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Posted: 8/26/2009 8:48:53 PM | | Hi i am dating this girl for 2 months and we get along good but she wants to move in already and start a family and i am thinking that is a little to fast what do you think? I do like her a lot but we have not even been intimate with each other so does she like me or does she just someone to pay the rent? | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 8:49:32 PM | | a little too fast indeed | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 8:51:57 PM | | She wants you to take care of her. My advice? Buy the thickest condoms you can find because I smell a parent trap happening. | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 8:54:24 PM | | Good grief! Sound doesn't even travel that fast! Talk about putting the cart before the horse. Get your good braking shoes out and slow that cart down before it takes out a small village! | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 8:55:21 PM | | I think she wants a husband and fast!!!!!! and babies to make sure husband sticks. | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 8:56:30 PM | Better yet if you don't get the condoms, sounds like you're going to HAVE a small village.
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Posted: 8/26/2009 8:59:04 PM | Hi i am dating this girl for 2 months and we get along good but she wants to move in already and start a family and i am thinking that is a little to fast what do you think?
If you feel that it's going too fast, then it is. One's gut instincts are rarely wrong. You've been seeing her for 2 months, but you joined this site within the past 2 weeks looking for long term. You have your answer, she's not long term, but you want/like the sex. As message 2 implied, wrap it up or watch out!  | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 8:59:52 PM | If you wonder, then you know....
its like wondering
"is she cheating"? probably, if you wonder...
is she moving too fast? probably, if you wonder...
not quite cogito ergo sum...but damn close. If you think, then that is reality. | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 9:06:25 PM | I reckon if someone posted a thread with just a full stop "." they'd get a bunch of thoughtful relationship advice...too bad it'd have nothing of relation to the individuals involved.
I dunno mate, you tell me, is it too fast? All I know about the situation is you're black, 37 and a little overweight.
Nobody knows enough about her to make these assertions for example, you've given almost no information to work with:
She wants you to take care of her.
I think she wants a husband and fast!!!!!! and babies to make sure husband sticks.
she's not long term
She's looking for a meal ticket and a sperm donor.
All of these things are possible but there is no reason to think them with the information provided, it's just leaping to conclusions. If you can imagine other possibilities and they turn out to be the case, then taking these to heart might be a serious error of judgement.
Perhaps tell us more for more sound advice.
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Posted: 8/26/2009 9:07:08 PM | Oh, my.
Listen to me. Go with your gut on this. Your instincts are obviously telling you there's something really wrong with this situation. She's looking for a meal ticket and a sperm donor. Don't let yourself be caught up in this nonsense. It will not turn out well. | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 9:07:41 PM | | i a mnot black and not overweight nice try | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 9:09:43 PM | I have meet couples that dated a very short and have been married for years.
I sure you two may like each other ,the question is can you live together.
As for the question of motives, I will not quess nor give an opinion with such a small amount of information. She maybe needing a place to live or she could be a millionare for all I can tell.  | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 9:09:58 PM |
All I know about the situation is you're black,
Um, his profile says he's caucasion - since when does that mean black? | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 9:18:39 PM | Don't care who, what, where, or why. It's too fast.
If you are going to be together forty years from now, then that'll be the case whether you move in together now or in a year.
It's too fast. Are you kidding me? IT'S TOO FAST!! | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 9:24:44 PM | Run forest run, don't look back. I would call that unrealistic expectations move in after 2 months. Wow you must kiss like a pro. peace out bro.  | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 10:00:04 PM | If she's the one she'll wait.
(Never typed that to a guy before/LOL)
Seriously, if yall get along she can move in maybe 6 months.
or a year.
Have kids when you're ready down the road after that.
If she won't wait, she wasn't into you.
And you'll know the answer to your question.
(geez, never typed that to a guy either) | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 10:25:12 PM | Had this six month relationship with a woman about a year and a half ago.
I had asked her to marry me, I thought at the time I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. What she wanted, a little more than anything, was to have a baby. She didnt have any at the time.
Suddenly, very suddenly, we broke up, and she moved, went back to her ex. Within a month of being with him, she was pregnant with her first child. So it eventually was clear to me, her motives to be with me, or subsequently her ex ( which, since she had the baby, she left him also ) was to have a child. I moved in with her and proceeded to have bad decision after bad decision.
Trust me, it may look good now, but this can go bad real quick.
You don't believe me? Watch the Minnesota Vikings implode. Freaking Brett Favre. | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 10:28:36 PM | WHoooooooooooooooooooooooooaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!
Hell yeah it's too friggin fast.
She sounds like a semi coming down a steep grade mountain with brake failure. | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 10:34:00 PM | | dude, put on your track shoes! | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 10:44:54 PM | | Run...The first instinct is usually the right one. | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 10:46:01 PM | terrorer,
some folks know the minute they meet . . . others it takes longer . . .but, if you have to ask, and if you've doubts . . . it's just not right.
Not that complicated.
J | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 11:29:10 PM | Have her take a pregnancy now, before you do anything, make sure she pays half the rent and bills, have it all written up and have her sign it. Requesting her half upfront before she moves in and draw up a budget for food, gas, etc., have her sign that....then see if she still wants to move in. The pregnancy test is to prove you aren't the father if she could come up pregnant the day after she moves in.
And no, nobody knows that soon if they are in love and want to get married/move in together. Run far away from anyone who tells you that. | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 11:30:54 PM | Run, run away, fast as you can!  | |
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Posted: 8/26/2009 11:34:35 PM | oh go for it...move in..have a few babies...move out....pay child support for the next umpteen years.
Sounds like a plan stan | |
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Posted: 8/27/2009 4:00:27 AM | | If you intend to keep this animal, take her to the vet and get her spayed ASAP. | |
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