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 bonafide_hustler

Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 1
Guys, why OH why???
Posted: 7/29/2009 4:17:52 PM
My cousin who is around 22 but very mature for her age just called me and told me that she found out that her boyfriend was cheating on her!! now i know when you're just boyfriend and girlfriend that it's nothing too serious...but they have lived together for about 8 months now and he was going to take her to austin for a weekend for their one year anniversary which is next month...i just don't get it! My ex did the same thing to me when i was pregnant... also for some reason both of the ******* are mexican!!!


she is an amazing person always trying to please him in anyway possible, why do we always give you guys everything we have...BLAHHHHHHHHH
 rainman12

Joined: 10/18/2007
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Posted: 7/29/2009 4:21:12 PM
Wow - I think the fact that both your ex and your cousin's (ex?) boyfriend are Mexican is totally irrelevant. I can't believe you actually thought that was a pertinent detail???
 lastmanstanding21

Joined: 3/13/2008
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Posted: 7/29/2009 4:21:17 PM
sounds like you need a hug
not all guys are the same
 Bender007

Joined: 7/13/2009
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Posted: 7/29/2009 4:23:04 PM
Coming from a bonafide hustler, thats a funny question.

Seriously, I'm afraid she got played by an utter loser. Thats the key to remember. People who are dishonest enough to run behind your back are the lowest of the low. Trust, love, respect all go out of the window.

I'm truly sorry for your cousin.
 Tyefromnj1

Joined: 10/11/2008
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Posted: 7/29/2009 4:25:51 PM
Didn't you read the mexican constitution? Free american visas for anyone who cheats... I thought you knew that sheesh.

On a serious note wtf doe being mexican have to do with guys who cheat?
 potsmoker2009

Joined: 5/20/2009
Msg: 6
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Posted: 7/29/2009 4:26:50 PM
maybe because they were mexican? ladies this is what happens to you when you choose your partner based on mostly looks, you're bound to get hurt in the long-run.
 BoredGuy18

Joined: 7/13/2009
Msg: 7
Guys, why OH why???
Posted: 7/29/2009 4:30:09 PM

My cousin who is around 22 but very mature for her age just called me and told me that she found out that her boyfriend was cheating on her!! now i know when you're just boyfriend and girlfriend that it's nothing too serious...but they have lived together for about 8 months now and he was going to take her to austin for a weekend for their one year anniversary which is next month...i just don't get it! My ex did the same thing to me when i was pregnant... also for some reason both of the ******* are mexican!!!


Clearly, it's because all mexicians are immoral cheaters [/sarcasm]. Why would you even include the nationality of the guys in your post unless you're trying to insinuate something.
 Valgrace

Joined: 5/24/2009
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Posted: 7/29/2009 4:33:37 PM
Are you really looking for an answer or just venting?
 Justwaiting85

Joined: 12/13/2008
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Posted: 7/29/2009 4:40:30 PM
This is an EASY answer...............

Because both you AND your cousin are complete F***ING idiots.

You both CHOSE these men. I'm also willing to bet this is something that has happened in the past as well.

Why don't you both re-evaluate your criteria for the men you let into your lives before saying all guys are the same. Or even worse; getting racial over it!
 Sun_Devil_92

Joined: 11/16/2008
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Posted: 7/29/2009 4:41:43 PM
I thought we covered this: possibly one of the reasons why your ex left you was that you are (according to your profile):



crazy at times
obnoxious
snobby


So, this demands the follow-up question: per chance do the above characteristics run in your family? We might have found out what happened to your cousin ...
 CyrusOne

Joined: 7/16/2009
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Posted: 7/29/2009 4:48:57 PM
OP... things happen.

Seriously... this happens about every minute probably... it's called life.

the fact you said they're Mexican leads me to believe you're probably not the brightest bulb in the box. It has NOTHING to do with anything.

