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 8567

Joined: 5/4/2008
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Posted: 9/10/2009 5:24:36 PM
People that lie from everything to anything. People who lie about being caucasian is my latest beef. What is up with wanting to be caucasian? I think it is ridiculous. Just be honest people. It is shows lack of self respect. Judt because you live around majority whites doesn't mean you are. It's just like the white guy who trys to be black or the white girl who trys to be mixed, mezo etc.........I don't care if it's a sensitive subject because it shouldn't be sensitive it should be seen as pathetic. I think if you can't be proud of your heritage than I should not respect you, and if you can't be honest about your race what else do you lie about.................everything?
 LBA26

Joined: 9/2/2009
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Posted: 9/10/2009 5:31:38 PM
hey come now hun, he could have been in a state of denial, maybe he really believed with every fiber of his being that he is white?
 abluestone2

Joined: 8/31/2009
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Posted: 9/10/2009 5:35:05 PM
I sense a MJ joke somewhere but its inapropriate.
 SoftAndHappy

Joined: 6/15/2009
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Posted: 9/10/2009 5:35:42 PM
Really??

I have yet to meet someone who lied about their race. That is a new one!! Wow... I guess I need to watch out for that now?!? Wow.
 NJRiser!

Joined: 4/24/2009
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Posted: 9/10/2009 5:40:11 PM
I have commented on the same thing! Looking at different profiles I see a lot of people that are apparently dark or mixed, that have caucasion in their profile. Some of them are asian or even look mexican. They have pics of their families next to them, sometimes the familly looks dark and or mexican. It would be interesting to hear explanations!.

Good topic Op! I always wanted to know as well, and if it stemed from a lack of pride about your heritage or you just feel that you are. I dont know!
 HalftimeDad

Joined: 5/29/2005
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Posted: 9/10/2009 5:43:30 PM
That's a weird one. Although I confess I've tried to convince my daughters that we're black. Apparently it caused real problems once they got to kindergarten.
 LBA26

Joined: 9/2/2009
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Posted: 9/10/2009 5:43:39 PM
ummm here's the thing... the general population is lazy, the default option is Caucasian therefor the automatically sign up as caucasian. those people isn't even serious about their profile... so don't bother with them. if the default is asian or black.. then u'd see a lot more of that.
 Wingsonmyfeet

Joined: 5/7/2008
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Posted: 9/10/2009 6:09:28 PM
The strangest one I've seen is black people saying they're middle eastern, however, I see a heck of a lot of native americans if I set search to indian
Maybe this section is just a little too confusing for some of us
 guyd42

Joined: 10/13/2008
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Posted: 9/10/2009 6:12:59 PM
“What is up with wanting to be caucasian?”

She must have dated Michael Jackson
 Pitch Blease

Joined: 3/4/2009
Msg: 10
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Posted: 9/10/2009 6:35:18 PM
I've seen profile pics of Fiddy Cent, Kanye West, JayZ, Lil Wayne, Samuel Jackson, Tyra Banks, Oprah, Michelle Obama and many more on this site. All had Caucasian as their choice. Who knew they were searching for dates??

I actually write people when I see such things. Samuel Jackson is the only one that returned my email. He's cool mofo like that.
 Jewlsey*

Joined: 1/24/2009
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Posted: 9/10/2009 7:24:44 PM
I know people who 'look' white but consider themselves black or native. They're mixed of course but have more family members who are black or native so that is what they identify with.
 SirThinkAlot

Joined: 4/21/2009
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Posted: 9/10/2009 7:38:08 PM
Not sure all would agree on the origination of all from Africa.
I believe some would point to the three "primary" race descriptors as "Caucasoid, Negroid, Mongoloid".
Color being only one value attached and at that not a definitive one. Bone structure, facial features and many others being more prominent.
The primaries extrapolate further into races that divide even as far as religion.
Anytime there is a separation of many generations that result in physical differences that are measurable, a value of race can be assigned.
No beneficial reason to be dishonest of race. No race is superior of others in all ways. Some have certain advantages as do others. Together we are all equal.
Except one.
There is a race that, at times, is the worst on this planet.
The human race.
 NJRiser!

Joined: 4/24/2009
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Posted: 9/10/2009 7:49:12 PM
^^^^You have a valid point and nicely written. It is also more than just complexion, forsenics study of bone structure and certain physical characteristics can determine the race of any human being. To say that it is just complexion is a little dismissive in my opinion of the big question on this thread.
 Mahogany-Rush

Joined: 7/23/2009
Msg: 14
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Posted: 9/10/2009 9:07:27 PM
And I thought starving children dying of malnutrition in third world countries had it rough, It must suck to be you OP, if you find a beef with some as$hole because he doesn't know the colour of skin, then I suspect life must suck for you?

