| How do women WANT to be kicked to the curb?
Posted: 8/26/2009 9:24:48 PM | I have read dozens of threads out there where women complain about the way they get dumped. Even guys jump in and say crap like the guy has no class for breaking up in a text. I always think, "Who cares how they break it off? It's done and it doesn't really matter how".
Here are some examples...
He just vanished,
He said he didn't want to ruin our friendship,
He is in love with my brother,
He is in love with my sister,
He is in love with my best friend,
He is in love with my mother,
He wants to try to work things out with his ex,
He said the sex isn't good,
He said he fell out of love,
He said I b1tch too much,
The possibilities are truely endless.
So ladies, I would love to be enlightened, if you will. How would you want a man to break up with you? Or does it really matter? Do you all post threads just get people to agree that he is in deed a jerk?
The curiosity is killing me........................... | |
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| How do women WANT to be kicked to the curb?
Posted: 8/26/2009 9:28:25 PM | | I'm sorry but this is a retarded thread. There's no such good or prefered way anyone would like to be dumped. A break up is always hard and sad, regardless of reason(s) for it. | |
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| How do women WANT to be kicked to the curb?
Posted: 8/26/2009 9:30:41 PM | I would like him to set himself on fire so I can put him out with a sledge hammer. Since I can't seem to get what I want .....
If it's someone from online and we just did a meet and greet, I really don't care. It's not like the time for a cup off coffee is worth any more than "Nice to meet you."
After a few dates, falling off the face of the planet is fine with me as well. An email or phone call saying " You aren't for me." would work as well.
Any committed relationship deserves a conversation. Because honestly, I have never been blindsided by the ending of a relationship.
And there are very few threads started looking for advice, most are looking for validation.
And a chorus of "kick the gold digger/bum to the curb" sounds way better than "why are you such a jackass that no one ever calls you for a second date or how clueless do you need to be that your partner of 10 years was moving out and you didn't notice" | |
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| How do women WANT to be kicked to the curb?
Posted: 8/26/2009 9:31:31 PM | This should be considered rhetorical as we simply do not WANT to be dumped.
But if the question is sincere, it needs to be in person. He needs to see the tears. Texting and phone are not personal enough. Just disappearing is the worst. It makes us worry and we have to choose between wondering and calling hospitals (which means looking like a stalker).
The worst break ups are the surprise ones. There is no good way for that. Usually we can see it coming but will not admit it, or we hurry and dump him first. :) | |
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| How do women WANT to be kicked to the curb?
Posted: 8/26/2009 10:07:21 PM | | I think it should be done in person or over the phone. Not by falling off the face of the earth. Not by text. Not by IM. Not by email. And don't give a bogus excuse. Have some cojones and be honest. | |
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| How do women WANT to be kicked to the curb?
Posted: 8/26/2009 10:23:14 PM | how about with skywriting, or on the big screen at the ball game?
Or there's always the adult thing called talking, and honesty, if your not into that person, tell her, your just looking for something different, had a great time getting to know her, but your ready to move on, and all the other cliches, that come in handy at that time. | |
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| How do women WANT to be kicked to the curb?
Posted: 8/26/2009 10:53:27 PM | | I'd rather be told its not working for you. I don't really care as to why. However if you have gone on more then 3 dates and or had sex it must be done in person. Other than that you owe them nothing. Also if she wants to know why, just tell her the truth, even if it hurts. | |
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| How do women WANT to be kicked to the curb?
Posted: 8/26/2009 11:41:43 PM |
How would you want a man to break up with you?
he cuts me a cheque for half his house
he hands over the keys to his brand new porsche
he pays monthly doggy support payments
he signs over half his pension benefits
he lists me as soul beneficiary on his life insurance policy
he continues to make payments for the "pool boy" ( though there is no pool )
The possibilities are truely endless.
Yes indeed....
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| How do women WANT to be kicked to the curb?
Posted: 8/27/2009 12:00:52 AM | I agree. There's no GOOD way to be broken up with, but honesty is the key.
