| are you still sexually experimenting?
Posted: 8/24/2009 9:45:18 PM | Are you over 45 and still sexually experimenting? or have you got the moves down pat.? Do you know it all , have had it all and been there done that? Is there still a desire to know more about yourself, and more about your lover? lovers?
Are you 100% fixed about what you will never do and what you will always want.? | |
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| are you still sexually experimenting?
Posted: 8/24/2009 10:01:16 PM | | Heck no. There is always room for trying something different. I have had a fabulous time with my current bf and continue to enjoy him more the more I know him. Knowing what someone does like gives you more to go on and ideas to try different things. Staying flexible is important to me. I hope that continues. | |
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| are you still sexually experimenting?
Posted: 8/24/2009 10:28:42 PM | Uh, no; but not for lack of desire. Seems to me that in a healthy relationship experimentation of a sexual nature ought to be de rigueur. Because if there is one constant in life it's that there are no constants. As we age what was easy in our youth not becomes difficult , and in some cases, nigh on impossible. As an extreme example for the couple in which the man has ED issues and unable to manage intercourse the couple will need to find alternatives that are mutually stimulating and satisfactory - experimentation, voila!
For other couples, experimentation may be an infrequent affair but critical to maintaining a certain spark in a life long love relationship. Perhaps a new position or just a new way of touching.
But keep in mind, one couple's definition of experimentation is another's definition of the the same ol' same ol'.
TK
{Been thinkin' that ever I get in the saddle agin, I'm kind'a hopin' it's been gently broken in -- Oh good grief, I hope that gets read in the correct light} | |
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| are you still sexually experimenting?
Posted: 8/24/2009 10:52:58 PM |
Are you still sexually experimenting?
...ummm, No.
One would have to have a partner to experiment with, know what I mean? (in most cases anyway haha) But yeah....someday, I hope to.
...maeflowers  | |
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| are you still sexually experimenting?
Posted: 8/24/2009 10:54:57 PM |
Is there still a desire to know more about yourself...
Nah... This business of flying solo has played itself out...
That's why I'm willing to risk involving myself in another relationship... Just to get a second opinion...
Are you still sexually experimenting?
Um... With what, exactly?... Inanimate objects, like life-sized pneumatic neoprene girlie dolls?... Exotic fruits & vegetables?... Or maybe some of our barnyard friends?...
Again; no... Haven't become that desperate... Yet... | |
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Posted: 8/24/2009 11:00:13 PM | | hi... speaking on sex in a marriage I think that lovemaking is the ultimate form of communication... it is an exchange of both sending and receiving in honesty, trust and unselfishness... sometimes the communication is quick and to the point other times it is long and full of details, each time it is new and unpredictable :) .... communicating likes and dislikes would never take anything away from it being exciting and full of enjoyment, it would enhance it... many blessings for love | |
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Posted: 8/24/2009 11:08:19 PM | | I will be if I get awarded the grant I applied for to fund the double blind study I designed for investigating visually impaired sets of twins. Wish me luck. Yum X 2 = Happy. (<< science talk) | |
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| are you still sexually experimenting?
Posted: 8/24/2009 11:09:35 PM | Yes, No, Maybe...?
I think we are still experimenting with "certain" partners. At least I hope so. Otherwise,
I am a total idiot and about to get dumped.... | |
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Posted: 8/24/2009 11:30:30 PM | Does finally learning to use the left hand count?
Every time I'm certain I know it all - someone comes up with some inconvenient new piece of knowledge I have to learn or they'll take away my "know it all" card 
Sexual pleasure is almost certainly the same - I'm gonna learn new things about it right up til the day I die! It's like any other form of learning.
The day we stop learning is the day they need to stick us in our coffin because even though our heart may still be beating - we've simply failed to notice that we died!
Cheers | |
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| are you still sexually experimenting?
Posted: 8/24/2009 11:38:53 PM | Like many of the topics on these forums ...
I have no idea how people can answer them, if they are not even in a relationship.
After being married (most of my life) all the casual sex, these days just ........ turned me off ........ yuck.
I had two long term wives (16/17 years) both were totally meat and potatoes.
I had a live in girlfriend between those two marriages. She was up for ANYTHING ......... and boy was she fun.
Sex with strangers (which is EVERYWHERE these days) causes the sleeze factor to overrun the fun factor ... at least for me.
So unless some fluke happens (she falls out of a tree in my yard) ...... I can always fondly, remember that girlfriend. | |
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| are you still sexually experimenting?
Posted: 8/25/2009 4:51:32 AM |
Are you over 45 and still sexually experimenting? or have you got the moves down pat.? Do you know it all , have had it all and been there done that? Is there still a desire to know more about yourself, and more about your lover? lovers?
Are you 100% fixed about what you will never do and what you will always want.?
yes, yes, sorta, not exactly, yes, yes, yes, no, and no.
^^^What she said. ;) | |
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Posted: 8/25/2009 5:38:46 AM |
Sex with strangers (which is EVERYWHERE these days) causes the sleeze factor to overrun the fun factor ... at least for me. Completely agree.
So no, I'm not out there experimenting.
ron, I had such a person/relationship as you wrote of in my life also, ("up for ANYTHING"), a good 10 years ago, and like you I can fondly enjoy the fun memories.
Now, I am all for re-enactments.. and new experiments!
But no thanks.... I'm not going there without being in the midst of a "loving relationship".
Otherwise, like you, I think the sleeze factor is really yuck. | |
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Posted: 8/25/2009 6:01:09 AM | Nothing worse than someone who thinks they know it all, usually they fall short.
Experimenting, yes, with the right person, in a committed relationship. Kind of like an exploration team of two...seeking new experiences and sensations.
I find it sad when people over 45 or 50 believe they've had all of the experiences they need or deserve. | |
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Posted: 8/25/2009 6:05:49 AM |
In a relationship I thought sex only occurs on a solstice or every fourth birthday? It's sad to see that written (or variation of it) by so many people who speak of past relationships.
I'm sooooooooo glad I don't have that to remember from my past. | |
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Posted: 8/25/2009 7:22:06 AM | the notion that exploration or choosing to evolve as your arterial changes is laffable....no wonder so many people are grouchy........drawer anyone....chuckles
no brainer when your body is on the downgrade you either get with the program or defy evolve....your choice 
your life your choice to pretend your body is as reactive as when you where 16.........hahaha too funny.
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Posted: 8/25/2009 7:49:33 AM | Yes I am over 45 and still in the heat of experimenting. Of course I do not know it all. I may place the order and hope for the desired results but once the order is placed it is up to the heavens as to just what will result.
I do try hard to get my lover men to know me well because we need to get this down pat together..
No I am not fixed at all. I am still very much experimenting and just added a new girl to my cat house.
thecatsmeoww | |
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| are you still sexually experimenting?
Posted: 8/25/2009 9:40:58 AM | Of course I am always open to experimentation, I mean what else can I possible do with an erection that now lasts 4 hours, instead of 4 minutes.  | |
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