| Should I tell her hes a cheater!?
Posted: 9/1/2009 10:45:04 AM | | Ok so there is a guy I met online who has tried to go on a date with me and asked for naked pics (which I havent done!!!) and he added me on facebook! Well on there it says hes in a relationship which he said is an inside joke! but the girl writes him sweet messages and tells how much she misses him! Part of me feels like I should tell her what this man is up to (I would want to know!) but I really dont know if I should intrude! I have been cheated on and I just wish I could prevent this poor girl from getting hurt! | |
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| Should I tell her hes a cheater!?
Posted: 9/1/2009 10:52:01 AM | This happened to me and I stayed out of it.
In time, she'll figure it out on her own. Don't get involved with all this drama - you'll only come across as looking petty or jealous. | |
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| Should I tell her hes a cheater!?
Posted: 9/1/2009 10:52:27 AM |
and he added me on facebook!
OP, you allowed the guy to add you on FaceBook or he couldn't have added you. Delete is the solution if you do not want to be his friend. | |
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| Should I tell her hes a cheater!?
Posted: 9/1/2009 10:54:25 AM |
OP, you allowed the guy to add you on FaceBook or he couldn't have added you. Delete is the solution if you do not want to be his friend.
I added him before I knew the type of person he was! I fully plan on deleting him after I decide what to do about his GF (telling her or not!) | |
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| Should I tell her hes a cheater!?
Posted: 9/1/2009 10:55:39 AM | | If you just write something on his wall about him hitting on you in POF - his girlfriend will see it. . . and technically you didn't tell her anything. | |
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| Should I tell her hes a cheater!?
Posted: 9/1/2009 10:56:01 AM | I'd stay out of it, especially since you don't actually know the guy or the girl. If it was a friend it would be different. Just delete him.
or post an embarrassing message on his wall- along the lines of how you wont send him any naked pictures no matter how many times he asks so she can read it and figure it out for herself.
Then delete him.
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| Should I tell her hes a cheater!?
Posted: 9/1/2009 10:57:55 AM | | I agree with the others.....you should stay out of it... she'll most likely see you as someone who is jealous and trying to ruin things.....regardless it's never good...just be glad you dodged that bullet... | |
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| Should I tell her hes a cheater!?
Posted: 9/1/2009 11:00:18 AM | Hunt him down beat his ass.... seriously just delete him and add a post saying I wont send you any naked pictures because im a lady and you're a pig, and if the girl friend sees it and emails you then tell her.
Other than that, just delete the jerk, no need on bringing the girlfriend in, and if she reads his public post and she ignores it, then she's not that bright in the first place. | |
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| Should I tell her hes a cheater!?
Posted: 9/1/2009 11:03:06 AM | | I'd tell her. If they're not seriously dating then it will be no big deal. However if they are, she deserves to know. | |
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| Should I tell her hes a cheater!?
Posted: 9/1/2009 11:10:32 AM |
If you just write something on his wall about him hitting on you in POF - his girlfriend will see it. . . and technically you didn't tell her anything.
I like this one... In fact I had thought about that one myself... I don't have facebook, therefore I don't know how easy it is to delete messages off a wall... However I do think you TOO can write something sweet, sassy, and make a reference that you would have to know him a lot better for the PICTURES he's requested...
I guess I would wonder WHY he has added you, and has a GF, it would seem that if a person has a GF, they don't ADD someone to their face book page, but then again I suppose I am an oldster, who's a 12 o clock flasher, so I don't know how others think... | |
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| Should I tell her hes a cheater!?
Posted: 9/1/2009 11:11:44 AM | The mature and reasonable thing to do is just delete the guy and stay out of something you're not directly involved in.....I'm not saying asking for your nude pics was intelligent on his part but you haven't sent them so nothing has been done to you....
Move on and know next time not to allow an idiot to remain as a friend on FaceBook.... | |
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| Should I tell her hes a cheater!?
Posted: 9/1/2009 11:18:30 AM | hmm I'm loving this response!
Changed my mind totally!
Hunt him down beat his ass.... seriously just delete him and add a post saying I wont send you any naked pictures because im a lady and you're a pig, and if the girl friend sees it and emails you then tell her.
Other than that, just delete the jerk, no need on bringing the girlfriend in, and if she reads his public post and she ignores it, then she's not that bright in the first place.
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| Should I tell her hes a cheater!?
Posted: 9/1/2009 11:23:24 AM |
I just wish I could prevent this poor girl from getting hurt! You are asking if you should rat out a guy who you barely know to a woman who you don't know at all? Sounds very petty.
If you really feel like interceding, do what someone else suggested here, post something on his Facebook (like that is a real good source of information for other people, LOL). | |
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| Should I tell her hes a cheater!?
Posted: 9/1/2009 11:27:18 AM | | Unless you know one or the other person (well) - there is absolutely no reason for you to get involved. Even then, it would be dicey...... I've found people need no help starting shit on their own, rarely need outsiders help in doing so. | |
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| Should I tell her hes a cheater!?
Posted: 9/1/2009 11:54:21 AM | | The reason why you don't want to post it on his page is 1) yes he can delete it 2) if he's guilty he'll just play it off to her like he did to you. "Oh don't worry about it, it's an inside joke..." | |
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| Should I tell her hes a cheater!?
Posted: 9/1/2009 12:11:43 PM | don't hate the player, hate the game.
i mean really, what would you gain by doing this? it's nice that you wanna help someone but it's not gonna make a difference in the big scheme of things. | |
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| Should I tell her hes a cheater!?
Posted: 9/1/2009 12:51:27 PM | I would hope that someone would have the courage to tell ME if my boyfriend were acting like a jackass and hitting on everything that moves.
JMHO. | |
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| Should I tell her hes a cheater!?
Posted: 9/1/2009 1:01:51 PM | In this instance, I think I like the passive-aggressive approach, that being
leaving a message on his wall responding publically, revealing his private request for
naked pictures from you.
He wants to play games? Make him play by house rules.
If you saved the request from him, it could be his fall from the gf's grace
should she come to his pitiful defense.
Not saying I would absolutely take that road, but it sure would be tempting.
I'm just saying. | |
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| Should I tell her hes a cheater!?
Posted: 9/1/2009 1:05:47 PM | | I agree with the posting your response to his request on his wall. Block him from posting a response to yours. That way you tell not only the probable girlfriend but anyone else he might be attempting to play. Abusive behaviour thrives due to people minding their own business. If the girlfriend doesn't want to believe it and you get named a psycho, that's her choice: you can't tell people what to believe, only give them a chance to question it. | |
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