Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.
     
Show ALL Forums  > Sex and Dating  > talking dirty and "sexting"      Home login  
 AUTHOR
 81Marie
Joined: 3/11/2009
Msg: 1
view profile
History
talking dirty and "sexting"Page 1 of 2    (1, 2)
Whats the deal with that? and why do guys you have never met want to have cybersex. I can kinda understand if you know the person but just random strangers???wtf

And do guys really think women are masterbating while we are telling you this stuff?

Please tell me guys aren't jerking off at their office at work.

FYI if you are going to send a guy naked pics of yourself make sure your face doesn't show because they evidently fw it to every other guy they know. I got to see all kinds of girls from some guy I met in a bar.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 2
talking dirty and sexting
Posted: 8/1/2009 5:31:45 AM
Please tell me guys aren't jerking off at their office at work.


I worked with a young woman once in a large firm in Philadelphia who claimed that she was doing precisely that whenever her office door was closed, and it was closed more than once just about every day (I checked after she admitted that. lol). I really like that lady, in part because of the mindset that allowed her both to masturbate where ever, and then to admit it. Lol

Sex has a number of uses, OP, imo. Sure, sure, it's highest and best use is to complete the joinder of two humans after a relationship otherwise based has developed, but it's also prostate therapy, has general, non-specific ameliorating and beneficial effects on the mindsets of the participants (whether through hormone releases or otherwise), clears away a plethora of "fences" between two people to enable intimacy on a much grander scale, and is, after all, biblically mandated.
It would not be terribly wrong to say that it is a most effective way to get much closer to another, and to get to know them in a different way than chatting permits. Only the point in the relationship where it is a viable alternative seems to be the controversy. Fvcking is not usually a fit alternative for a handshake or a threshold hug, but in some instances, it could be, I think (depending upon the outlooks of the participants, e.g., swingers or orgiasts). Not everyone who has first-date sex complains about it. lol

I think you're kinda young to be making calls about what's good and bad for anybody. I'm older than you, and I'm nowhere near to that position, and in fact, more convinced than ever that no one should ever be cloaked with that authority. Human behavior is no more controllable (thank god!) than the currents of oceans or wild rivers.
 SeinfeldFan1
Joined: 6/20/2009
Msg: 3
talking dirty and sexting
Posted: 8/1/2009 6:14:41 AM
I'm really open and quite playful, once in a relationship, but when a guy starts talking about sex right off the bat, that's a major turn off for me. On the other hand, I'm glad he reveals himself right away so I can hit the delete key sooner rather than later.
 purrtypurr
Joined: 11/19/2008
Msg: 4
talking dirty and sexting
Posted: 8/1/2009 6:18:41 AM
These guys want interactive porn and are usually in a relationship or are unable to connect with a woman in a mature manner. They are just taking porn to another level for their cheap thrills...........
 lcandydish
Joined: 1/5/2009
Msg: 5
view profile
History
talking dirty and sexting
Posted: 8/1/2009 6:26:19 AM
Sorry to tell ya, guys are jerking off in their office...
 Blakkardaberry
Joined: 2/7/2009
Msg: 6
view profile
History
talking dirty and sexting
Posted: 8/1/2009 10:35:54 AM
If you think about it's all about fantasy no real woman could ever fit the fantasy of what they have already in there head. Plus if you hold no true value to them what they got to lose by asking. The worst thing you can say is no. What one woman won't do another one will. Maybe you should reevaluate what your looking for if thats the kind of person your attracting. Truth in advertising is the key.
 Tenacious Forumite
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 7
talking dirty and sexting
Posted: 8/1/2009 10:39:00 AM

Personally I like sexting. It does not mean that I'm sitting in my office with Bob - it's the anticipation of what's to come later by laying it out in detail. I've done it when I'm in a relationship and/or have much trust - not with some cyber dude or virtual stranger. It's been awhile though.... **shrug**

but when a guy starts talking about sex right off the bat, that's a major turn off for me

Ditto.
 Fred Bauder
Joined: 7/18/2009
Msg: 8
view profile
History
talking dirty and sexting
Posted: 8/1/2009 11:08:15 AM

Please tell me guys aren't jerking off at their office at work.


OK, Guys aren't jerking off at their office at work.

OOPS, my pants just caught on fire!
 danzandsing
Joined: 5/12/2009
Msg: 9
talking dirty and sexting
Posted: 8/1/2009 11:19:23 AM
REGISTER | MAIL/PROFILE | HELP | NOW ONLINE | SEARCH | RATING | FORUMS | SUCCESS STORIES

 

     

Home   Logout   MyForums  

1. No phone numbers, websites or email addresses allowed.
2. No using the forums as a Chat if you wish to chat or contact someone use the messaging system.
3. There are 90 some forums, put your Thread in the RIGHT forum.
Not following the rules will result in you being banned and your account deleted. Rules Listed Here
You may not create more than 3 new threads per day.

