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 Bablynbrook

Joined: 11/18/2008
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Posted: 9/11/2009 10:19:19 AM
I have always been attracted to women. I think women are beautiful and although I am not attracted to most, I have ran across a few that have affected me. I have had a few encounters, but I dont think I could ever really switch, if you know what I mean. Now, it seems that there are a lot of men that love the thought of two women together, but there seems to be a rising trend (maybe from women who use it as shock value) that men are not as into a woman on woman situation as before. As men and women I would like to know what you think about the whole woman on woman thing.
 wayfarer4you

Joined: 3/24/2009
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Posted: 9/11/2009 10:37:32 AM
I'll bite on this one .
I was with someone who is bi.and we opened our bed to encounters with lady's she liked .
I will say it is fun but alot of work keeping up with everything going on .
With that said you dont have to switch sides to enjoy what a woman has to offer and as for shock Value Hell I'd dive in on it again if I get the chance .
I terms of nature it is not odd at all and many studies have been done on it (bi sex) .
 Phil2847

Joined: 8/10/2006
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Posted: 9/11/2009 10:43:38 AM
There is ABSOLUTELY "NOTHING" sexier than seeing to sexy women together!!!
 fakefella

Joined: 9/4/2009
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Posted: 9/11/2009 10:47:28 AM
Ya mean a guy being with two woman? At first it seems like a good idea. Then guys find out that they are the minor partner in bed. Still, I like the idea that one woman could be doing the cooking while the other does the cleaning. That's a pretty efficient system.
 Bablynbrook

Joined: 11/18/2008
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Posted: 9/11/2009 10:56:07 AM
Fakefella,

Its not about the guy being involved at all. I guess my question stems from a reaction I got from a guy I dated (a while ago) that actually found the thought of two women together revolting. But hey, but you get an A for being the stereotypical male that wants his women barefoot and in the kitchen.
 big pacific

Joined: 7/2/2009
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Posted: 9/11/2009 11:07:06 AM

but you get an A for being the stereotypical male that wants his women barefoot and in the kitchen


Does that mean you get an A for being a stereotypical 20 something girl using the girl on girl thing to get guys attention?
 colt8301

Joined: 10/25/2006
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Posted: 9/11/2009 11:09:22 AM
I'm mean it's cool whatever you floats, your boat, but i wouldn't be thrilled about dating a female that has those tendencies, because those tendencies don't just go away, it's cool to watch but I wouldn't waste my time with a bisexual. because sometime down the road she is always going to want something i don't have, and I'm not in to poligamist stuff.
 Bablynbrook

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Posted: 9/11/2009 11:12:43 AM
I was actually joking more than anything about being barefoot and in the kitchen. The fact is that I dont usually tell anyone I am dating that I like women...I like to keep it my thing. What I wanted was some honest reactions to my question. In no way am I trying to get guys attention by asking the question.
 damassteel

Joined: 7/22/2009
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Posted: 9/11/2009 11:14:32 AM
I'm certainly aware of the "girl on girl" thing, have been for years. I even tried it once with my wife and her best friend. I liked it, but it was more about having two women to work with than getting off watching them. Watching Girl on Girl porn does not do a thing for me. I know many guys are all over it, just not my cup of tea.
 farceur

Joined: 5/3/2009
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Posted: 9/11/2009 11:18:22 AM

I have always been attracted to women. I think women are beautiful and although I am not attracted to most, I have ran across a few that have affected me.
Hey, same here!


As men and women I would like to know what you think about the whole woman on woman thing.

I think it's being going on forever and will continue. There is nothing particularly interesting to me about two women naked together except for there being naked women involved, which can be interesting. It could be exciting or not, depending on what they do, if I'd seen it before, and the noises they made.
 sub girl wanted

Joined: 5/1/2008
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Posted: 9/11/2009 11:21:44 AM
Ive always liked that.I tried pushing my high school g/f into it..back in the 80's when that was as looked down upon(or at least never really talked about) as gay/bi guys.(I was way ahead of my time lol) I could tell she was interested,but she didnt have the guts to do it.Plus it was like...who would we ask?Anyway i was more successful with that later on.And its a major turn on..even just watching.Plus if a girl can orally please a woman,you know shes gonna be great on a guy!And ive also heard many girls complain their guys arent into that at all.So the thought that all guys love that is a myth,or at least when they actually think about it actually happening they might feel threatened,or jealous.Hell,i dunno.
 big pacific

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Posted: 9/11/2009 11:22:01 AM

I was actually joking more than anything about being barefoot and in the kitchen. The fact is that I dont usually tell anyone I am dating that I like women...I like to keep it my thing. What I wanted was some honest reactions to my question. In no way am I trying to get guys attention by asking the question.


That was actually my point lol. That he probably was kidding too.
 Sabrosura

Joined: 1/7/2009
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Posted: 9/11/2009 11:24:37 AM
Not for me. I don't judge those that want to test the waters or into this, but women do absolutely NOTHING for me intimately. I'd rather "shock" my man in other ways that have nothing do with another party involved.....................
 bluesandrock

Joined: 6/24/2009
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Posted: 9/11/2009 11:25:48 AM
The only time I would have issue with woman on woman is if I was in a monogamous relationship with one of the women involved. Other than that, do whatever makes you feel good.
 no_1_bby

Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 9/11/2009 11:35:29 AM

As men and women I would like to know what you think about the whole woman on woman thing.

