| why hapily ever after will never come for some women.
Posted: 7/24/2009 2:11:19 AM | | Alright, so I have made some recent observations about women that frustrate me. I'll tell you what I mean, but i do so at the sake of looking like a complete reject but it must be said. Women, yall need to get it together! I think the problem starts from early childhood. You see, even from the time you are young, you are bombarded with romantic storys where a prince rides in on a pretty white horse and saves the girl and he makes her his princess. Or even better yet, a knight in shining armor rides in. Well the problem is that is not reality, and I think subconsiously that is what women expect later on in life. To put it simple, there is no such thing as the perfect man or the perfect woman. now I'm not saying to tarnish your dreams of being swept off your feet and living hapily ever after, I'm just saying he wont be a knight nor a prince so dont be so quick to pass on the man that doesnt immediately meet your unrealistic and or unattainable requirements. it may sound like i am saying lower your standards but thats not the message. The message is to look inside yourself and reevaluate what you are looking for. while you are doing that, ask yourself, is what I am looking for realistic or not? For those of you that have feel like you will never find a man, this message is especially for you. My advise could potentially save you years lonlieness.Now this reevaluation process ties into my next issue im having; women that say they want to settle down but are only attracted to "The wrong type" of guys. I have heard that so many times and it drives me insane everytime i hear it. I understand most women like a bad boy but if anything, thats something to experiment with while you are still a young. It is not supposed to be carried over into adulthood! | |
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| why hapily ever after will never come for some women.
Posted: 7/24/2009 4:48:47 AM | Gimme the pretty white horse over the prince ANYTIME!!! Read a children's book called 'The paper bag princess" toooooooo funny!! I have never ever waited for some twit of a prince to'sweep me off my feet' but hey, guess what? I met a prince among men who loves my ability to stand on my own two feet- JUST LIKE MOST WOMEN!!!
This post is beyond dumb and I will hate myself in the morning for bothering to respond......
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| Reason for Requested Deletion: Non-English/Nonsense post
Posted: 7/24/2009 4:51:06 AM | 6/9 have voted to delete this thread,
at least 7 delete votes out of 10 are needed to auto delete this thread.
geez, what HAPPENED? WHO hit DO NOT DELETE this thread????
k, i'll bite.
You are
-frustrated by women,
-feeling like a reject,
-yet you assume to instruct them (all women)
-you define their reality
-you are seer of their (all women's) subconscious
-you claim all men are not worthy as knights, princes, or even untarnished men
-claim all women have unattainable dreams
-and you tell them (women) what they ought to seek (per you)
-and...TADAAAAA!!!!
THEN you ride in, astride your steed "saving them" from loneliness with this diatribe.
How DO you manage to do all this? MAN, ya gotta TELL me!
Sadly, the "drives you insane" seemed too short a ride. ;-)
I at least get to back down the driveway before i lose reality... QQ
...."twice around the park, then back to the asylum, ellsworth..." | |
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Posted: 7/24/2009 4:54:09 AM | OH great, now what am I going to do with the armor suit, the pretty white hore and the "sweeping" off the feet brooms?
This just sucks because I was all geared up for going into the local club to rescue a women from guys like you.
For sale:
1 set of shinny knights armor
1 pretty white horse
I would sell the brooms but I need to sweep my floors with those | |
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Posted: 7/24/2009 5:04:05 AM | From one of my favorite books - Live And Learn And Pass It On:
"I've learned that the dashing young knight on his snow white steed who was going to ride into my life and sweep me off my feet has apparently gotten lost in the forest"
I was never sure if it was a statement about a man's ability to stop and ask for directions or a commentary on not believing in being swept off of ones' feet.
Methinks that the OP at the tender age of 26 has a whole lot to learn about how women think, both on an individual basis and collectively. | |
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| why hapily ever after will never come for some women.
Posted: 7/24/2009 5:05:24 AM | | Sorry to disillusion you, but there are lots of "knights in shining armour" out there, and many of us have had the privilege of knowing them. Perhaps that's why some of us continue to keep our standards (no pun intended) high and remain discerning and optimistic. | |
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| ....its NOT a horse, its a UNICORN!
Posted: 7/24/2009 5:10:41 AM | options for the OP:
1. change your name from "lamont" to "lament"
2. learn why this thread will/should be deleted
3. understand why it's important to stop pissing & moaning about stuff you can't control, and start working on the stuff that you can | |
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| ....its NOT a horse, its a UNICORN!
Posted: 7/24/2009 5:10:51 AM | thank you so much for that advice
I'm not really sure how did I manage to live 54 years with out that wisdom.