Show ALL Forums

 > Sex and Dating

 > talking dirty and sexting

 

  Reply to an Existing Message

The message you are replying to:

Posted By:

whytwater on 8/1/2009 845 AM


I worked with a young woman once in a large firm in Philadelphia who claimed that she was doing precisely that whenever her office door was closed, and it was closed more than once just about every day (I checked after she admitted that. lol). I really like that lady, in part because of the mindset that allowed her both to masturbate where ever, and then to admit it. Lol
Sex has a number of uses, OP, imo. Sure, sure, it's highest and best use is to complete the joinder of two humans after a relationship otherwise based has developed, but it's also prostate therapy, has general, non-specific ameliorating and beneficial effects on the mindsets of the participants (whether through hormone releases or otherwise), clears away a plethora of "fences" between two people to enable intimacy on a much grander scale, and is, after all, biblically mandated.
It would not be terribly wrong to say that it is a most effective way to get much closer to another, and to get to know them in a different way than chatting permits. Only the point in the relationship where it is a viable alternative seems to be the controversy. Fvcking is not usually a fit alternative for a handshake or a threshold hug, but in some instances, it could be, I think (depending upon the outlooks of the participants, e.g., swingers or orgiasts). Not everyone who has first-date sex complains about it. lol
I think you're kinda young to be making calls about what's good and bad for anybody. I'm older than you, and I'm nowhere near to that position, and in fact, more convinced than ever that no one should ever be cloaked with that authority. Human behavior is no more controllable (thank god!) than the currents of oceans or wild rivers.


Thank goodness you said it, whytwater.
 Gentle_Soul_11
Joined: 6/4/2009
Msg: 10
talking dirty and sexting
Posted: 8/1/2009 12:24:31 PM
I've had alot of girls get annoyed with me for not coming right at them sexually... I don't get it. I'm nice polite and interested in them and get told I'm not sexual enough... but

One in a relationship a girl better be able to back her talk and dish out what she is bragging about in sexual energy. In a relationship I'm 100% faithful and will probably desire my partner quite often.
I would like a girl to come rtight out and tell me she wants it all instead of just sex, because I'm the full commitment type, not the **** buddy or the one night stand.

Sucks to ber me I guess, but I prefer my way.
 81Marie
Joined: 3/11/2009
Msg: 11
view profile
History
talking dirty and sexting
Posted: 8/1/2009 3:16:12 PM
I think you're kinda young to be making calls about what's good and bad for anybody. I'm older than you, and I'm nowhere near to that position, and in fact, more convinced than ever that no one should ever be cloaked with that authority. Human behavior is no more controllable (thank god!) than the currents of oceans or wild rivers.


I'm not saying whats good or bad for everybody...I'm just wondering what is going through their mind when the behave that way.

to the other person who said I'm attracting this behavior...You have got to be kidding me, LOL , They have never met me in person...do you look at my pics and think super-slut? It's not like I'm at a bar with clear heels, a mini skirt, and cleveage up to my chin; and even if I was if you heard the kinda things guys say to me you would be disgusted. I remember when I was 17 I was a receptionist at a car dealership. I answered the phone "blah blah Nissan" and the guy on the other end said can I cum all over your face...really is that appropriate?
I actually did ask someone who knew me and they said it was because I radiate innocence and these pervs are trying to corrupt me. Seriously, if your first message to someone is "I wanna f^ck in the @ss" where do you think your going to get with that?
 danzandsing
Joined: 5/12/2009
Msg: 12
talking dirty and sexting
Posted: 8/1/2009 3:22:08 PM

Seriously, if your first message to someone is "I wanna f^ck in the @ss" where do you think your going to get with that?


If you're already with that person..you're probably gonna get what you're stating.


FYI if you are going to send a guy naked pics of yourself make sure your face doesn't show because they evidently fw it to every other guy they know. I got to see all kinds of girls from some guy I met in a bar.


Guys (unlike men--yes, there's a difference) will do this. Men don't and won't. Typical that there's this type of concern. Just don't send your pics to anyone. Keep it to yourself and you'll have no issues whatsoever.
 81Marie
Joined: 3/11/2009
Msg: 13
view profile
History
talking dirty and sexting
Posted: 8/1/2009 3:32:11 PM
^^^^^Thats what I am saying it different if you are trying to turn on your boyfriend, what I am asking about is guys that have never met you.

Do women do this, I'm curious? Have any men out there ever got a FIRST message from a woman they do not know saying they want to sit on your face or something like that?
 danzandsing
Joined: 5/12/2009
Msg: 14
talking dirty and sexting
Posted: 8/1/2009 5:39:17 PM
Actually I have had this happen to me, right here on the site. Apparently someone (who will go nameless) decided that my forum posts were extremely sultry. This particular female wrote me an email, hoping that I would "enjoy being straddled by her" long enough to "enjoy the ride". She pondered the thought of having me in a chair, enjoying the taste of her pu$$y.

I'm flattered by some of the offers. Unlike others, I'm not offended by very much here on the site or anything said to me in text when I have given my phone number to a special someone.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 15
talking dirty and sexting
Posted: 8/1/2009 5:46:04 PM
Do women do this, I'm curious? Have any men out there ever got a FIRST message from a woman they do not know saying they want to sit on your face or something like that?


