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| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 9/6/2009 6:25:59 AM | | I bet she is the kind of woman you see at the movie theater who when the movie ends and the lights come back on, gets up and walks out. I've often watched them leave and never could guess where they might be going to. In a week or so, they come back, but by then a different movie is playing. They sit back down, watch the movie, and sure enough, as soon as it's over, up and out they go again. | |
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| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 9/6/2009 6:27:17 AM | This female
First off WE know we are of the 'female' gender however much prefer being referred to as 'woman' or 'lady'. We do refer to your gender as 'men' not 'males' or 'pigs' or whatever else.
it understandably threw me for a loop when she revealed that after sex shed get up, take a shower, and leave. Such an action would appear to be rather abrupt and insensitive
Guess you haven't made the difference between a f**k, having sex or love making...maybe you should look into that a little deeper....
yet she willingly said that there really wasnt much wrong with his "performance"
Obviously there was something wrong...maybe her ex was one to want to put his penis in her ear all the time...
Because this one threw me for a loop, do you know of anyone or do you yourself ever find yourself doing this?
Mature people know the difference between the above-mentioned acts and need not question these things..
Get a grip and start recognizing the RED FLAGS.....  | |
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| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 9/6/2009 6:41:15 AM | mystic love your answers are a bit on the harsh side...what branch of the government do you work in....tax collection.
you seem to have missed all his concerns, but yet managed to attack his wording...
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op.... yes it does happen!
some women, just like men seem to cum and go......... | |
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| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 9/6/2009 7:22:11 AM | dogslife2live001 - Firstly, know that I am a straight shooter and do tell it like it is.
Secondly, I can see a 19-early 20s asking this type of question but c'mon now..did you check his age?
Thirdly, someone obviously hit a soft spot as the OP either removed of hid his profile....so to me that says a lot on what kind of person he is...
Let there be better posts.......... | |
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| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 9/6/2009 7:58:57 AM | I don't know; either I'm reading something different than everyone that's responded so far or there is a mass comprehension problem going on.
The OP did not have sex with this woman. They did not have a one night stand. He was not talking about himself. He stated she was telling him about her last relationship and what she did with her boyfriend.
To answer his question the way I understood it, what she did sucks. No pun intended. I think if either party in a relationship gets up and leaves, on a regular basis, after sex with the person they are in a relationship with, that person has emotional intimacy issues and probably should just stick to one night stands.
No, OP. I wouldn't do that. If I felt the need to flee, I shouldn't have been there or in that relationship in the first place. | |
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| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 9/6/2009 8:06:20 AM | | I would never just get up and leave afterwards unless he knew I had to leave before things got started. Get up and take a shower with him is very sexy. Snuggle up close and spend some time together makes it alot better. You don't have to say a word just enjoy your time together with some tender kisses . Men's arms are made for women to fit under. Try it ,it is a perfect fit. Put you head on his chest and one arm around him. Listen to his heart beat.It will tell you alot | |
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| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 9/6/2009 8:12:37 AM |  This is something a woman would ask about a man. And yes I've done it. I had things to do and people to do, I mean places to go and people to do... WELL you know what I mean. Life is fast and alot of us are in a hurry sometimes. It doesnt mean we dont care or we're using the men. Or maybe it does but not always.  | |
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| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 9/6/2009 8:23:27 AM | I like to get a few hours of sleep before I leave.
I don't see what the problem is. If they were in a relationship, then it's not a one night stand. Who cares when she goes home? When it's a one night stand, it is what it is.
Really, is there a rule? Like, you must put in the requisite "cuddle hour" or must stay for breakfast? When do we get to leave after we put out? | |
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| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 9/6/2009 8:28:44 AM | kuddle kitty
intimacy issues
I didn't read the OP incorrectly. A girl (or guy) might have intimacy issues in the beginning, but I certainly don't think that he/should just do ONS instead. I would still want a monogamous relationship. In that OP's described situation, we have no way of knowing how the boyfriend felt about his girl leaving after. Maybe he was fine with it. Could be she just sleeps better in her own bed and takes a bit longer to warming up to the idea of spending the night. Or maybe her b/f's place was just dirty (that might keep me away).
It could also be that there is a child involved (his or hers). | |
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| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 9/6/2009 9:33:44 AM | I used to do that, or worse, ask them to leave. I don't think it's very respectful of men (or women) and it's not conducive to a relationship. If you want just sex, it needs to out front so nobody gets hurt. I don't do this anymore as I want more. For me, it was wall that kept men (effectively) at bay. One also eventually learns that any walls they build are a sign of weakness, not strength and that those walls hold them prisoner rather than protecting them. It's good to be old =) lol.
You might want to ask her if that's her norm, why she does it, and if she has any problems not doing that...etc. Be up front with her how you feel about (not in terms of judging her past relationship, but in how your own will go). | |
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| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 9/6/2009 9:51:12 AM | did you not like her getting up and leaving well mayb you know how some of the females you done that to felt i have got up and left after sex was because i had things to do that were more important then laying up in that bed with that man at the time
so if you are feeling bad you must be feeling quilty about your past or may be she thought the sex was no good | |
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| Boyfriend and girlfriend, and she gets up and leaves right after the sex is over!
Posted: 9/6/2009 10:41:11 AM |
I don't do this anymore as I want more. For me, it was wall that kept men (effectively) at bay. One also eventually learns that any walls they build are a sign of weakness, not strength and that those walls hold them prisoner rather than protecting them. It's good to be old =) lol
FFO!!! I dropped my defenses years ago (in Trekkie terms), because they were keeping me from where I want to be. Says so right in my profile, that I did just one year ago.
Not sure if there is great wisdom in this approach, and its not without risk, but as one of the "olds" on this site, it's the most workable approach I can think of. If you want a soul mate to populate your solitude, why throw up fences in the path to your inner chambers?
I'm likin' this lady's thinking more and more.  | |
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. Just kidding. I don't get that either, I got stuff in my shower I like to use. Would be pretty hard for me to compromise on that.
