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Posted: 7/27/2009 3:12:23 PM | | Okay, I just want to know why guys always talk about other girls. For instance I went to hang out with my date and his buds and most of the night the only thing they wanted to talk about were other girls and it was such a turn off that I just got up and left. | |
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Posted: 7/27/2009 3:15:36 PM | | Because girls always talk about other guys | |
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Posted: 7/27/2009 3:17:00 PM | okay...why are you on a date with a guy and his buds? unless this was a group date with a good mix of girls and guys.
if it was just you and a bunch of guys, then you stumbled upon a "guys night out" bonding session. which of course has a lot of talk about girls past, present, and future.
I wouldn't have considered that a date. you were gladys night and the pips. | |
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Posted: 7/27/2009 3:19:42 PM | A. he was tryin to get u jealous
B. he is really not that into you, he is keepin u around till he finds someone new. trust me, men dont talk about anythin that would turn a girl off or possibility of losing her unless and untill they either dont care or know that u arent goin anywhere. | |
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Posted: 7/27/2009 3:20:27 PM | | First of all it was pretty tactless of him to speak about other women while you where there, but it could be that he didn't want you to think that he had a lack of expierence with women. A mans pride is importent to him so we don't want people to think we are inadiquit. It could also be that he just got caught up with the conversation and just did not think that the material would offend you | |
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Posted: 7/27/2009 3:29:32 PM | Depends I guess on what they are saying about the other girls.
Often when a guy brings up another woman in a conversation while he is with a woman, he probably is using the example as a role model.
For example.
Lets say he talks about how the "other girl" was clean and did not keep her apartment and her bedroom like a pig pen.
He could be trying to give you a subtle hint that you are a dirty pig.
Lets say he talks about what a great cook the other woman that he knows is...
He could be suggesting to you...that you are a lousy cook and you better get in the kitchen and start banging those pots and pans.
Lets say that he talks about what a wonderful sex partner that other woman was and how she use to love to give him Bj's everyday after he came home from work...
Well...... are you starting to catch on girl...?
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Posted: 7/27/2009 3:42:27 PM | Go find yourself a group of married women and lemme know what they're talkin about.
Two topics;
1. Their husbands
2. Their kids
'nuff said
BTW, it sounds like you're jealous that they weren't all talking about you! | |
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Posted: 7/27/2009 4:37:01 PM | | And what does a group of girls talk about? | |
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Posted: 7/27/2009 5:13:57 PM | | He wants you and was trying to impress you. EOS | |
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Posted: 7/27/2009 5:35:31 PM | have you brought up these concerns with your date? you might be doing him a favor to do so. guys your age can be pretty clueless about social niceties until someone suggests a different behavior.
also, did you make an effort to steer the conversation to things you wanted to talk about? or did you just sit there silently stewing about how unfair they all were? | |
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Posted: 7/27/2009 6:01:52 PM | It's just guys bein guys
it's like....guy tourette's. ya know?
I know that girls talk about dudes a lot too
they just don't do it when they're out on a date
I mean, sometimes they do.....
but, I notice that most women don't 'blurt' with the fervor that some guys do.
go for the one on one next time
guys in groups.....I even avoid 'em'
of course, most guys I know that do this are either braggin, showing off, or perhaps had one too many. Oh, one other thing...they ain't gettin' any either....
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Posted: 7/27/2009 6:33:24 PM | | Why would you ever go out on a date with a guy and his 'buds'? | |
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Posted: 7/27/2009 6:36:09 PM |
Okay, I just want to know why guys always talk about other girls. For instance I went to hang out with my date and his buds and most of the night the only thing they wanted to talk about were other girls and it was such a turn off that I just got up and left.
Generally, I never talk about other women when I'm with my G/F... in fact other women do not exist...
Talking about other women in front of you is probably a sign you're not long term to him. | |
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Posted: 7/27/2009 6:37:02 PM | Well he couldn't very well stand there lying to his buddies about how sexually active he's been with you already, with you standing right there, now could he? And considering it was "guys", they are going to stand around lying about how sexually active they've been!
Welcome to the wonderful world of guys...next time bring a rubber d*ck and fit right in! lol! | |
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Posted: 7/27/2009 6:39:36 PM | | The real question you should be asking is why you went out on a date with just him and his "buds". I honestly can't think of anything more awkward unless you guys have been dating a very long time. Even then, why not just let them have their guy's night out and you wouldn't have to deal with it. | |
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Posted: 7/27/2009 6:53:03 PM | Reverse the situation you think he would be comfortable on a date with you and your girls. Chalk this up to a lesson learned and move on.  | |
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Posted: 7/27/2009 7:08:49 PM | | You are 18, those aren't guys they are boys | |
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Posted: 7/27/2009 7:17:45 PM | @ oldskool67
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Posted: 7/27/2009 7:19:37 PM | | imature man. you felt left out, unloved,unvalued both things a woman crave. Im sure they did not understand what that ment to you. | |
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Posted: 7/27/2009 9:41:05 PM | being that you're 18, i'm assuming these guys were similar age. well, a group of guys is usually pretty horny, so all they're thinkin about is girls. you probably should not have joined this group with high expectations for him to act like a gentleman, because he's got to maintain his "dude-liness", lets say.
he can act like a gentleman when he's not surrounded by other guys.
your best bet is to not expect too much from guys at this age. all they want to do is have sex, possibly fall in love, but it rarely lasts. so have fun, be safe if you have sex, and keep your expectations low. your next 5 years will be exciting if you learn to do bigger picture thinking. don't focus too close on the little stuff. it's hard when young, but the more you do, the happier you'll be. | |
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Posted: 7/27/2009 9:57:28 PM | It's a maturity level thing. Or some people are not over they're ex and aren't ready for dating, thus subjugating you to their poor attitude.
Either tell them to discontinue their annoying ways or leave. I'd choose leave. | |
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