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 qdraw

Joined: 4/29/2009
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are all the woman on here just plane vile
Posted: 7/27/2009 1:48:16 PM
Its no wonder the women on here are single I dont think i have ever come across such a rude bunch of people . they do not seem to look at profiles or answer mail, regardless if its a short hello or a longer letter
 brad29483

Joined: 3/29/2008
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are all the woman on here just plane vile
Posted: 7/27/2009 1:50:58 PM
LOL, you are in for a rude awakening posting that here.
 deborah815

Joined: 5/4/2009
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are all the woman on here just plane vile
Posted: 7/27/2009 1:52:20 PM
Vile and shallow. Thanks for the compliments!
 undesiredheart

Joined: 12/4/2008
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are all the woman on here just plane vile
Posted: 7/27/2009 1:52:38 PM
Go for dudes ;]

Haha but seriously.. your aware your wearing a multicolored waistcoat in your pictures right? and you want replies...-cough-... well Good luck with that.
 rêver

Joined: 5/25/2009
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are all the woman on here just plane vile
Posted: 7/27/2009 1:54:02 PM
Don't let those rude people bring you to that conclusion. I'm sure there are lots of nice women dying to hear from you
 prurire

Joined: 5/3/2008
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are all the woman on here just plane vile
Posted: 7/27/2009 1:54:18 PM
No one is forcing you to be here.

Many people make the mistake in assuming that even though they aren't successful in meeting and dating people in real life that all of a sudden they will be on a dating site. The slap in the face of reality is that dating sites are much, much harder and a lot more work than meeting people in real life.

They are not obligated to look at your profile or answer your email. It's not in the TOS and is considered common courtesy that no response = not interested.

So what you consider to be vile and rude is actually considered common courtesy. It should be expected and really, there just isn't any reason for you to take it personally.
 chandlers wish

Joined: 6/22/2008
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are all the woman on here just plane vile
Posted: 7/27/2009 1:54:53 PM
I don't think either of you are worthy a lengthy reply, seems you have "grouped" us into your own catagory..... aweee fish not bitting? Damn what a shame you both come across so lovely, considerate, nice, manly........

Oh:-

I however, love planes.. and I am not "plain vile" - correcting spelling - and what is a chix?

Ladies

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 LD44

Joined: 8/23/2008
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are all the woman on here just plane vile
Posted: 7/27/2009 1:57:42 PM
As I ask myself why do I bother
 iTsMeJuLi

Joined: 10/27/2008
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are all the woman on here just plane vile
Posted: 7/27/2009 1:58:13 PM
Well OP, let's start at the beginning. For one thing you look 62 in your photos, not 52. You may even be older but I'm being nice.

Vile? I think that word is a bit excessive.

Perhaps you should lower your expectations of online dating, its not a flippin mail order bride catalog.
 undesiredheart

Joined: 12/4/2008
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are all the woman on here just plane vile
Posted: 7/27/2009 1:58:53 PM
Its not? Damn... all that money.. wondered why they never arrived. =\
 brad29483

Joined: 3/29/2008
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are all the woman on here just plane vile
Posted: 7/27/2009 1:59:00 PM

As I ask myself why do I bother


You like the abuse?
 achillies25

Joined: 7/13/2009
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are all the woman on here just plane vile
Posted: 7/27/2009 2:00:30 PM
You need the looks of Johnny depp and have the IQ of Stephen Hawking to have any chance on here.When you do meet someone you think is nice,it turns out to be the same,Shallow as a worms grave they are.Even when they get chatting to you,after a while they start to blank you.It is so agrrrrrrr ,and when you meet them in person its still the same, just be straight with us.....SHALLOW.................
 Bellydanza

Joined: 11/25/2007
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are all the woman on here just plane vile
Posted: 7/27/2009 2:03:00 PM
Here is my one new email of the day. I saved it for just such an occassion as some whiney guy complaining about how vile and rude WE are.



"Make love to me under my grandpa's old shed. Then we can hold hands as we gaze at the stars above us while we lay together pressing our bodies against one another. "

Now when I get a rude guy who's pissed because I said he wasn't my type....i'll let you see that as well.
 JustNotThatIntoYou

Joined: 1/20/2009
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are all the woman on here just plane vile
Posted: 7/27/2009 2:03:25 PM
It's no wonder that you, sir, are on here and single!

Your grammar is just plain vile.

And you're sniveling, whiny demeanor is just plain ghastly!

Go learn some REAL manners and get a clue that "most women" aren't going to be attracted to "most guys" no matter what you do.

"Most women" aren't looking for a man that "most women" are attracted to.

You've heard the cliche that, "Everybody has their day. Today is not yours. Tomorrow ain't looking to good either".

Each woman on here is, more than likely, looking for her "one in a million".

So far, none of the women you have contacted think you fit the bill.

So, it doesn't make them vile for not wanting to "settle" on you. They can "settle" for any man in real life. They're not coming online to find what they can find everyday!
 undesiredheart

Joined: 12/4/2008
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are all the woman on here just plane vile
Posted: 7/27/2009 2:03:52 PM
Under the shed :o O_o pretty thin people
 chandlers wish

Joined: 6/22/2008
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are all the woman on here just plane vile
Posted: 7/27/2009 2:04:08 PM
It's better to have loved and lost than never loved at all

achilies... that's not true at all, most "ladies" like personality the most - so start making them laugh and you'll be fine....
 moniquesc

Joined: 6/11/2007
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are all the woman on here just plane vile
Posted: 7/27/2009 2:07:34 PM
If you are going to insult us please learn to spell.

P.S. LOVE the vest...not! LOL

Oh, was that just plain vile????????? :0)~
 brad29483

Joined: 3/29/2008
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are all the woman on here just plane vile
Posted: 7/27/2009 2:08:00 PM
You posted that already Bellydanza...

but if you are ever in the mood for something REALLY vile...

My Grandpa has an old shed in Jacksonville, I could drive down one day
 BrainsAndBrawn

Joined: 2/9/2009
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are all the woman on here just plane vile
Posted: 7/27/2009 2:09:26 PM
For goodness sake, don't lower your expectations. The last thing you want is to meet a girl and think "hey, I lowered my expectations for you!"

Read the blurb they advertise this site under. Something like 18,000,000 people are on PoF and they go out on 15,000,000 dates. I've no idea how accurate those figures are, (or if I got them the right way around) but it averages around 1 date per year per person. That's for Mr. Average.
Miss Hot gets anywhere between 20-70 emails per day (rough estimate based on other forum posts) and as many dates as she chooses to accept.

She also gets a lot of hassle from guys like you, OP. I can only hope that you chose to vent your frustrations here, rather than at some of the people you were writing to. Writing nasty emails only validates what they believe - you shouldn't reply to a guy you don't immediately fancy.

Perhaps you could be forgiven for not realizing how much the odds are stacked against you in PoF. But a little research isn't too much to ask for. Now go ahead and find out the average rate of reply for guys emails yourself!

And take some time out of internet dating!
 achillies25

Joined: 7/13/2009
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are all the woman on here just plane vile
Posted: 7/27/2009 2:11:05 PM
It's true of the women I've met here,even when they come and contact me first,and things seem to be going good,all of a sudden they start to blank me.I don't mind once they have the guts to tell me straight,but what I hate is when they string me along.Maybe there are nice women on here,but I've haven't found them yet..........
 undesiredheart

Joined: 12/4/2008
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are all the woman on here just plane vile
Posted: 7/27/2009 2:16:10 PM
Worked fine for me quite a few times.. and im pretty average..
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