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theseal85

Joined: 8/24/2009
Msg: 1

someone help!! Blocked and still receiving messages Posted: 8/31/2009 12:49:44 AM
I've been talking to this girl and things were going great, and all of a sudden she wasn't replying to my messages. so, I sent her a message asking if there was something I did, and shortly after I was blocked. But then I got a message from her saying her ex boyfriend has been hacking into her accounts like this one and facebook, and deleting stuff. I can't reply to the message because I'm still blocked, and she doesn't know it. can an admin help me out here?

theseal85

Joined: 8/24/2009
Msg: 2

someone help!! Posted: 8/31/2009 6:36:21 AM
after I was blocked she sent me a message. if she blocked me why would she then send me a message telling me about her situation, and asking if we could still talk? that doesn't make much sense. I have no way to reply to the message. I don't want an admin to hack into her inbox, I just want her to be notified.

trappedonbayst

Joined: 1/3/2005
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someone help!!
Posted: 8/31/2009 7:01:06 AM

after I was blocked she sent me a message. if she blocked me why would she then send me a message telling me about her situation, and asking if we could still talk? that doesn't make much sense.

It does if she's forgotten or doesn't realize that she's blocked you.

This IMO is a functional flaw that should be rectified - once you block someone, the system should not allow you to continue to send messages to them.

As for a solution, there really aren't any, and as mentioned above, Admin doesn't get involved with personal matters of that nature other than perhaps if America's Most Wanted or the law come a knockin' .

You could try an obvious message in your profile or profile header in case she may read your profile again.

theseal85

Joined: 8/24/2009
Msg: 4

someone help!! Posted: 8/31/2009 1:38:04 PM
well, whats the point of having administrators if they can't fix problems?

just_al

Joined: 4/13/2009
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someone help!! Posted: 9/1/2009 10:03:02 AM
sorry seal the above poster is not a site administrator and has no access to individual accounts, in the manner you speak they can however barr members who infringe in the forums. if you really, really want to make contact with this girl again your only viable legal option is make a note of members site name (or any that you want to remain in contact with) delete your account here...http://www.plentyoffish.com/deleteaccount.aspx make new account and resume contact. good luck

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