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Posted: 8/4/2009 5:37:11 PM | I was really in to this guy, and it's been really hard to move on. I just have this intuition to not let him go, and the last time I saw him he was a sweetheart, but over text messaging, he was rude. Our text conversation went something like this:
"i don't want it stop calling me."
"why are you mad?!"
"i don't know maybe the forty times you called call *** or ***** instead."
"i don't want to. let's just forget that!"
"how about we just start over and pretend we don't know each other."
"that's stupid! i want to be friends."
"i don't want to be friends with you."
"whatever i miss you."
"well how about i talk to you when i want and you leave me alone until then?"
"okay, well are you ever going to talk to me."
"maybe if you leave me alone for awhile."
"okay well..."
"leave me alone for awhile first."
Think he just told me that to get rid of me, or what's the deal here?! I can't quite make it out... | |
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| Should I move on?
Posted: 8/4/2009 5:42:19 PM | self-critiquing. Are you trolling in this thread?
Move out - draw fire | |
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Posted: 8/4/2009 5:43:54 PM | | You are 18. Guys will chase you soon enough. Stay on this site a little while and you'll get a confidence boost. Seriously if you called him that many times maybe you should leave him alone for a bit. | |
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| Should I move on?
Posted: 8/4/2009 5:52:57 PM | You sound crazy. Absolutely crazy.
The guy flat out how to point that you contact him FOURTY times. What normal person does that? First off, you broke the first rule. You don't chase men. Notice the more you chase, the more they run away. Men like a challenge or atleast someone with a life and by stalking him ( yes believe it or not your innocent multiple texts is stalking) ...you creep the crap out of him. I myself, don't like men who contact me every day, let along every second day...I find it comes across as SMOTHERING, annoying, overbearing and it tells me the person doesn't have a life. Secondly, you come across as an obesessed control freak....the guy told you to leave him alone and YET you said you missed him and this was stupid....in other words, you disregarded how HE felt....how you made him felt and tried to convince him to still talk to you. He just told you he will talk to you when he wants and yet you still kept pushing him.
No offense, but you would be a girlfriend from hell ( which I take it you guys aren't even dating). You don't give the guy space and when he tries to tell you he is not interested...you keep pushing and pushing. Now ask yourself if someone else were to do this, would this behaviour be normal? You're pretty, don't ruin it by being a psycho ****. The more you're in someone's face...the more you push them away. I don't know what history you guys have together....but you need to move on. Have some self respect, have your own life and find someone new before you look back and regret how ridiculous you were acting. You're too young and pretty to be holding onto someone who doesn't want you...find someone who does. | |
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Posted: 8/4/2009 5:54:25 PM | That guy is a jerk. Look its obvious he has jealousy issues. If I read you right he was up set that you were talking to other guys right? Well if a guy gets that upset over converstation that doesn't involve cheating on him I think that says something about his character. I would simply not talk to him anymore. And when he tries to get back with you let him know he had his chance. That you're not going to be his girlfriend when its conveinent for him.
The other thing to consider is that you're going to go to college out of state (I read your profile) and long distance relationships rarely work. Besides you're 18, which trust me, you may be legally an adult but there is no need to grow up too fast. Live a little. See other guys, date, mingle. Find out what you truly want in a man and don't waste your time on a-holes who are too selfish to let you have other guys as friends. | |
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Posted: 8/4/2009 5:56:34 PM | This post has to be a joke.
He did not threaten to take your life though; maybe there is a future for you two. | |
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Posted: 8/4/2009 6:05:53 PM | | I didn't actually call him Forty times, that's an exaggeration. | |
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Posted: 8/4/2009 6:06:45 PM | | Hahah I did NOT really call him 40 times. I called him twice and he was angry because I was hanging out with a couple of his friends. | |
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Posted: 8/4/2009 6:07:10 PM | Great balls of FIRE!!!
Holy shit!
Can you not read?
He told you .....wait........I lost count how many times to leave him alone.
You're only reading the part where he says..."maybe if you leave me alone for awhile"
part as the door left ajar.
But I can probably betcha it'll be a longshot if he ever talks to you again.
And he said, "leave me alone for awhile first" to get rid of you".
What is it you can't understand?
You are not hearing what you don't want to hear.
If he has a bunny I hope he brings it inside for a while.
Just sayin'. | |
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Posted: 8/4/2009 6:08:25 PM | | I may be young and naive, I have no problem admitting to that, but I didn't come on here to be accused of being a stupid teenager. I was just looking to see what others though, but thank you for your input that was so helpful. :S | |
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Posted: 8/4/2009 6:11:38 PM | | Except that he and I dated. I'm not a freaking stalker, but once again, thanks to everyone for the advice....please stop with the put downs, there is really honestly no need to make me feel bad about myself. | |
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Posted: 8/4/2009 6:27:03 PM | | I've never in my life been so happy not to be 18. | |
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Posted: 8/4/2009 6:48:01 PM | Everyone here is probably bit more mature in age than you and they don't know you so they don't care about hurting your feelings. Don't let that get you down.
Imagine if you were in the other persons shoes and some guy who you liked for a bit all of a sudden started to call you forty times or close to that. But you kept telling him to leave you alone, till you just got frustradted and said I'll call you when I am ready.
Whatever the reason you guys aren't together, you not helping your cause trying to chase him down. Your young. Go out and meet some more guys. They are out there. Trust me!
Tye | |
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Posted: 8/4/2009 7:26:55 PM | Obviously you are not paying him enough attention.
My advice, step it up, you're a slacker.
Call him at least 50 times a day, text another 50.
Email another 10-20 times a day.
Drive by his house and place of work at least 5 times each.
Then call his friends asking where he is, and who he is talking to, and who he is with.
That will show him | |
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Posted: 8/4/2009 8:37:43 PM | Miska-too funny. Maybe she should park next to his mailbox and spend the night?
To the DA 18 year old stalker-leave him alone. You're the model gf from hell. I'm glad my rabbits are trained to bite. You'll never get them into a pot of boiling water. Leave the guy alone, you loon. | |
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Posted: 8/4/2009 8:48:57 PM | Wow, you sound crazy. Leave him alone! Obsessive much?
Are you really that dense you can't see what he is saying? He told you flat out he doesn't want to be friends with you. He finally said leave me alone for a while just to shut you up.
And be careful Miska...knowing this chick she will do it. | |
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Posted: 8/4/2009 8:51:55 PM | | Yeah, you need to chill, back off a bit. I think I even would've told you the same thing...just to get rid of you. | |
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Posted: 8/4/2009 11:59:10 PM | Crap I need to come up with a disclaimer.
note to self: work on that. | |
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Posted: 8/5/2009 12:24:40 AM | | You wanna test the waters on this situation? Act like you could give a chit less about it.. If it bothers him that you don't care, then he cares. It works both ways.. | |
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