| Stud up Posted: 8/18/2009 11:27:12 AM | | OK I want to know from both sides. What makes someone stand someone up? I mean where you set a time and date and both say yes I'll be there. I don't mean the maybes or I mights they don't count. I just really don't understand it. If you can't make it or you think you can't why make the plans set. I know some do it for fun they make the plans turn off there phone and wait. But what makes it fun? I really do want to know. | |
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| Stud up Posted: 8/19/2009 10:17:58 AM | I don't think it's fun. I think it's rude and disrespectful. If you set a date you should be there or call within 15 minutes of the set time to explain why you're late. If you need to cancel it should be done as soon as you realize you can't make it and hopefully that's before the person gets dressed to leave the house!
If this has happened to you, I'm sorry. The person was immature and obviously never learned manners! If it helps, you can think.......what goes around, comes around!
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| Stud up Posted: 8/19/2009 9:26:24 PM | Thank you passion. Yes it happend to me and I'm ok with it now . It just bafals me because I don't understand WHY someone would do that. I agree it is rude. It just makes no sens.  | |
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| Stud up Posted: 9/7/2009 2:50:45 PM | I always make sure I am there and ON TIME. I find it aggrivating to have to wait for an hour for someone to finish getting ready.
There are always special circumstances but if I get a no call no show when we planned a date. That is the last date I will plan. | |
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| Stud up Posted: 10/5/2009 11:01:47 AM | I agree! If you make a date then show up! If you cannot make it then call to say so! Otherwise it's just rude & disrespectful!  | |
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