| | Do women think about sex as much as men?Page 1 of 8 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8) | | When women get together, I know, they almost always talk about relationships. Is it also true that women talk and think about sex more often than men? Is creativity that important to women in their sexual relationships? | |
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NuDig
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| Do women think about sex as much as men?
Posted: 8/29/2009 3:05:14 PM | | I dont have many female friends... (2 to be exact) and a few more male friends. My answer is YES we do talk about sex, just as much as men do! Maybe at my age I'm just more comfortable with the subjct, have a higher sex drive or been hangin out with men to long. Oh ya ..... It's all of those. | |
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| Do women think about sex as much as men?
Posted: 8/29/2009 3:12:22 PM | Isn't there a daily limit on the number of threads one person can start within 24 hours? How did you manage to get around that rule I wonder?
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| Do women think about sex as much as men?
Posted: 8/29/2009 3:19:02 PM | | Emotionally and physcially healthy women think and talk about sex often. And given opportunity with the right partner, have as much interest as men. If your woman is not as interested in having as much sex with you as you would like to have with her, I suspect it is more about the nature of the sex, and whether or not, each is giving and getting as much out as they need. Some people can be very selfish lovers, it doesnt take long for that to become tiresome and hence, easy to take a pass on. | |
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| Do women think about sex as much as men?
Posted: 8/29/2009 3:21:05 PM | The only person am talking sex with is the woman am actually having sex with.
so I can't help you there buddy, has I also not listen to what others do: I listen, experiment and discover, again and again and again and again...with that woman. | |
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| Do women think about sex as much as men?
Posted: 8/29/2009 3:49:26 PM | Men think about sex a lot. Men also talk about sex a lot in the impersonal world of the internet with women, or on a forum such as this. BUT...make no mistake, men DO NOT talk that much about sex with other men. This is a fallacy from all my experience. For all the "supposed" bravado of men, they are actually quite tight-lipped when it comes to talking about sex, their sexuality. My guess is that women talk much, much more about sex with other women about sex and sexuality than men do with each other. I bet it's not even close.
Sure, men will (and I'm most assuredly speaking in generalities here, okay?) talk in sexual terms about women to other men, most especially younger men. But it's rarely in any kind of an "intimately revealing" manner. It's more in that "peacock way" which, if anything, is the exact opposite of being intimately revealing, more like a closing off.
Again, I'm speaking in sweeping generalities about this, and there certainly are numerous exceptions to the rule on both sides of the gender fence. But in all my life, I could probably count on my fingers and toes the number of times I've had conversations with other men about sex and sexuality in anything resembling of a deeply revealing and personal nature.
I know this is slightly off-topic from the thread, but I was just thinking about this not long ago, and talking about it with some women friends of mine. It only reinforced my opinion on this subject. | |
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| Do women think about sex as much as men?
Posted: 8/29/2009 4:15:10 PM | No, most women do not think of sex as often as men. We may discuss our relationships, but seldom do we discuss the intimate details of our sex lives with girl friends. Yes, creativity is important to women and men in sexual relationships. Boredom in the bedroom can be fatal for a relationship.
Edit: My response is only in relationship to the women friends I know and how we communicate and discuss things. It is in no way a indication of most of the women in the world. I don't know them and have no idea how much they think of sex.
My man thinks of sex almost constantly. I think of it when I'm communicating with him. Normally, throughout the day, I don't think about sex at all. When we are together fulltime, that is probably going to change a lot! | |
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| Do women think about sex as much as men?
Posted: 8/29/2009 5:38:53 PM |
No, most women do not think of sex as often as men. We may discuss our relationships, but seldom do we discuss the intimate details of our sex lives with girl friends. Yes, creativity is important to women and men in sexual relationships. Boredom in the bedroom can be fatal for a relationship.
Edit: My response is only in relationship to the women friends I know and how we communicate and discuss things. It is in no way a indication of most of the women in the world. I don't know them and have no idea how much they think of sex.
Glad you added in that edit, FF... lol... 'cause my girlfriends and I talk about sex and toys whenever we get together. 
My sex drive is very high and sex is on my mind a lot... whether I'm with my man or dreaming about him. Like others have said, some women DO think about sex... sometimes MORE than the average man... 'cause we're all different... and that is what makes this world a wonderful place.
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| Do women think about sex as much as men?
Posted: 8/29/2009 6:03:45 PM |
When women get together, I know, they almost always talk about relationships. Is it also true that women talk and think about sex more often than men? Is creativity that important to women in their sexual relationships?
Yes...and Yes...
If the answer is yes, why are so many women shy about it?
