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 MissV21

Joined: 11/19/2008
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My Profile: To intimidating?
Posted: 8/10/2009 6:00:55 PM
I feel that maybe some guys are intimidated by my profile, if you would be so kind as to review my profile and maybe tell me what it is I am doing wrong... I made my profile long enough to get my point across, but seem to still get guys who just want to sleep with me, and I am in no way looking for that type of relationship... :)

Thank you!
 Browngreeneyes

Joined: 12/21/2008
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Posted: 8/10/2009 6:09:27 PM
Want the truth??

Any pics of cleavage sends out the message. You have a good pair and they do stand out, particularly with the stance you use.(chest jutting forward, hand on hip). Whether it's your intention or not, your posture sends out the message to men that you're sexy and want it.(sorry didn't know how else to put it lol)

Do an experiment and only show the paintballing ones.. (ie temporarily remove the cleavage shots) and see how you go. Now I'm gonna read the profile and tell you what I think ..


Ok.... edit.......so I've read your profile and it's full of 'I love' and 'I like to".. which is a bit monotonous.. the profile is LOOOOOOOOOOOONG and I'm sure you can tighten that up a bit.

I think a lot of guys after they see your pics are going to focus on these points in your profile;


I love to have a good time


and


I love to roll around in the mud


Not sure they're going to see the rest of it.
 Talyessin

Joined: 8/2/2009
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Posted: 8/10/2009 6:09:54 PM
Hooah! for the PT shirt... ALTHOUGH -- typically I would expect to see that only on a soldier or a girlfriend of a soldier. And you are presumably single, so it leaves men -- men at arms, at least -- scratching their heads.

I typically don't like the "camera in the mirror" self portraits. I ask myself: Doesn't she have at least one friend who can take her photo? Also, if you could vary the location of your photos that would be great. I think breasts are great, but perhaps one way to keep from getting so many guys who just want sex is to reduce the number of photos with cleavage shots? Maybe bring it down to just one photo that features cleavage?

But all in all -- Hooah again!
 MissV21

Joined: 11/19/2008
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Posted: 8/10/2009 6:13:10 PM
lol thanks for that advice, and I've actually tried that... I just had pictures up that showed as little boobage as possible, but the thing is I still got the same response from the men who just wanted to get some, and then no response from anyone else... with these photos I've at least gotten a little of both...

please let me know what you think about what my profile says! I greatly appreciate your advice!

-Me
 MissV21

Joined: 11/19/2008
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Posted: 8/10/2009 6:17:27 PM
Ok here is what I do not understand, why some men have to be so close minded... This is my problem, as you said Ms. Browngreeneyes they are focusing solely on parts of my sentences not on the entire sentence itself. why do they do that? Why is it that men take into consideration only the dirty side of the conversation, not the entirety of it?
 sunny snow storm

Joined: 12/21/2008
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Posted: 8/10/2009 7:34:03 PM
miss v,
intimidating is not the word that comes to mind when looking at your profile. i believe there are way too many boob shots, maybe you could just limit it to one. they kinda scream "give me a pearl necklace" now!
guys do you agree?
 liveletlive_09

Joined: 1/5/2009
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Posted: 8/10/2009 7:38:45 PM
I think your pictures are fine. At the end of the day all men are visual and it really doesn't seem like you are flaunting, just mild posing. But I do agree that there should be MAX two cleavage shots.

As for your profile, take my advice and shorten it to about 1/5th of its current size. Very few men if any will ever read that entire thing. Even I got bored after the first two paragraphs and couldn't go on even though I was TRYING. Keep it short, sweet, and fun and leave something for later.
 whathello

Joined: 5/28/2009
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My Profile: To intimidating?
Posted: 8/10/2009 9:57:42 PM
Your profile looks good, it's well written and funny, but I'd shorten it down quite a bit. As hard as it may be, maybe only 3 paragraphs instead of a dozen like you have should do it. Also you have 4 cleavage shots that are all pretty much the same picture from slightly different angles, I'd cut out 3 of those, leave the one where your hair is curled, it's the best ;)
My Profile: To intimidating?
Posted: 8/10/2009 10:22:22 PM
TRY THIS......Less TA-TA's & More Intellect.......Your Profile is waaaaaaay too Long!
Lost My Attention as soon as I seen it was a Novel! Leave SOMETHING to the Imagination! Real Men will take the time to know "REAL WOMEN".......
Are Your BOOBS Your best assetts? If so,then what do you expect!? You Must Give A Guy something Else to Focus on!!!!!!!
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