If a woman is attracted to a woman, or man to a man, for the RIGHT REASONS, then more power to them. When it's done for someone else's benefit.. as in the bar-bi situation where two women will put on a show just to get a guy (or multiple guys) attention, then I think it's disgusting and wrong.

I find women to be beautiful, in all their many forms. I just could never find myself in a sexual relationship with one.
 winson1989

Joined: 7/19/2009
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Posted: 9/11/2009 11:46:58 AM
i find woman on woman sex very hot! i am sure many other guys feel the same way.
 Phil2847

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Posted: 9/11/2009 12:36:03 PM
I've been with two women....more than once.....and it was FANTASTIC!!! I was involved and then would relax and watch them go at it....but I NEVER felt like I was left out!!!
 m_church

Joined: 11/8/2007
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Posted: 9/11/2009 12:55:53 PM

Now, it seems that there are a lot of men that love the thought of two women together, but there seems to be a rising trend (maybe from women who use it as shock value) that men are not as into a woman on woman situation as before. As men and women I would like to know what you think about the whole woman on woman thing.

Lesbian porn doesn't do a thing for me....
Seeing two women getting it on together didn't either... I got up and went and got a beer....

As far as I'm concerned, if a woman wants another woman then she can have her... I'm gone... Also, people forget that lesbians can't wear condoms... they're a big part of the spread of STI's and so forth....
 DemonDingleBerry

Joined: 6/7/2009
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Posted: 9/11/2009 1:10:52 PM

As men and women I would like to know what you think about the whole woman on woman thing.

I've got my theories.
Such as:
A guy and a girl it's generally focused on specific areas. There's a separation. The penis acts like a pole keeping someone away.

Yet in my repornsearch it seems girl on girl they are just all over and as close as can be (random stranger lesbians won't let me watch no matter how nice I ask so I am speculating). Making out, hugging close, rubbing their entire bodies, it never has to end. There is no insecurity about what fits best where and how, physical compatibility, or finishing too quickly, or not getting hard, or maintaining it. Not to mention lack of the body hair shield.

So maybe it has something to do with girl on girl just representing a greater physical closeness and lack of insecurity. Just a big pile of moaning giggling flesh all up in there that really never has to end.

Maybe guys are just jealous of the closeness it represents. So it turns them on because they wish they could be as close sexually as the act represents or looks like. As it's more like two people just enjoying each others body completely for as long as they want rather than one person simply riding the other like a horse. Or there is more to it than the pole in the hole until the ejaculation.

That's what I think, right now.
 fakefella

Joined: 9/4/2009
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Posted: 9/11/2009 1:16:05 PM

I've been with two women....more than once.....and it was FANTASTIC!!! I was involved and then would relax and watch them go at it.


You mean go at the cooking and cleaning, right?
 Bablynbrook

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Posted: 9/11/2009 1:26:06 PM

You mean go at the cooking and cleaning, right?


I gotta admit, you are cracking me up

And REPORNSEARCH is my new favorite word
 Tim61

Joined: 3/2/2007
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Posted: 9/11/2009 2:15:33 PM
Yes I love to see Girl /Girl action, it's a real Turn On, as they would know what turns them on more, than any guy would be able to ? as they would know each other bodies being both Women , but also good to watch and learn from seeing G/G. just my thought.


On the other hand, I doubt that many women ? would like to see Guy /Guy action ? it's a Turn Off !!! for Me & Probably any other Straight Guys !!!


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 KW.Athlete

Joined: 5/21/2009
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Posted: 9/12/2009 11:27:29 AM
hmmm.... i guess im just a typical young adult man, but..... something is wrong for your ex thinking that you with another woman is revulting..

just the idea of a girl or a girlfriend being with one of her hot friends would be such a turn on, even if i wasn't involved! (ill gladly be the camera man lol)
 Lucky Leda

Joined: 9/6/2009
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Posted: 9/12/2009 2:27:13 PM

Yet in my repornsearch it seems girl on girl they are just all over and as close as can be (random stranger lesbians won't let me watch no matter how nice I ask so I am speculating). Making out, hugging close, rubbing their entire bodies, it never has to end. There is no insecurity about what fits best where and how, physical compatibility, or finishing too quickly, or not getting hard, or maintaining it. Not to mention lack of the body hair shield.


Must be refreshing to have such a small mind. What makes you think women together don't have feelings or insecurities? Same gender couples have issues with sexual incompatibilities as well as hetero couples. You have a wonderfully narrow minded view, that women don't need stimulation or arousal to participate in sexual acts. Do you think men have the market cornered on being aroused? Voyeuristic people usually find themselves living vicariously through others, how sad!


Depends on the context, too: two women in a commited relationship? Hey, none of my beeswax


How refreshing that two women making love isn't just a cheap thrill for everyone.
 Beminetonight

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Posted: 9/12/2009 2:45:48 PM
It's a power thing. Men getting off on seeing women being sexual, without the conflict of seeing another man involved. If there were a guy there, then obviously the viewer is going to say "He's got her, not me".

But when it's just women, he can always believe that if he stepped in, they'd both be all over him, and he could have his pick of either, or both.

If fake-lesbian stuff is falling out of fashion, maybe it's just that it's been overdone.
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