1) they may have been brought up to feel it's not lady-like to talk about such things
2) they may think if they mention it you'll think lesser of them
3) could be that they are just shy...there are shy men that find this hard as well
4) they may feel it's disrespectful to talk about such things due to personal/religious beliefs
5) you may not want to hear what they have to actually say about it.... they may not want to hurt your feelings..
6) Lastly....we may be thinking about it, doesn't necessarily mean we want it at that given time ...and if we mention it , you may think it's an open invitation
Personally, I talk and joke about it all the time...but there is a line you just don't cross when talking about your personal relations in the bedroom with your partner....IMO!! | |
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Posted: 8/29/2009 6:20:41 PM | I don't just think about sex......I think about Great sex! I hate to be bored, so yes being creative and romantic is important. I won't discuss details......thats between my man and me. But I will elude to the fact that he is a wonderful, romantic, etc, etc lover. Well, thats in the past tense......I don't have anyone at the moment. | |
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| Do women think about sex as much as men?
Posted: 8/29/2009 6:39:22 PM | | For those of us not having sex on a regular basis, I would say that we think about it a lot. We keep trying to remember what it was like. LOL. Seriously, I think it is a matter of libido. Those with low sex drive probably do not think as much about it as those of us with higher sex drive. | |
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granz
| | Joined: 6/22/2009
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| Do women think about sex as much as men?
Posted: 8/29/2009 7:02:00 PM | Well I personally think every woman is made up differently. But myself, as well as alot of my friends, do think about sex alot. I think we just don't talk about it as openly to EVERYONE like some guys do.
Like one of the previous posters said, I believe I think about it more now that I don't have it and haven't had it for so long. But even when I was having it everyday, I still thought about it alot!!
Just my .02
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| Do women think about sex as much as men?
Posted: 8/29/2009 7:02:23 PM | Well, I'm only gonna speak for myself, but I would say that I'm just as bad about thinking and talking about that as any man!
As for creativity, it's nice, but it's not the top priority.
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| Do women think about sex as much as men?
Posted: 8/29/2009 7:13:22 PM |
Yes.
True
They just don't reveal it as much.
Not always true.
If the answer is yes, why are so many women shy about it?
Um. We may want sex, think about sex, dream about sex, live and breathe sex... but if we mention this on the boards here, for example.. our inboxes will overflow.
We may want it a lot, but not just from some random dude on a forum. | |
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| Do women think about sex as much as men?
Posted: 8/29/2009 7:52:11 PM | We have 10 times LESS testosterone coursing through our veins. Logic would say that NO, we do not think about sex as much as men would.
So I'm going to say that until your levels drop (into your 40's) gentlemen...the likelihood is that we may talk a hell of a lot about it with our girlfriends but you guys are busy trying to actually DO IT way more than we are. | |
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| Do women think about sex as much as men?
Posted: 8/29/2009 9:26:46 PM | Do women think about sex more than men do?
Do women think about sex more than they think about men?
Do men think about grammar while wondering whether women?
I put my lunch box on the table and it broke. Was the lunch box especially heavy or was it fragile?
The women, they think about sex twice as much as men do, because while the man only thinks about sex when it crosses his own mind, the woman must also think about sex when it crosses his mind, too. She has to. If she doesn't stay one step ahead she'll end up having sex, during which she will be thinking about anything other than sex, like, how to store all the many shoes she owns that won't all fit in her closet. Can they be safely stored in the garage? | |
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Ependa
| | Joined: 7/16/2009
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| Do women think about sex as much as men?
Posted: 8/29/2009 9:36:55 PM | We think about sex even more than men when we aren't getting any..but probably not as much as men when we are...
we do talk about relationships & sex; as well as kids, life, politics, sports (some of us) ,etc...
Some women also talk about shopping, fashion,gossip,each other, etc (just let me drive a pen through my eye on these...my eyes kind of glaze over...)
I don't know if I'd put creativity high up on the list , honestly...such things kind of just naturally occur when you can't keep your hands off each other =) And it's not like we're exchanging recipes or anything (well sometimes we do =) | |
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| Do women think about sex as much as men?
Posted: 8/29/2009 10:09:25 PM | Yes, in my experience with the women I know, we discuss sex quite more frequently with our friends then men do. We examine every detail, gush over a new trick our lover did, complain if it sucks, talk about techniques, problems, issues that we are worried about, my close friends are a wealth of information for me and a great support system.
With men, they may think about it more, but they don't dive into the intricate details with one another as easily, teach each other, or give out really intimate information to friends like women do. It's a shame, too, because they could learn a lot from one another.
Beth | |
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