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Posted: 8/29/2009 4:55:23 AM | So ladies whats the the deal how do i get you intrested ? my profile is decent length i have plenty pics and i dont send mail like hey your hot ! i actually read your profile and try to find something in common to talk about so why no replies ?
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Posted: 8/29/2009 5:04:04 AM | another woe is me huh?
it seems to be a pretty common complaint here.
best advice i can give you is if whatever you're doing isnt working then try something else.common interests can be good but it's more in the delivery.change that up.use a variety.different things will work for different women.good luck. | |
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Posted: 8/29/2009 5:14:22 AM | ^^^^^^^^
Thanks wileygy...OP he's right. There is NO DAMN SECRET.
The site's called PLENTY of fish, not just a few and take your pick fish. | |
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Posted: 8/29/2009 5:26:21 AM | GGGGRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
profile review!!! Thread search!!!!! | |
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Posted: 8/29/2009 5:44:51 AM | Hey! No! I think this is a decent question! The man wants answers about messaging chicks! Who better to ask than a chick!? Dude I'm a dude but I will tell you what I do that seems to work maybe 5 to 10% of the time. Research research research. Go to websites about online dating and see what they suggest. Also you can try humor. If your feeling desperate good around! Send an off the wall goofy mail. One out of every ten will respond to this.  | |
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Posted: 8/29/2009 6:06:27 AM | Shave and pluck your eyebrows! Neat and clean guys get more attention!
Well that's my opinion any way - I like a man that takes good care of himself! | |
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Posted: 8/29/2009 7:26:11 AM | You get a woman interested lying through your teeth. Then you make a date after you chat her up a while. You show up or not, either way you will stop talking to her after that and then make a date with the next unsuspecting woman on the site.
I have a creepy suspicion, OP, you will be back with another thread asking what to do when the woman emails you 50 times a day and you won't talk to her: should you answer or block her? | |
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Posted: 8/29/2009 7:48:49 AM | For the love of gawd please go put about a dozen periods into your profile. Huge run on sentences make it difficult to even read.
There is no secret to writing messages to women here. Each is an individual so no magic message works for all. Do not write a novel. Mention a few things about her profile that caught your eye and ask her a question or two so she has something to reply to.
Honestly if she likes your pic/profile she will write you unless your message to her is really lame and you say they are not.
Your profile needs some work to make it more visually appealing. Head to profile review for help in that regard.
Good Luck
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Posted: 8/29/2009 7:50:11 AM | | The secret? Not sure. Im only here for the forums and dances now. Personally, I think the majority of girls ( at least in my area ) are playing some wierd game. sent over 50 emails, 2 replies. And 1 was a no thanks. | |
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Posted: 8/29/2009 7:55:47 AM | The secret?
You joined 8/22.
Patience, Grasshopper.  | |
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Posted: 8/29/2009 8:23:16 AM | Bugger 30 years too young for me
Dont worry about it, when the time is right you will meet someone, no hurry is there, lots of friends to be made, lots of forums to post before cupid bites your a*se and you leave us 
dont be in such a hurry hunni love will find you honest it will | |
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Posted: 8/29/2009 8:32:49 AM | ^^^^ LOL I agree with Not a Nurse about the 30 years ^^^^^
Other than that, I've got absolutely nothing else to contribute. | |
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Posted: 8/29/2009 8:36:19 AM |
Shave and pluck your eyebrows!
[B] [BIG] LMFAO | |
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Posted: 8/29/2009 8:42:56 AM | | Here's a secret for people of your age group....grow up! lol You are young and as previous posters have stated there is no secret. This site does work...just not in the way everyone, individually wants it too. | |
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Posted: 8/29/2009 8:47:16 AM | The secret is:
Be attractive to her, know if she'd be into you by looking at the information she posted. Have a profile and message she likes to read. Let her know what makes her stand out from other women.
That's the formula. Unfortunately the fine details change with each woman...so pay attention.
Personally, have patience, be optimistic, know when to move on and don't take everything personally. Good luck. | |
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Posted: 8/29/2009 11:41:23 AM | Good heavens, I do like Irish men. So hot. Waaaaaaaaay too young. Sorry sunshine. Next lifetime maybe.
Be patient, you haven't been on here long enough to worry. | |
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Posted: 8/29/2009 12:00:23 PM | Move to the USA, as your accent will give you an edge.....to say nothing of the tall, dark handsome looks
I think a lot depends on demographics, and I'm not sure how well populated your town/city is. Seems like if you live in a more densely populated area, your chances are better.
As others have said, have patience - its only been a week!
Good luck!
HR  | |
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Posted: 8/29/2009 8:50:25 PM | | My suggestions would be a more personalized headline, "looking for a nice women" is so generic, it sort of makes it look like you didn't put any effort into your profile. Another tip would be to use spellcheck. I'm a bit of a grammer nerd and can't takes someone seriously if they have multiple errors with the spellcheck so readily available. But keep in mind, there is someone out there for everyone and it's just a matter of finding one another. You can't make someone interested, it's got to be natural. | |
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Posted: 9/5/2009 8:11:10 PM | | When the profile sounds like he is to busy to date ... let alone have a relationship, then no matter how good looking he is I just move on to the next profile. Also, if in the first sentence are his stipulations on what the woman has to deal with if they get to date him then that's another deal breaker right there. | |
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Posted: 9/5/2009 9:43:31 PM | Another has not so bad suggestion... shave, like groom alittle better. Yet another person has a point, throw in rest of the periods your missing.. Men don't like poor spelling or grammer and well women are the same when comes to that... Maybe try going to Profile review and see if that makes a difference and better your luck..
I know i have changed my profile alittle.. I'm still not getting many bites but more then i did before. | |
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Posted: 9/5/2009 10:25:18 PM | | If you arent sure about a picture run it by a female friend. Full tux shots are always a bonus i think, its that james bond deal. Sometimes it just takes time. NEVER put pics of you and other females in there. You can always try a dog/puppy photo! Kids could scare people off... | |
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