| messages being read--but not deleted --yet no answer ?
Posted: 7/26/2009 6:37:42 PM | i have been sending messages to a woman on line..she is for some reason saving them and not deleting them..we both are looking for intimate encounters..she has not sent me nothing back though..i have sent a picture of myself....
i am just wondering of your opinion...could she be thinking about meeting me..this has been going on for about 2 weeks now...i am kind of puzzled on her behavior on why she is keeping my messages if she is not going to message me back.. | |
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| messages being read--but not deleted --yet no answer ?
Posted: 7/26/2009 6:39:44 PM | | She keeps them because the system automatically deletes them. Maybe she's wondering if she wants to message you back. Maybe she has so many emails in her box that she forgot about it. Don't worry about it. Stop stalking your own sent folder. Just delete everything after you send it. If someone responds, great. | |
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| messages being read--but not deleted --yet no answer ?
Posted: 7/26/2009 6:45:13 PM | | seriously, relax. =). If she's not responded she probably doesn't want to. I get messages, don't delete them, but don't reply sometimes if I am turned off by the person who is messaging me. I don't waste my time deleting, I just don't respond. She's doing the same thing. Leave her alone. | |
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| messages being read--but not deleted --yet no answer ?
Posted: 7/26/2009 6:46:44 PM | | Dude... she's not interested. I delete my emails once a month, or until I'm onto multiple pages, whichever comes first. Just because you’re both looking for the same thing doesn’t mean she has to respond to you. You’re over thinking this… move on. | |
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| messages being read--but not deleted --yet no answer ?
Posted: 7/26/2009 7:05:02 PM | Thinking that she is keeping your messages till she figures out a way to meet you, is a highly sugar coated way of avoiding what you must know to be the truth. She isnt interested.
It may be due to the last sentence in your profile....."Soiling" your oats may be too kinky for her.
I think you meant to say 'sow' your oats. | |
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| messages being read--but not deleted --yet no answer ?
Posted: 7/26/2009 9:20:31 PM |
we both are looking for intimate encounters..she has not sent me nothing back though..i have sent a picture of myself...
There is no rule saying that people have to delete messages.
Of course read/delete is a way for people to not have to respond and tell the other person that they are not interested. Would you be interested if some 400 lbs woman sent you her picture and continued to send you kinky messages?
Then again, you messaging her multiple times without getting a response makes it pretty clear that she is not interested. I would put my money on that if she is reading those messages without deleting them that she is probably having a giggle with some girlfriends of hers over your messages and pictures.
I used to do that with some guy who would leave heavy breathing voicemails on my phone for a year (until I eventually changed my number) even after I blatantly made it clear I was not interested in him. I would pass the phone around the office telling everyone this guy is my stalker...letting everyone hear his grunting noises while he masturbated on my voicemail. | |
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| messages being read--but not deleted --yet no answer ?
Posted: 7/27/2009 7:14:58 AM | | The system auto-deletes them after 30 days and for some women on this site, it would take half their morning to read AND delete their msgs. I don't immediately delete my regular Y@hoo inbox daily and its the same for my POF acct. Its means n.o.t.h.i.n.g. Don't read into it. | |
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| messages being read--but not deleted --yet no answer ?
Posted: 7/27/2009 7:17:13 AM | You should, like, stop messaging her. She's obviously not interested. The system deletes messages after 20 days, so I never bother to delete anything.
Its really annoying when the same person keeps sending messages. | |
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| messages being read--but not deleted --yet no answer ?
Posted: 7/27/2009 8:10:48 AM | | She doesnt want to meet you. If she did she would have messaged you back.. point blank! I dont delet my messages and i dont respond to all of them either. Maybe she keeps them so she doesnt 4get your screen name and recognizes it when u do message her... just a thought. Hope it wasnt to harsh :) | |
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| messages being read--but not deleted --yet no answer ?
Posted: 7/27/2009 9:50:40 AM | | She's just not interested but hasn't deleted the message because they get deleted after a while anyway, it doesn't mean she's waiting for something to write about etc, if she had liked you, she'd have messaged you. Simple;. | |
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| messages being read--but not deleted --yet no answer ?
Posted: 7/27/2009 10:38:12 AM | You are her knight in shining armor, she is waiting for you to come crashing in her front door on a 3 legged camel and take her away.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Maybe she was turned off with the picture of you and what the content of the pic was. Hopefully, you didn't send her any nudes. Just because the both of you are looking for intimate encounters doesn't mean that she is interested in that with you. Probably the pic sealed that deal. | |
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| messages being read--but not deleted --yet no answer ?
Posted: 7/27/2009 12:42:49 PM | | i rarely delete messages, and had no idea that a) the sender could see if it is deleted and b) why on earth you would care whether they were or not. IF A WOMAN DOESN'T RESPOND, SHE IS NOT INTERESTED. It's that simple. | |
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