If she's an amazing person who pleases her guyfriend... MAYBE... just MAYBE... she should look at what kind of guys she has dated. She's gotta either not jump on it as soon as he's nice to her... or get her priorities straight.

Most women jump as soon as the guy starts tellin em they're beautiful and all that crap...

Tell her to NEVER take him back... I've got a feeling she might be considering it.

 Landra2

Joined: 6/4/2009
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Posted: 7/29/2009 4:56:03 PM

also for some reason both of the ******* are mexican!!!
Also for some reason??? Like... they were born Mexican? Could that be the reason they're Mexican?

why do we always give you guys everything we have.
Low self-esteem would be my guess.
 lxOvOxl

Joined: 7/19/2009
Msg: 13
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Posted: 7/29/2009 4:57:47 PM

My cousin who is around 22 but very mature for her age just called me and told me that she found out that her boyfriend was cheating on her!! now i know when you're just boyfriend and girlfriend that it's nothing too serious...but they have lived together for about 8 months now and he was going to take her to austin for a weekend for their one year anniversary which is next month...i just don't get it! My ex did the same thing to me when i was pregnant... also for some reason both of the ******* are mexican!!!


she is an amazing person always trying to please him in anyway possible, why do we always give you guys everything we have...BLAHHHHHHHHH


Women cheat equally as much as men. We are both the same, have the same needs, urges, and impulses. People change, people lose attraction, and people get attracted to others. Its common, and its life.

The thing i really dont get is why people (men or women) want to take back the person who cheated on them, dumbest thing possible.
Get over it
and move on.
 GoodWitchBeth

Joined: 2/21/2005
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Posted: 7/29/2009 5:04:41 PM
You know, racism is so stupid. How did this post not get deleted?
Beth
 abelian

Joined: 1/12/2008
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Posted: 7/29/2009 5:22:01 PM
Because you are bad at choosing men.
 chiddychiddybangbang

Joined: 9/13/2008
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Posted: 7/29/2009 5:29:59 PM
Maybe the problem is that you obviously don't like Mexicans so if you're dating them, why should they have any reason to respect you? Racism is a mother****er
 bgrumling

Joined: 2/28/2008
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Posted: 7/29/2009 5:30:58 PM
honestly when you are in a boyfreind girlfriend monogomus realtionship there should not be cheating. if they cheat now they are gonna cheat later. and its better it ends now. cheating is because the cheater is insecure. and people cheat for many reasons
 NerdStatus

Joined: 1/9/2007
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Posted: 7/29/2009 5:31:06 PM

Guys, why OH why???

Because the two of you don't know how to pick good partners?
Because some men can't keep it in their pants?
Because one (both?) of you weren't giving him something he wanted?
Because new vagina (mouth, back door?) is awesome?

There's many reasons.


why do we always give you guys everything we have

Don't know. But, given the following in your profile:

crazy at times
obnoxious
snobby

And, given you call yourself a "hustler" - perhaps you should re-think your "give all you have" strategy, and consider a "maybe I should make myself a better person" strategy. My guess is this would attract better quality men. But hey - what do I know.
 silverz71

Joined: 11/29/2008
Msg: 19
Guys, why OH why???
Posted: 7/29/2009 5:34:45 PM
I think that she is saying that both of the women that thier men cheated on them with were mexicans.
Like most have said it's not just the men, it's also the women. I knew tht "Desperate Housewives" was going to kill this society!
How can anyone pick a person that isn't going to cheat on them? They can't! Sometimes it can take many years to find that one out. Just go on, get over it and hope the next one is better than the last! That's all anyone can do.
 MrPlatonic

Joined: 8/25/2008
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Posted: 7/29/2009 5:48:49 PM
Your cousin had better go take a pregnancy test immediately.

Nationality and gender have nothing to do with it. Some people cheat. Lots of people cheat. Some of the most pious, hard-working, public-facing representatives of society are crooked lying cheaters.

Sorry to hear about it, Ms. "Bonafide Hustler".
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