All that is coming from a 26 year old. hmmmmmm interesting
for god sake someone tell me how do you post less than me and not get the messeage that it is to short | |
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| why hapily ever after will never come for some women.
Posted: 7/24/2009 5:13:26 AM | 
thank you...thank you...thank you oh wise one !!!
new york times says....wiser words were never written
the boston harold..... wisdom way beyond his years
la times says...... this is going to be the next dr. phill
god! man thanks! i am running to my front door now waiting for the flood of women... that because of your wisdom will now latch on to the first man that looks at them...
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Posted: 7/24/2009 5:20:26 AM | phew .. thanks to VerticalEvent for 'saving' the day!! woohooo!! a hero - a prince - a knight in shining armour! .. to slay the wicked OPdragon
*rides in on a White Horse*
Online, everyone's fantasies comes true!
*passes out red roses to all the ladies*
*slays the wicked OP*
so .. cough .. Vertical - you got an older brother?? an uncle?? hello?? lol ..
and Hey Deluxe!!! I'll trade you a rarely used (vintage) vacuum for those brooms!
OT - OP - threads of this nature Must be titled: "I've been rejected, now Hear me Whine!" lol ..
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Posted: 7/24/2009 5:27:39 AM | (brain begins to explode...)
Damnit, and here after reading 6,798,253 "nice guy" threads on here, I thought all women only *said* they wanted the knight in shining armor, when in reality all they are looking for is the "bad boy" who beats and abuses them! Sheesh, why is this so confusing?!?!
Is this something similar to being a man with a dream of the White Picket Fence™, 2.3 average kids, and the doting wife who's a gorgeous arm-candy princess in public and a wild horny animal in the bedroom?  
Its all so complex these days, maybe I should just start  ... but its 8AM and I need my coffee first...  | |
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| why hapily ever after will never come for some women.
Posted: 7/24/2009 5:35:04 AM |
Read a children's book called 'The paper bag princess" toooooooo funny!!
I was going to say the same. In the story the princess has to "save" the prince who is stolen by the nasty dragon. Princess uses her brains to outsmart the dragon and upon freeing the Prince discovers all he cares about are looks due to his disdainful remarks said to her because she looks like crap, and rightly so, after fighting the dragon to free his sorry life. She tells him to take a hike and walks off into the sunset, alone and happy.
I'm convinced "Happily Ever After" will never come to people who constantly whine about the opposite sex, either. | |
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Posted: 7/24/2009 5:52:50 AM | I hate to say this...but I whenever I've had a man make this comment to me, he's ALWAYS been the guy that I have politely turned down, whether because of the following:
-I did not find him attractive AT ALL...meaning no matter how much I got to know him, I would never be physically/sexually attracted to him. Don't get me wrong, I'm not looking for a picture perfect model type, but I do have to find him attractive! Of course personality/interests/paradigms are VERY important...but something tells me 97% of the people on this site ARE NOT contacting people who they absolutely do not find physical attractive AT ALL! Are you original poster, please do tell!
-I was not raised to think a man is going to come on his white horse to rescue me...while I've had my ups and downs (haven't we all), I take care of myself. My strong, intelligent, loving father taught me "a truly strong man wants a strong intelligent woman"...there's more to life than big t*tties and a nice *ss"...OK, so maybe Daddy is a little too blunt, but it's true. When you finally meet your significant other you are a team, you build your life together. I've found only weak, insecure men who have nothing to offer want women who have nothing to offer....like attracts like, right!?!
I'm a strong believer one has to be truly happy with themselves before they can join someone and be truly happy, so as far as your statement that women will be alone/miserable...chances are that particular woman will be miserable whether she is with someone or alone because there's something from within that she needs to work out! I'm NOT that woman.
The basic things I'm looking for in a man, I refuse to "just settle"...when I look at women who have when it came to long term relationships and even marraige, most of those women I know have regretted it and are unhappy...they might appreciate the guy, but they are not in love with them!
True love is not a selfish love...so if someone isn't interested in you for whatever reason, do you think they should be with you because you are so interested them...in my eyes, that's SELFISH!
A lot of guys use the excuse "women go for the bad boys instead of them.". Depending upon how bad you're talking about (does he beat/mistreat her, is he a drug dealer, does he cheat on her, is he just a plain low-life), that actually tells you a lot about the woman...if you are in fact a good catch, why are you constantly going after women who always go after that type of man...says a lot about her, no?!
I've NEVER dated a bad boy, and I don't intend on starting now! | |
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