Yup, right here on this site. Outta nowhere, like zeroes out of the sun. Three separate messages, in ever larger fonts, over three separate days, as if I did not "hear" the first time. I wasn't offended, or outraged, and I didn't complain to anyone or start a thread-I just wasn't interested in her. I commend her for speaking her mind. And I responded to each.
But that was the only time.

Hey, Danz!! Lol!! Was she a Philly girl? We might have been, like, competing!!!! LOL!!
 Nerdhead26
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 16
talking dirty and sexting
Posted: 8/1/2009 5:47:47 PM
It's something that begins in their teen years. very childish and sadly some of those men never grow the f*ck up.
 danzandsing
Joined: 5/12/2009
Msg: 17
talking dirty and sexting
Posted: 8/1/2009 5:55:38 PM

Hey, Danz!! Lol!! Was she a Philly girl? We might have been, like, competing!!!! LOL!!


Not a chance. I was only working in operations. I can't afford someone whose phone bill was higher than my salary! But, I know of a certain man in Canada who could use such a jolt!

(Let's see how long it takes for my friend and tag-team partner to respond.
 BrickCharm City
Joined: 6/13/2009
Msg: 18
view profile
History
talking dirty and sexting
Posted: 8/1/2009 6:53:31 PM

Actually I have had this happen to me, right here on the site. Apparently someone (who will go nameless) decided that my forum posts were extremely sultry. This particular female wrote me an email, hoping that I would "enjoy being straddled by her" long enough to "enjoy the ride". She pondered the thought of having me in a chair, enjoying the taste of her pu$$y.


Sorry, won't happen again.
 areyouabletofindme
Joined: 7/18/2009
Msg: 19
talking dirty and sexting
Posted: 8/1/2009 7:48:48 PM
Actually I have had this happen to me, right here on the site. Apparently someone (who will go nameless) decided that my forum posts were extremely sultry. This particular female wrote me an email, hoping that I would "enjoy being straddled by her" long enough to "enjoy the ride". She pondered the thought of having me in a chair, enjoying the taste of her pu$$y.




Sorry, won't happen again.


OMG you did it too? I thought I was the only one!?
 81Marie
Joined: 3/11/2009
Msg: 20
view profile
History
talking dirty and sexting
Posted: 8/1/2009 11:37:15 PM
whyte water I think ur taking my post in the wrong tone, I'm not pissed about just wondering if this average male behavior or female for that matter (notice I didn't say normal-there is no such thing lol)
 Ronin no Sakura
Joined: 6/22/2009
Msg: 21
talking dirty and sexting
Posted: 8/2/2009 12:18:00 AM
I worked with a young woman once in a large firm in Philadelphia who claimed that she was doing precisely that whenever her office door was closed, and it was closed more than once just about every day (I checked after she admitted that. lol). I really like that lady, in part because of the mindset that allowed her both to masturbate where ever, and then to admit it. Lol


Sweet - she must have been a very cool customer!

I am so hyper and focused at work that I usually forget to eat/drive home - masturbation would be a bit problematic :D

P.S. I dearly treasure men who can properly 'talk dirty' - they are rare gems.
 Jlchate
Joined: 6/7/2009
Msg: 22
talking dirty and sexting
Posted: 8/2/2009 1:13:46 AM
i have actuallt tried the 'sexting' beore but i honestly never got any satisfaction from it. i think it was the whole type, wait, read, type. i also had an ex that sexted while i was with her. the only thing is it wasn't with me. that did cause an issue on my behalf. i felt that it was a way of cheating on me. i know i was the one that she was going to bed with every night but it made me feel like i wasn't enough for her. she even started getting pictures of the other guys junk and she kept it on her phone. so i believe that sexting is no good on my behalf. but if i am with a woman that likes it i will do it for her. so long as she isn't sexting with others.
 BeTwixxt
Joined: 7/4/2009
Msg: 23
talking dirty and sexting
Posted: 8/2/2009 2:19:53 AM
An e-mail I just got started out "HEY BEAUTIFUL! YOU JUST FOUND YOUR FREAK IN THE BED!" and then an offer to chat sometime.

lol *delete*

I'm guessing that approach isn't too effective.
 pirateforgood
Joined: 7/28/2009
Msg: 24
talking dirty and sexting
Posted: 8/14/2009 8:37:24 PM
Lady, its a TWO WAY STREET. I had a LOON on here add me to favorites list. I responded to her and started writing to her in a friendly manner. She then began sending me pics of herself in A DOMINATRIX outfit, a SCHOOL GIRL outfit, and a FRENCH MAID outfit. She then wrote me a erotic letter (and I might add a very good one) , when I responded to her advances and wrote her an erotic letter, she blocked me and took me off her list. One word..... L O O N!!!
 Ronin no Sakura
Joined: 6/22/2009
Msg: 25
talking dirty and sexting
Posted: 8/14/2009 10:35:25 PM
Please post your erotic reply letter so that all of us may read and critique - this could help you the next time around :D
Show ALL Forums  > Sex and Dating  > talking dirty and "sexting"