Most normal, emotionally healthy women would prefer if you sat down with them and just said, "Look, this isn't working," either because you're not that into them, or you've found somebody else, or you're just not looking for a relationship right now, or whatever. The reason doesn't matter nearly as much as the presentation. If you break it off with a woman in a respectful, adult way, she will take it infinitely better than if you act like a wuss and just fall off the face of the earth. She might even set you up with one of her hot friends in the future.
NEVER just disappear, unless you want to be forever consigned to MAJOR JERK territory.
Breaking up via phone is OK if you have a long-distance thing going on, or if you have a casual relationship, but not if you're exclusive and/or very serious.
NEVER break up via text, email, IM or any electronic media if you can possibly avoid it. | |
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| How do women WANT to be kicked to the curb?
Posted: 8/27/2009 7:18:41 AM | Just use common sense. If you have been intimate with someone, then they deserve a real life conversation, I mean you had real life conversations leading to the bedroom, so have one to lead her back out. That shows class and decency.
If all you did was meet a few times and nothing happened, it really doesnt warrant more than a text or phone call. If all you did was online chatting and texting, again, texting or a phone call is fine. | |
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| How do women WANT to be kicked to the curb?
Posted: 8/27/2009 8:28:25 AM | My best friend, who is a guy, got dumped, with an email stating, "we are just not compatible". They had just got home from a cruise and had been dating 6 months.
That is a cop out. Break it off in person, or speak on the phone. | |
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| How do women WANT to be kicked to the curb?
Posted: 8/27/2009 9:09:15 AM | 'Kicked to the curb', what an enlighten way to phase it.
With that in mind, if indeed someone is getting 'kicked to the curb', perhaps the poster that suggested that gasoline and a match be applied too said kicker would be the most appropriate. Anyone with that mentality should be removed from the dating pool. What is wrong with a bit of consideration and honesty, geeesh, they aren't yesterdays newspaper?
Do you have a special helmet you wear when out in public OP, you at 31 should know the answer to that question. | |
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| How do women WANT to be kicked to the curb?
Posted: 8/27/2009 10:19:01 AM | I always hear people complain about the way they were dumped. I honest do not believe there is a good way to get dumped. Just wanted to give the women who complain a chance to let all men everywhere know how to break it off. I didn't really expect a real response. I was fishing for the women who have a sense of humor. I think I found 2 maybe three.
The replies I was looking for were from
Abbicci-------
Bat Girl-------
Eowyn1492--
Free at Last---
Abitmore... Why so angry?
Me? No. I have been dumped 4 times in my life. I have never dumped anyone. So before you get all excited, calm down and think about what I was really asking. Where do you get that I am 31? I am 37. I think everyone here except you, know I was speaking figuratively when I said kicked to the curb.
Undesiredheart... I have seen that happen. Then there was makeup sex, so don't think I could consider that a breakup. Friend of mines brother's wife was screaming at him and told him to get out. He said ok and started getting out. She really didn't want him to get out so started driving off and he fell and she ran his drunk A$$ over. It was sad.
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| How do women WANT to be kicked to the curb?
Posted: 8/27/2009 11:04:15 AM | | What's the big deal. Personally I think it's best to do it on the phone not in person. There are just too many wacked out women will go bonkers in public. Personally I rather get dumped than doing the dumping, it is heck a lot easier. It doesn't matter how I get dumped. I don't get it why women think it has to be faced to face. Do you really want to be in public while getting dumped? Makes no sense to me! | |
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| How do women WANT to be kicked to the curb?
Posted: 8/27/2009 11:05:16 AM | How about just be honest
This dosent work very well.
I once was dating this woman who seemed normal...until we moved in with each other.
Then I was previewed to her "CRAZY".
After a week of finding out what kind of person she really was I was ready to run for the hills.
I told her that this just wasnt going to work out.
Well to make a long story short, I had to remove all the knives and the cleaning chemicals from the house before I split. Then she calls me to come and get some stuff I left behind.
When I get there I find all my stuff burned in a 55 gal. drum and the cops where there saying that I pushed her down the stairs.
It took 3 years, and countless court hearings before I could get a judge to believe me.
That only happened when I was able to get her to flip out in court.
My advice would be to tell her you are done, leave, and dont forget any of your stuff...And make sure you can prove you didnt push her down some stairs. | |
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