| Men 48-55 need some constructive advice on my profile
Posted: 8/3/2009 8:39:54 PM | I'm only 31, so can't be too reliable. Maybe all 50 year old men are chasing 30 year olds. I dunno.
anyway...
I think the profile should have some intentions and information about your personality. A man likes to sum up quickly, does this woman want to be taken out to a club and wooed mercilessly to the nearest bedroom? Or maybe she wants flowers and to be swept off her feet. Does she want to hang out and cuddle a lot or is she more just looking for a friend without much interest in anything romantic/sexual?
A man wants to be able to imagine how it could with you so he can combine with the pictures whether he is interested in persuing what he thinks he could get out of a relationship with you.
You don't have to spell out intentions. Keywords about your personality type can let a man pigeonhole you and it doesn't matter if he gets it wrong. He just needs to think he has a clue to be interested initially.
Methinks a man thinks you want to find an activity partner only (not the sexy type, rather the attending theatre type) and escort to social functions or church or whatever and if he isn't really looking for that, he won't send you a message.
Also, to be honest, I wouldn't use the photo with the blue background, but this may be because I'm only 31. Should probably ask someone older what they think on that one, but I think the other pictures are better. | |
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