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Posted: 7/30/2009 6:04:29 AM | Good morning all, A newbe here. Just wondering if it would be inappropiate or seem too desperate to send a 2nd message to a member that has read and deleted your first "hello" message.
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Posted: 7/30/2009 6:43:25 AM | YES, is the simple answer.
Read/delete is a clear message 'not interested'.
Just move on, there's thousands more, don't get hung up over the individual. | |
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Posted: 7/30/2009 6:51:07 AM |
Good morning all, A newbe here. Just wondering if it would be inappropiate or seem too desperate to send a 2nd message to a member that has read and deleted your first "hello" message.
Ask yourself what level of interest you had in some user if you read and deleted their email without answering it ? There, probably lies your answer ...
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Posted: 10/16/2009 5:50:49 PM | Read/Deleted means No. Don't continue.
My question folks: What about just Read? Is that different? | |
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Posted: 10/16/2009 6:41:15 PM | not really ^^^. After a couple days give up. I sometimes wait a day or two. But the system deletes your emails after 20 days. I often dont bother do delete as the syetm handles it.
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Posted: 10/17/2009 12:56:39 AM | I think it depends I know for a while if I was answering my emails left my desk, come back, type out answer have to resign in the email would be lost for several days then show up in my inbox. I am an odd duck I check to make sure all my emails are answered so there would be the one I wanted to answer.
Sometimes the system has a glitch, if you dont' get a response in a week then chances are you aren't going to get one. | |
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Posted: 11/6/2009 12:14:06 PM | | Sometimes you get "read/deleted" while still corresponding with a person and there is interest on their part. I think some people just delete their e-mails after they read them...it doesn't necessarily mean they are not interested...especially when you are continually corresponding with that person. | |
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Posted: 11/8/2009 1:01:32 AM | Just wondering if it would be inappropiate or seem too desperate to send a 2nd message to a member that has read and deleted your first "hello" message.
 | Give it some Time if you want to send another one ... maybe a couple of Weeks. |
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Posted: 11/14/2009 8:36:20 PM | I'd advise it, do yourself a service -- it's an indication they aren't into your for whatever reason.
What does infuriate me to an extent though is people that leave it on read -- > why not just delete it instanteously, I'm not that desperate by any means to be looking over message to see that they get read, but it is somewhat baffling to say the least. I'd actually prefer it if the message deleted. Especially if that person I send to is online and reads it .. yes they may have other e-mails to "tend to," but you opened up mind and read it ... respond or delete simple as that or ... if you are going to let it wait, don't just leave it there to boost your self-esteem to see how many e-mails you can compile in your inbox.
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Posted: 11/14/2009 9:07:11 PM | The system here deletes the old mail automaticaly. We don't have to delete it. If we read it we are done with it if we don't reply. Consider it equal to deleting it.
My suggestion for you is when you send one go delete it from your sent mail. After it is sent nothing matters at all unless you get a reply back. All other outcomes are the same. NOT INTERESTED.
don't just leave it there to boost your self-esteem to see how many e-mails you can compile in your inbox.
Boost our self esteem? Good grief... does somebody need a hug here or what?
Look you can handle your inbox anyway you want to OK? But you really have no right here to tell anyone else how to handle their mail or inbox.
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Posted: 11/14/2009 9:15:08 PM |
What does infuriate me to an extent though is people that leave it on read -- > why not just delete it instanteously, I'm not that desperate by any means to be looking over message to see that they get read, but it is somewhat baffling to say the least. I'd actually prefer it if the message deleted. Especially if that person I send to is online and reads it .. yes they may have other e-mails to "tend to," but you opened up mind and read it ... respond or delete simple as that or ... if you are going to let it wait, don't just leave it there to boost your self-esteem to see how many e-mails you can compile in your inbox.[.quote]
Why not just stop looking at your sent folder? Or how about, after you send a message, you delete your sent folder. That way you don't have to get your panties in a twist about what someone does with the message. | |
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Posted: 11/15/2009 1:18:02 AM | *COWBOY* This does beg the question though because sometimes these women have at some point favorited you, so you decide to send an email, it's read......and then nothing. It doesn't keep me awake nights or even irritate me. Just makes a guy curious.
And by the way, I would NEVER email someone again who read/deleted me. That's a little scarey.....even that you're thinking about it.(I mean the guy who started the thread, not you cowboy) That's just creepy, stalker like behaviour. | |
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Posted: 11/15/2009 2:15:15 AM |
That's just creepy, stalker like behaviour.
^^^^ Huh? Id hardly call sending two emails to someone as "stalkerish".....................??
If it was relentless and they were bombarding someone constantly,id call THATstalkerish behaviour........... | |
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Posted: 11/15/2009 4:01:12 AM |
*COWBOY* This does beg the question though because sometimes these women have at some point favorited you, so you decide to send an email, it's read......and then nothing. It doesn't keep me awake nights or even irritate me. Just makes a guy curious.
Look there is no hard rule on anything that happens on this website OK?
In general I reply or try to when someone favorites me. I send a SHORT message saying I noticed they add me to their favorites and if I am interested I add that I had looked at their profile also and would be interested in chatting further if they were interested.
My reply rate from those women that add me is SUBSTANTIALLY higer then from the ones that I just blindly first contact, but it is by no means 100 percent.
Because we all use favorites different. I have long funny profile and people fav me so they can show someone at work that will also think it was funny or stuff. Not because they were really interested. Others use favs as a wink and they are interested a little.
Just contact the ones your interested in and say a prayer.
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Posted: 11/15/2009 9:48:55 PM | | I don't think anyone deludes themselves that there are some "rules" regarding this site(beyond good taste and general humanity), I was just curious about your experience. If I detect a certain amount of exasperation in your responsse, and I'm not even the sensitive type, perhaps you need to be a little more understanding and patient. Or I could be totally wrong. Who cares? | |
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