are outgoing, get the table rocking with laughter. The key is to be as happy and entertaining as possible until your drink is finished. When it is gone, say your goodbyes, tell them what a wonderful time it was meeting them all, and tell them you have to scoot back to your friends. You just became the object of desire for not only that table, but all the guys hanging around evesdropping.
5. Never ever be mean to waitstaff. It shows a lack of class. Always overtip...that ensures you'll get better service without having to ever raise your voice. If you can't tip well, you can't afford to drink, and you shouldn't be in the club in the first place. And don't expect a guy you just met to immediately start buying your drinks. It's 2009, buy your own. If he does happen to offer, it is polite to accept, but do make the effort to return the favor. This shows you are not a drink-whore.
6. Ok enough about the social scene. Keep your home neat. It tells your boyfriend that you are organized and have your shit together. Don't be anal though, let him put his feet up on the sofa if he wants, keep a blanket handy, and know which channels the games are on. That's just being a good host.
7.For God's sake learn how to make some food in your own kitchen. If you don't have a clue on how to make a great meal for a man, send me a message, I'll call you and walk you through how to make BBQ ribs, homemade mashed potatoes, rolls,green beans, corn on the cob and a helluva ccobbler. I guarantee if you learn to make five meals that he gushes over, you will learn the joy of watching your man enjoy something you made, and he will appreciate it.
8. If he drinks, keep whatever he likes in the house for him. Just as a courtesy. Believe me he will appreciate it.
9. At the end of every game, get naked and walk around in nothing but his jersey. Pretend you are going to bed. Believe me, he'll come running, just don't try to make him miss the last play, or a hail mary or anything like that...that would just confuse him.
10. Be nice to his parents, his kids, his ex-wife, all of these people influence his decisions regarding you.Be thoughtful, polite and respectful, especially to the ex-wife, remember, she gave birth tho those babies, and she can make his life hell forever!
His mother, if she likes you, can be a great ally, but get on her wrong side, she'll drop you like a hot potato. And of course be good to his kids. and I mean be honest. Kids can smell bullshit a mile away.
11.Bedroom activities change from man to man. I have had lovers who loved the fact that I could get nasty, freaky and do just about anything other than hang from a chandelier. Others wanted quiet romantic sex. Some wanted to take the lead, others wanted to be lead. You have to learn your lover on your own, and do your best. Just remember, always be honest, and make sure that after he feels that he has done his job and satisfied you like no man ever has. And if for some reason he didn't, gently teach him what you like, and be vocal and respond when he does it right. Unless he is a total moron, he will enjoy learning how to please you more, if you approach him in the right manner and respond accordingly. Positive Reinforcement!!!!!
I think I have answered pretty much all of your questions, if you follow my advice, you can't go wrong.
Good luck!
Beth | |
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| what are guys attracted too??
Posted: 7/23/2009 11:12:17 PM |
i just want some insite on what most or all guys are attracted too and what they are not attracted too.
Kind of a vague question. So here's a vague answer:
All guys are attracted to the things they find attractive. They are not attracted to all the things they find unattractive.
Everyone has both traits. People stick around for an amount of time depending on how much the attractive qualities outweigh the unattractive qualities.
Sometimes they stick around for a long time trying to figure out if the other person has more attractive than unattractive qualities because it's such an even balance.
Sometimes they stick around for a long time because attractive qualities far outweigh the negative.
Although some people stick around less due to too many attractive qualities because it highlights their own lack (or insecurity) of attractive qualities.
And some people stick around less because it takes too much time and effort to determine if the attractive qualities outweigh the unattractive qualities because the balance is too close.
what are things that you would like to have in common
Communication, word associations, and not DNA. | |
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| what are guys attracted too??
Posted: 7/23/2009 11:21:35 PM | I'd like to know why people in these forums ask such utterly lame questions.
 I stopped ask that question a few years ago! | |
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| what are guys attracted too??
Posted: 7/23/2009 11:27:52 PM | | What are guys attracted to, hell I can't even tell you what I'm attracted to. I believe that almost all women have traits that are attractive, and no two are the same. I have been attracted to so many different types of woman, and as far as I can see there is no set of similarities. The first things I check out in a profile is their interest section to see if they have listed things I like to do, but even there nothing is set in stone because I'm always up for trying something new. I love adventure and learning and every woman that I have had a serious relationship introduced me to new interests and ways of thinking but then again isn't every body unique and have skills and interest that we have never been exposed to? So I guess to answer your question; I can't say what I find attractive, but I'll know it when I see it. | |
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| what are guys attracted too??
Posted: 7/23/2009 11:40:43 PM | It's going to be different for each guy, even if only 1%.
Me, I like blonde and brunette women, and yes, some black-haired and red-haired women. Hair can be long or short, as long as it looks good on her.
Regarding breast size, I prefer women with A and B cups. That doesn't mean I'll turn down a woman with C or D cups, but that's not really my preference. I'm more of a legs and butt man.
I like women who have some color on their skin, not being too white or too black.
Those are the physical attributes I like on women. Other attributes would take a long time to think about and take up a lot of space to write about. | |
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| what are guys attracted too??
Posted: 7/23/2009 11:54:43 PM | Articulation I find somewhat important, as it shows attentive behaviour and a mind which paces itself well. Insite is spelled insight by the way, and it makes much more sense that way, in-sight or inner sight rather than in-site or belonging to a group.
Certainly some artistic license can help personal expression however, so I'm not always real hard on such a thing, but sometimes it does just make one frown and wonder if said person ever comes down from talking with fairies. And then you have to start wondering about Freudian slips..
Pragmatic clarity is nice. It again shows an attentive nature and the ability to differentiate neurosis and delusion from empathy and appreciation.
Some degree of interest in personal health is nice too. Drug addicts for example need not apply, or those needlessly functioning at a diminished capacity for wont of things like laziness or lack of self government. This sort of thing really helps our culture and political system along, one of those tiny small things which can remove unecessary governing concerns so more altruistic interests can be prevalent. It's a "be a part of the cure, not the problem" kind of attitude to social conscience.
Superficial values like money and social deference (ie. following the crowd mentality) are also big turn offs. A woman should be able to think for herself, it is a part of having character and personality.
Interesting and cute quirks are a turn on. Personality is a cool thing, expressed with good intent, honour, intelligence and respect it is truly what makes life worth living and reinvigorates faith in human social existence. Kinks should not be self gratifying at the cost of consideration for others however.
You know, just the usual biz. A nice, smart, good looking woman can be awe inspiring. | |
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| what are guys attracted too??
Posted: 7/24/2009 1:56:32 AM | big breasts, flat stomach, firm ass.. and a girl who doesn't like light beer who can throw up at the end of the night with the best of them.
I mean a winning personality and someone who is adventerous with a great sense of humour. | |
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