Look , if he lies he LIES, ignore him, if he isnt proud of who is he, ignore him, kick him to the curb, who cares if he's not honest about his race, you know how many women on here do the same thing, and guess what, the sun comes up tomorrow, Obama is still president at least for the next 3 years, the Fiesta Bowl will be played on New Years Day and the Buffalo Bills still suck.

Forget about the liars and loser and concentrate on the good ones
 8567

Joined: 5/4/2008
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Posted: 9/10/2009 9:32:03 PM
It's called mixed race, or other and my mom looks like you and she is half scottish and czech,,,,nothing else,,,,,,,wazhiz........so it's just lame to make exscuses about stuff that is so obvious.
 LBA26

Joined: 9/2/2009
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Posted: 9/10/2009 9:34:28 PM
ummm scottish is white and czech is white so in the end you still have a caucasian lineage?
 8567

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Posted: 9/10/2009 9:35:13 PM
I have dated all races,,,,but never lied about my heritage and would never date someone who lied about thiers because I want to know the real person not the actor.
 LBA26

Joined: 9/2/2009
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Posted: 9/10/2009 9:38:02 PM
it's not lying if they didn't know they had selected selves as caucasian, didn't know what caucasian actually ment or in complete denial of their own heritage.
 thebugisback

Joined: 10/21/2007
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Posted: 9/10/2009 10:27:11 PM
Ok, I confess to being mixed. The thing is that I didn't know until I was an adult. My father was brought up to be ashamed of being Native American (his father) and passed as white. Whites used to treat Native Americans so badly that some "passed" as Mexican to get jobs in my grandfather's day. Since I've never experienced the bad part of what a Native American has gone thru it feels as though I would be seen as just another person that has decided being Native is cool and a way to get the few perks. I didn't earn any of it so I still call myself white.
 Helen0426

Joined: 6/2/2009
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Posted: 9/10/2009 10:39:11 PM

ummm here's the thing... the general population is lazy, the default option is Caucasian therefor the automatically sign up as caucasian. those people isn't even serious about their profile... so don't bother with them. if the default is asian or black.. then u'd see a lot more of that.

Bet you're right about that. I haven't noticed this, but I rarely look at the Ethnicity option unless someone is exotic enough that I'm curious, and then it usually says "Mixed."


The strangest one I've seen is black people saying they're middle eastern...

Middle Eastern people can be black! There's a tremendous range of feature, color, and hair with Middle Eastern ancestry.

And many Native Americans prefer "Indian." Or sometimes American Indian. I don't think I met one Native, when I visited Arizona, who didn't prefer "Indian." (I'm not sure what the reasoning is and I was afraid to ask.)
 HappyLibra70

Joined: 5/17/2009
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Posted: 9/10/2009 10:56:58 PM
Mh, there seems to be confusion as to the definitions of race and ethnicity, they are both two separate ways of identifying the human race. Perhaps if you googled both terms you would better understand why people who are "mexican" as an example can rightfully declare that they are "Caucasian" without them lying. And as a big bonus you will not be perceived as an...


Respectfully
 8567

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Posted: 9/10/2009 11:03:23 PM
I am Hispanic caucasian I know my own race. And I know many people seem to be ashamed of who they are and it is sad...and not cool. I am American caucasian...also, even if I go to China I am caucasian chinese........weird.....I already know what I am. The question is why do some people not like to be honest.
 Porckchops

Joined: 7/24/2009
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Posted: 9/10/2009 11:08:14 PM

I sense a MJ joke somewhere but its inapropriate.


That was my plan but you ruined it and you didn't even make the joke..... Shame on you.
 Sunsetstorm

Joined: 5/10/2009
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Posted: 9/10/2009 11:38:47 PM
lol re a ealier post re Tyra Banks being used as profile photos - the same man / woman whatevers behind it has it on ALLL the australian sites and its always sitting in the display top 100 as our men here cant even tell a well known actress
 NCPantherFan

Joined: 5/7/2009
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Posted: 9/11/2009 5:19:39 AM
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Posted: 9/10/2009 535 PM
The label of race in and of itself is absurd considering how at one point all humans originated from Africa - it's difficult, if not impossible to draw the line between for example calling a Pakistani "Asian" and a native Chinese person "Asian". Most people in north america would not consider the former to be Asian, whereas those from the UK consider Pakistanis to be Asian.


mmmmmm.....No.......Great grand father was Cherokee........and we didnot originate from Africa........
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